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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc."

Oh this is going to be good...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc.

Oh this is going to be good...

I'm not so sure about that, my initial impression is that there wont be much of a take up here with this thread, I think the percentage of Women who do orgasm in this way is low..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it's only happened recently with one man. It's phenomenal but a rarity with most of the women i know. Outside stimulation is needed

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over a year ago

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

No can’t say I have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened once and once only.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I need extra stimulation and love it but I have never orgasmed through intercourse alone... I'll keep trying, practicing and sure you never know it might happen... either way i don't feel I'm missing out on anything. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some of us men need to be educated about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this."

Yes indeed some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do "

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Had it happen just a handful of times, but it doesn't put me off at all. Finishing her off in other ways is definitely not a problem.

Have to confess that in my younger and naiver times, I did think it was a dreadful thing, after taking from porno that it had to happen every damn time.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

Might hold off on that one. . What would the neighbours say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Ahhh I was on top when it happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had it happen just a handful of times, but it doesn't put me off at all. Finishing her off in other ways is definitely not a problem.

Have to confess that in my younger and naiver times, I did think it was a dreadful thing, after taking from porno that it had to happen every damn time."

So, are you saying that if the Lady is not brought to orgasm before the Man, then there is little likelihood of her cumming, unless its by her own hand so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

It'd take a brave man to put me in my place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

It'd take a brave man to put me in my place

excuse me for a sec, just have to bring this spider out the back

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

It'd take a brave man to put me in my place

Oh Nymphy I’d have to watch this lol he’d be running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

It'd take a brave man to put me in my place

Oh Nymphy I’d have to watch this lol he’d be running

Yeah

Several have tried & died

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Would you like to jump on the shaft there and show me how to do it right

It never works when I'm on top

Id enjoy putting you in your place

It'd take a brave man to put me in my place

Oh Nymphy I’d have to watch this lol he’d be running

Yeah

Several have tried & died

Haha I’ve seen big purp I can see why

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes I do, quite easily with the right position. Maybe the lads should educate themselves which position works best for women. Doggy style which is most guys favourite is the one that does the least for women.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do, quite easily with the right position. Maybe the lads should educate themselves which position works best for women. Doggy style which is most guys favourite is the one that does the least for women....."

Sage advice as always DH

It is all about position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a man's favourite but I know for me been on top is the best position

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Nope never.

I was recently told by a man that I was a weirdo because I didnt, Glad to see others are similar to me.

As for doggy... it gives me great access to my clit with my bullet vibe so I can have great orgasms this way.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

it's a man's favourite but I know for me been on top is the best position

Doggy would be mine, I don’t like on top or cowgirl either

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

Luckily I can every time if a man is well equipped only problem I've had is I've been told I get to wet or Cum too much and drown a guys erection kind of puts a girl off the mood a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't know there was a thing as too wet

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Had it happen just a handful of times, but it doesn't put me off at all. Finishing her off in other ways is definitely not a problem.

Have to confess that in my younger and naiver times, I did think it was a dreadful thing, after taking from porno that it had to happen every damn time.

So, are you saying that if the Lady is not brought to orgasm before the Man, then there is little likelihood of her cumming, unless its by her own hand so to speak."

Who said I was leaving it to her to finish herself off. You sir,have offended this gentleman more than you realise and I bid you adieu.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would imagine during a 3 hour session the kama sutra cums into play, or its going to be Onee boringly long session or short

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm not dismiss doggy altogether, it can be good fun and I'm sure there are many women loving doggy, but I've yet to hear from a woman who cums with doggy without additional stimulation.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

*I don't dismiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had it happen just a handful of times, but it doesn't put me off at all. Finishing her off in other ways is definitely not a problem.

Have to confess that in my younger and naiver times, I did think it was a dreadful thing, after taking from porno that it had to happen every damn time.

So, are you saying that if the Lady is not brought to orgasm before the Man, then there is little likelihood of her cumming, unless its by her own hand so to speak.

