FabSwingers.com forum: Bumping into people

By *ublincouplereturn OP Couple
over a year ago

dublin

It's a big worry Bumping into people from the real world during fab times...I know everyone are there for the same reason but still can be awkward!

Anybody been in that situation & how did you deal with it & how was it after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a big worry Bumping into people from the real world during fab times...I know everyone are there for the same reason but still can be awkward!

Anybody been in that situation & how did you deal with it & how was it after?"

Happened to me two weeks ago i was ina shop infront of me was a guy i met he was with his son was praying to god he would not look behind him i did text him to say what happened he replied holy fuck lol

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Ireland is such a small place, it is inevitable that you could bump into someone you know along the way.

Hasn't happened to us yet but I know Stuart would be more nervous about it than I am.

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By *ublincouplereturn OP Couple
over a year ago

dublin

"It's a big worry Bumping into people from the real world during fab times...I know everyone are there for the same reason but still can be awkward!

Anybody been in that situation & how did you deal with it & how was it after?

Has it happened the other way around that at a fab party you met someone from the real world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened us few times and is only ackward if you make it ackward

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By *ublincouplereturn OP Couple
over a year ago

dublin

"Happened us few times and is only ackward if you make it ackward

How did you deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me on my single profile when I was here before. Turned up to a private party only for male half of one of the couples to recognise me. I was in the payroll department, I nearly died.

Ms curvy

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

all the years ive been at this its only happened twice that ive met people i know from the real world.

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

I once met one of my neighbours at a meetngreet. .. he was working in the bar... and another person was the bouncer who attended the gym I go to... on the same night... I just brushed it off and nothing was ever said afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened us few times and is only ackward if you make it ackward

How did you deal with it? "

Went over had drinks and have mutual respect for each others privacy .. no problems at all even have a giggle now and again about parties each other attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously have no idea what’s the problem with it. You know they swing. They know they swing. 5 minutes of weirdness and a chance to actually have friends in real life to chat about the lifestyle with. People in front of whom you can be truly yourself.

I know about people from my real life that are swinging. They don’t know I know. Or at least I don’t know that they know about me. I recognized them through their pics and through them being less discreet that I am. I keep details to myself. Will never tell them I know unless we meet in a swinging situation. Will shake hands, have a chat, exchange verifications and that is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in slightest bumping into some one on here in a non fab situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me last week, I went into a shop and the serving was someone I'd met. This was a small business and someone else was there. We just behaved professionally ... it is funny though when it happens

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By *ixpackCouple
over a year ago

South

We are always bumping into people we know in the real world at clubs etc. We never worried about it.

Now someone on here started working in my company. Meet them in the canteen the whole time. We get a giggle out of it!

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Happened us few times and is only ackward if you make it ackward

How did you deal with it?

Went over had drinks and have mutual respect for each others privacy .. no problems at all even have a giggle now and again about parties each other attending

Same for us and did the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into a guy I met on here at the weekend while shopping, the “bs” people tell you. He said he was single when we met, (no wedding ring on you see). As I was on my own, i thought I’d say hello to him, as he was standing on his own looking bored, he said hi and we started to chat. His wife walked up to him and said “who’s this Jay?” we’ll use Jay as his name for now.

“Oh this is Maggie” he replied, “she works in Admin”. I laughed at his feeble reason as to why he’d be chatting to me, wished him luck and walked away.

Not the first or probably the last time I’d bump into someone off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bumped into a guy I met on here at the weekend while shopping, the “bs” people tell you. He said he was single when we met, (no wedding ring on you see). As I was on my own, i thought I’d say hello to him, as he was standing on his own looking bored, he said hi and we started to chat. His wife walked up to him and said “who’s this Jay?” we’ll use Jay as his name for now.

“Oh this is Maggie” he replied, “she works in Admin”. I laughed at his feeble reason as to why he’d be chatting to me, wished him luck and walked away.

Not the first or probably the last time I’d bump into someone off here. "

I know Maggie from admin. Fecking tart and rubbish at her job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months ago we were in a club when someone from his work walked in, we all just kept our distance and that was that. Just over a week ago I (Mrs) got talking to a couple on here, long story short once face pics were shared it became obvious they were the couple we’d seen in the club and one of them was from his work. We spoke about it and they didn’t block us, we didn’t block them so we decided to be adults about it and got together in a club last weekend and had great sex. Happy days

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"We are always bumping into people we know in the real world at clubs etc. We never worried about it.

Now someone on here started working in my company. Meet them in the canteen the whole time. We get a giggle out of it! "

Haha that we do

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Iv met people out who I have met on here no problem we are on here for same reason just discression is what it all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bump into two ladies Ive met on Fabs all the time ,one of them we're friends so we just act normal,I say hello give her a nod/wave and a wink and be on me way the other I ignore her and let on I dont know her ,because thats the way she wants it ,so I respect her.Its no big deal any of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have but want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve meet loads of ppl I know. To date 2 girls I went to school with. One cpl who lived 2 miles way from me In a club. Madness!

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By *ixpackCouple
over a year ago

South

"We are always bumping into people we know in the real world at clubs etc. We never worried about it.

Now someone on here started working in my company. Meet them in the canteen the whole time. We get a giggle out of it!

Haha that we do

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