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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread might not be the best put together thread but I hope people understand it a little. Before I joined this site I thought I had a dirty mind and was easily able to have casual sex but what I thought was casual sex was fwb where there's a friendship and almost daily contact etc..my mind have been blown by the real kinky world also on this to the point I'm googling terms I see here haha. Anyway did anyone else on here struggle to have casual sex a the start and how did they get over it? Like I mean if I have sex I feel kinda bonded with that person and even if I didn't want to be their partner I still get a little hurt when I see them with someone else? How do I get to he point where I just enjoy the sex and don't feel any emotions after? "

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Sometimes it's hard to not feel emotionally connected to the person caused you are sharing a very intimate moments with them...over time iv being able to separate the two but there's always a little thug at the heart when ye see a new viefie on there pages but that's life......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's hard to not feel emotionally connected to the person caused you are sharing a very intimate moments with them...over time iv being able to separate the two but there's always a little thug at the heart when ye see a new viefie on there pages but that's life......"
ya on my first day or two here I was chatting to another newbie and then logged on a day later and saw she was tag teamed that night and even though it was only a few texts I was actually a little sad. I think it's good for me, I think I discovered I'm way more innocent than I thought haha

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ye that can be hard I'd someone say they had to work and couldn't meet nx day a verfie from a couple on his page....that was the changing point from me made me realize what this site is about xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dishonesty like that will always hurt. I don't see why anyone would lie like that on this site. Everyone seems to be tough enough to take the truth here. And the most beautiful person in the world automatically becomes ugly to me when they lie to me.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Your a lovely lad it takes time but you'll do well on here.....I've no douth xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks but even if I don't, I don't mind. I still find this site extremely interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you either have it or you don't

The love chemicals that brew up after sex are probably stronger in some than in others.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ye that can be hard I'd someone say they had to work and couldn't meet nx day a verfie from a couple on his page....that was the changing point from me made me realize what this site is about xx"

That doesn't necessarily mean that they met on the day he couldn't meet you.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Ye that can be hard I'd someone say they had to work and couldn't meet nx day a verfie from a couple on his page....that was the changing point from me made me realize what this site is about xx

That doesn't necessarily mean that they met on the day he couldn't meet you. "
Yip it was he said he got a better off.....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ye that can be hard I'd someone say they had to work and couldn't meet nx day a verfie from a couple on his page....that was the changing point from me made me realize what this site is about xx

That doesn't necessarily mean that they met on the day he couldn't meet you. Yip it was he said he got a better off.....

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Oh, ok, I thought he said he had to work.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Sometimes it's hard to not feel emotionally connected to the person caused you are sharing a very intimate moments with them...over time iv being able to separate the two but there's always a little thug at the heart when ye see a new viefie on there pages but that's life......"

Good sex releases oxytocin into your body, makes you feel good, and you want more if it. It can be hard to fight that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you aren't asking for advice but -take it all with a pinch of salt and don't get too hung up on one person ,there are lots of great people here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you aren't asking for advice but -take it all with a pinch of salt and don't get too hung up on one person ,there are lots of great people here ."

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