Who said I was leaving it to her to finish herself off. You sir,have offended this gentleman more than you realise and I bid you adieu."

Ah come back, your as mad as a brush, but I enjoy your input, I was speaking in general, generally when men come the passion goes.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I would imagine during a 3 hour session the kama sutra cums into play, or its going to be Onee boringly long session or short

You asked the question OP, so don't don't put answers down if you're really interested. A nervous changing position every two minutes doesn't help the cause either. And I really don't know why you're so hung up on 3 hours, four or five hours is fine too.

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By *0notout3Man
over a year ago

roaming

Just seen this post interesting

My take on this for what its worth

Is take your time build up the passion stimulate the mind let fantasy play its part

usally find if you put in the efford and take the ladys needs into consideration

It can be so rewarding for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would imagine during a 3 hour session the kama sutra cums into play, or its going to be Onee boringly long session or short

All I'm attempting to do is provide a topic for discussion, I think the question may be as equally informative to men as to women, probably moreso men, but within that we all bring our own sexual experiences into the discussion, im not too hung up on time frames, im flexible

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol "

..bitches...thats jennifer scarlett and meaghan deleted from my booty call list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

..bitches...thats jennifer scarlett and meaghan deleted from my booty call list..

I promise I won't fake it

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

..bitches...thats jennifer scarlett and meaghan deleted from my booty call list..

I promise I won't fake it

Pah haaaaa....did i not see you in a christmas panto once...you've destroyed my faith in women..ill trust their 'oohs' and 'ahhs' again..

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

..bitches...thats jennifer scarlett and meaghan deleted from my booty call list..

I promise I won't fake it

Pah haaaaa....did i not see you in a christmas panto once...you've destroyed my faith in women..ill trust their 'oohs' and 'ahhs' again..

*never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol "

Anal penetration with clit stimulation can be quite powerful.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

Anal penetration with clit stimulation can be quite powerful."

..hmmm..cant see it making the new volkswagon add that one..

.random.s.o.h.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's safe to say this is not the norm .. we ladies need alot of attention and even though you all have magic cocks more is needed. Secret to success ask the right questions and actually listen to what's been said instead of what you'd like to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

Anal penetration with clit stimulation can be quite powerful."

Yes that's true too ..mmmm been a while you've gave me flashbacks now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say this thread has flummoxed me..i genuinely thought it was quite common and that is not some sort of self promoting bullshit....have found it to be the norm..

.gotta stop dating actresses maybe...

Lol yes perhaps a few are faking it ... Clit stimulation with cock penentration definitely a real orgasm on its way lol

..bitches...thats jennifer scarlett and meaghan deleted from my booty call list..

I promise I won't fake it

Pah haaaaa....did i not see you in a christmas panto once...you've destroyed my faith in women..ill trust their 'oohs' and 'ahhs' again..

Ohhh the oohhs and ahhhhh are prob real don't lose hope lol ...it's the oh god I'm cumming part that could be fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's safe to say this is not the norm .. we ladies need alot of attention and even though you all have magic cocks more is needed. Secret to success ask the right questions and actually listen to what's been said instead of what you'd like to hear

But I don't think ye do ask the questions, I've seen umpteen threads on toy play but not one on cock penetration..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I don't think ye do ask the questions, I've seen umpteen threads on toy play but not one on cock penetration.."

That's very true. I know I enjoy toy play but my preference will always be a real life cock. Maybe we ladies need to be more vocal about what positions work for us. I love doggy but I won't cum from it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

But I don't think ye do ask the questions, I've seen umpteen threads on toy play but not one on cock penetration.."

I normally communicate what works best for me in one way or another but I've often made the experience that it falls on deaf ears. Anyhow the ability to listen and understand is a great meet selection criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc."

