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By *etmebeurfantasy OP   Woman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasy OP   Woman
over a year ago

My town

Can people change,for the better or are they still the same. Charles Bronson is claiming he's a changed man after years of solitary confinement.

Do you believe it can happen?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people change,for the better or are they still the same. Charles Bronson is claiming he's a changed man after years of solitary confinement.

Do you believe it can happen?. "

In his case - no

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I believe we constantly change every new experience that life throws at us probably in my belief makes us change a little bit.

Whether there can be drastic intrinsic changes in our basic personality I don't know.

Certainly there have been people who have overcome addiction, and now council other addicts, and people who have committed horrendous crimes who now educate people and try to share their journey.

If I would trust somebody who has committed some very serious crimes in the past, I am not sure.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

He's a lunatic by the sound of him. I knew a young lad in a band named after him. I had to Google it at the time and I wondered why anyone would name their band after him. Apparently a lot of the "disaffected youff" look on him as a hero. There's just no accounting for taste.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

yep. I changed, then I changed again, then i changed again, then again and so on so forth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any change has to be a result of wanting to change yourself, changing to meet the needs and wants of others is only a temporary measure in my opinion, sometimes a bigger part of the issue is others wanting to change us. But, yes..in answer to your question, people can change, I'm sure serious mental health problems will influence to what degree for some.. Jesus loves me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people change,for the better or are they still the same. Charles Bronson is claiming he's a changed man after years of solitary confinement.

Do you believe it can happen?. "

Yes, I believe some people can over time and maybe with some professional help and life changes.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

That reminds me... How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb?

None. The bulb has to be willing to change itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people can change certain things but people like him will never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im changing cock pics constantly

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By *etmebeurfantasy OP   Woman
over a year ago

My town

For the likes of Charles Bronson I find it hard that he could change. Not only did he comment armed robbery but even in prison he's done violent things and keeped prisoners hostage. He's been in solitary confinement for years so getting out into society which he's hoping for would be very strange for him . A change of surname name and he thinks he's a reformed character

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Can people change,for the better or are they still the same. Charles Bronson is claiming he's a changed man after years of solitary confinement.

Do you believe it can happen?. "

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I believe circumstances like having kids can change people. Also with age, priorities change and consequently you change too...

..however in Charles Bronson's case, psychopaths don't change they just becoming more convincing that they've got empathy. At best, he made friends with the demons in his head ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your happy with who you are why change for anyone.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Not sure people can 'change'..but almost definitely people evolve, and hopefully for the better with lifes experiences..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheaters never change as for criminals some them would change for quieter life

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"If your happy with who you are why change for anyone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your happy with who you are why change for anyone. "
Thanks for agreeing with me.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Some people deserve second chances, some don't. Depends on the person and the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The jury's out but I'd approach with caution

I know I've opted for no second chances but that's my circumstances, my story. Yours I'm sure is different. Go with what's right

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By *reetimefun99Man
over a year ago

leinster

No people don't change, I think certain parts of their personality can diminish or be enhanced at different times during their life but fully change no. What's at the core will always be there good and bad

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Cheaters never change as for criminals some them would change for quieter life "

Nah, sorry Robbie. I'd be inclined to disagree with you. Cheaters can change.

I remember having a number of girlfriends who all cheated on me. By the time I met probably the nicest gf I've ever had, my previous experiences with past gfs had made me somewhat misogynistic towards women at the time.

I had developed a mindset where I figured they all cheat so I may as well do the same.

That nice gf I'm referring to, I know I broke her heart. At times I was also emotionally abusive. By the time I realised that not all women are the same and she was genuinely different it was too late.

But I vowed after that to never make the same mistakes or carry the same shame ever again and have stuck to it ever since.

I have never cheated since and always give my best in any relationship, exclusive or otherwise. That way if/when things don't work out I can keep my head up knowing I carried myself accordingly and gave my best.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Some people never change because they see no need nor want to.

Some people do or can change with the right motivation or if they have good enough reason/desire to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .People can change. Our behaviour is dictated by our brains. Our nrains are very maleable to change. It is very possible to "rewire" the brain. To suggest otherwise is not be ignorant of neuroplasticity and indulge in self confirming small sample bias confirmations.

The fact people can change does not inherently mean that does who say they have changed actually do.

Also for those who do change, they are still subject to the consequences of previous actions.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

Charles Bronson the actor ??? Or are you talking about Charles Manson ?? I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely change mentally and emotionally part of growing up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charles Bronson the actor ??? Or are you talking about Charles Manson ?? I'm confused "

Im assuming its manson, although there's a charles bronson that's known as the most notorious prisoner in england, it could very well be the actor also, have you seen some of the rubbish he's turned out I'm not sure whose alive or dead there

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula


"Charles Bronson the actor ??? Or are you talking about Charles Manson ?? I'm confused "

The Charles. Bronson, UK's most notorious prisoner, allegedly (!)

Got married last week,and apparently changed his ways. Good for him if he has.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Leopards

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

london -Dublin

I realy don’t know .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course people cab change given the right treatment and help. Always go by the quote every saint has a past every sinner has a future.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

Sorry I thought the op meant Charles Manson because he was in the news recently when he was brought to hospital, but he's died since I think ( I really shouldn't use Facebook as my news source !) . Didn't know about Charles Brunson , must google !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe people stay the same throughout their lives. That would mean that as a species we lack ability to learn from our experiences. Life is a journey and if someone is intelligent enough and has open mind to learn, then evolves after important to her/him experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I thought the op meant Charles Manson because he was in the news recently when he was brought to hospital, but he's died since I think ( I really shouldn't use Facebook as my news source !) . Didn't know about Charles Brunson , must google ! "

He died this week 83 so he’s definitely changed

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