Yes and quite easily too, multiple times. Lucky me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of men who expect women will cum from penetration is staggering . Theses many fellas who think a nipple tweak is adequate foreplay and imagine 3 mins frantic rutting should create an orgasm for her just cos it did for him ! The truth is out there ; ask yourselves why you can’t get a repeat meet and rethink your gameplay , signed a woman who has never achieved an orgasm from penetration .

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes! Especially in certain positions with certain men. It all depends. But then again I don't cum from oral or just clit!

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

I do come only from penetration and I could do it every single time, need more time tho, but orgasm is way stronger tbh, I love it! Now if man cums first, it’s like a game over for me, very hard to cum be it oral,fingering and so on!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

According to the scientific gang, ye should pay attention to CAT. That's Coital Alignment Technique. Apparently it's the best chance of a woman having an orgasm through "regular" sex. In basic terms, the missionary position but the guy is a little further up, so that his pelvic bone is pressing against the clit and you don't pump, rather you slide down into her and back up and slide down and repeat. This provides constant stimulation to the clit as well as the vagina and increases her chance of orgasm through either clit or G spot.

Have done this before with a certain level of success, so I would recommend ye try it out.

Then report back to this thread on your results

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must say I'm amazed at the outcome, the highest percentage of ladies have never had an orgasm from penetrative sex. I wonder what that says about us guys? And I find it so interesting, here we are on a swingers/sex site where the gender ratio is so loaded in favour of the female, you got the power and control. Which begs the question, why are the ladies not getting the full and complete satisfaction in the bedroom? That includes a man and woman having an orgasm from penetrative sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to the scientific gang, ye should pay attention to CAT. That's Coital Alignment Technique. Apparently it's the best chance of a woman having an orgasm through "regular" sex. In basic terms, the missionary position but the guy is a little further up, so that his pelvic bone is pressing against the clit and you don't pump, rather you slide down into her and back up and slide down and repeat. This provides constant stimulation to the clit as well as the vagina and increases her chance of orgasm through either clit or G spot.

Have done this before with a certain level of success, so I would recommend ye try it out.

Then report back to this thread on your results

I think this theory should be tried out ... any volunteers to find out

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Have done this before with a certain level of success, so I would recommend ye try it out.

Then report back to this thread on your results

I think this theory should be tried out ... any volunteers to find out

I would but our schedules don't align unfortunately. I'll give it a go in London next weekend though and report back

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc."

yes i am but only a certain few men have managed to make it happen.. the ones that pay extra attention never fail

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc.

yes i am but only a certain few men have managed to make it happen.. the ones that pay extra attention never fail

I take your point, does the fact that its a meet with a stranger, more or less as opposed to a lover who has the time and opportunity to become familiar with your body have a part to play here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done this before with a certain level of success, so I would recommend ye try it out.

Then report back to this thread on your results

I think this theory should be tried out ... any volunteers to find out

I would but our schedules don't align unfortunately. I'll give it a go in London next weekend though and report back

I'll try it next week and I'll let you know .. this could be a great expirament

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I do. Not with every man I've been with. But I know now how and what works for me.

So with a little guidance it can happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do. Not with every man I've been with. But I know now how and what works for me.

So with a little guidance it can happen.

Would you like to share, this is valuable information

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I do. Not with every man I've been with. But I know now how and what works for me.

So with a little guidance it can happen.

Would you like to share, this is valuable information

Sure if I told you I'd have to kill you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do. Not with every man I've been with. But I know now how and what works for me.

So with a little guidance it can happen.

Would you like to share, this is valuable information

Sure if I told you I'd have to kill you.

Id take that chance if we were both coming together from penetrative sex

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Yes quiet often. Usually me on top. But with missionary and spoon sex too

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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

Im quite sensitive and have never had a problem cumming from penetration on its own, i always knew i was a weirdo lol

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I do. Not with every man I've been with. But I know now how and what works for me.

So with a little guidance it can happen.

Would you like to share, this is valuable information

Sure if I told you I'd have to kill you.

Id take that chance if we were both coming together from penetrative sex

Practice , practice practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely have I come from missionary position. But there are some positions where I know I will come (with no digital or other aids), me on top and I can come. Who knows though, I had one bf once who could control when he was coming and always orchestrated it so that we came at the same time, for two years. I began to think this was normal.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Rarely have I come from missionary position. But there are some positions where I know I will come (with no digital or other aids), me on top and I can come. Who knows though, I had one bf once who could control when he was coming and always orchestrated it so that we came at the same time, for two years. I began to think this was normal. "

See I'm not alone.!!!

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"My question is are you Women able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a Man and a Man only. No help from toys, fingers, oral etc.

yes i am but only a certain few men have managed to make it happen.. the ones that pay extra attention never fail

I take your point, does the fact that its a meet with a stranger, more or less as opposed to a lover who has the time and opportunity to become familiar with your body have a part to play here?"

it has been from a meet too i guess the trick is to read their body movements that can be a good gide and usual happens with the relaxed go with the flow sex.. body language during sex is easy to read but it works both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See I'm not alone.!!!

I've been in that position but it took time to get there, and it wasn't in an overnight bag.. its obviously a two way street we need to want to have the information, about what stimulates your bodies, and ye need to be clear and direct in transmitting that info.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

See I'm not alone.!!!

Maybe it's because I'm bossy and not afraid to say exactly what I want. As I said it didn't always happen . In a Domme sort of way controlled orgasms help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come from missionary - love it - all the neck kissing and rubbing cheeks turns me on, combined with some nice, deep, wet penetration.

Also love access to the clit in order to apply the bullet while having sex.

Main thing for me is to gently focus on enjoying it, with no pressure to orgasm - just let the body do its own thing.

A little can create a stimulating sensation too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also had a boyf who could control his coming - was great

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Ah the good old days! Yes I remember having that control and also with a long term gf who came easily, so usually had oral orgasm and then vaginal orgasm during sex, sometimes more than one.

However I'm not in that position anymore so, question for the ladies. I should probably start a new thread but as we're all on the same page, here will do.

How long does it usually take for your orgasm to hit, when in your preferred position?

Does having an orgasm through other methods before penetrative sex decrease the time it takes to cum again with the cock?

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over a year ago

Coming time : can vary a lot depending on my own horney ness, time within my monthly cycle, hydration, d*unkenness

Anywhere from 3-20 mins

2nd come after first - yes can be faster (-: can be almost instantaneous depending on variables.....

But a slow mooch around us very nice too .... all good really

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Coming time : can vary a lot depending on my own horney ness, time within my monthly cycle, hydration, d*unkenness

Anywhere from 3-20 mins

2nd come after first - yes can be faster (-: can be almost instantaneous depending on variables.....

But a slow mooch around us very nice too .... all good really "

Yes, my ancient history would suggest same. Depends a lot on where we are in the cycle.

Also find that an oral/finger/toy orgasm for the lady in advance will decrease the time to orgasm during sex.

3mins though. I may be in love

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Does happen but rarely

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I do come only from penetration and I could do it every single time, need more time tho, but orgasm is way stronger tbh, I love it! Now if man cums first, it’s like a game over for me, very hard to cum be it oral,fingering and so on! "

And this. A definite .mood killer!

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do "

Great learner, and, each and every lady is different.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the good old days! Yes I remember having that control and also with a long term gf who came easily, so usually had oral orgasm and then vaginal orgasm during sex, sometimes more than one.

However I'm not in that position anymore so, question for the ladies. I should probably start a new thread but as we're all on the same page, here will do.

How long does it usually take for your orgasm to hit, when in your preferred position?

Does having an orgasm through other methods before penetrative sex decrease the time it takes to cum again with the cock?"

If I'm aroused enough I'll cum quickly the first time. . I will cum again but it will take longer and lots of clit and g spot stimulation.... if a man hits the right spots with me ill cum more then once and I'll love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us men need to be educated about this.

Yes indeed some do

Great learner, and, each and every lady is different.

Complicated jigsaws but such satisfaction when it's complete

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

Ah the good old days! Yes I remember having that control and also with a long term gf who came easily, so usually had oral orgasm and then vaginal orgasm during sex, sometimes more than one.

However I'm not in that position anymore so, question for the ladies. I should probably start a new thread but as we're all on the same page, here will do.

How long does it usually take for your orgasm to hit, when in your preferred position?

Does having an orgasm through other methods before penetrative sex decrease the time it takes to cum again with the cock?

Love when the Lady reaches the Moment, more than once I might add, is a Big Turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a Health Information Update. Good news; sexual activity is very rarely heart-stopping. NO matter how good.

Sexual activity rarely leads to sudden heart attacks, new research suggests.

They found:

Of the cases examined, 34 cardiac arrests occured during or within one hour of sexual intercourse.

Compared with others who had sudden cardiac arrest. People with an arrest associated with sexual intercourse were more likely to be Male (94%)

One in 100 cases of cardiac arrest in Men was associated with sexual activity, compared with one in 1000 cases in Women.

The conclusion is the risk is very low, with the clear majority of cases confined to men. Which in light of this topic, suggests we are doing all the hard work, even if the ladies are not benefitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a Health Information Update. Good news; sexual activity is very rarely heart-stopping. NO matter how good.

Sexual activity rarely leads to sudden heart attacks, new research suggests.

They found:

Of the cases examined, 34 cardiac arrests occured during or within one hour of sexual intercourse.

Compared with others who had sudden cardiac arrest. People with an arrest associated with sexual intercourse were more likely to be Male (94%)

One in 100 cases of cardiac arrest in Men was associated with sexual activity, compared with one in 1000 cases in Women.

Lol ... guys common sense says avoid death and ask her what do you like

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

"Just a Health Information Update. Good news; sexual activity is very rarely heart-stopping. NO matter how good.

Sexual activity rarely leads to sudden heart attacks, new research suggests.

They found:

Of the cases examined, 34 cardiac arrests occured during or within one hour of sexual intercourse.

Compared with others who had sudden cardiac arrest. People with an arrest associated with sexual intercourse were more likely to be Male (94%)

One in 100 cases of cardiac arrest in Men was associated with sexual activity, compared with one in 1000 cases in Women.

Lol ... guys common sense says avoid death and ask her what do you like

Lol Its like asking for directions really... most guys are too cocky to ask and end up lost... or dead in this case

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I must say I'm amazed at the outcome, the highest percentage of ladies have never had an orgasm from penetrative sex. I wonder what that says about us guys? And I find it so interesting, here we are on a swingers/sex site where the gender ratio is so loaded in favour of the female, you got the power and control. Which begs the question, why are the ladies not getting the full and complete satisfaction in the bedroom? That includes a man and woman having an orgasm from penetrative sex."

I'd imagine the answer to that is a complex and a multifaceted one.

But who said that women don't get complete satisfaction? It just means that most women simply need some extra stimulation.

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over a year ago

I'd imagine the answer to that is a complex and a multifaceted one.

But who said that women don't get complete satisfaction? It just means that most women simply need some extra stimulation.

Everyone's complete satisfaction is very different to one another's. Some are very easily pleased some take bit longer, some maybe don't orgasm at all but still are satisfied, I have played and not had an orgasm but still had a satisfying night, sometimes I could cum in minutes others like you say I need more stimulation... All really depends on our bodies and minds at that particular time I think...all this talk today has me like a snail

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'd imagine the answer to that is a complex and a multifaceted one.

But who said that women don't get complete satisfaction? It just means that most women simply need some extra stimulation.

Like a Louis Vuitton handbag and Minola Blahnik pair of heels. Present them and she'll be dripping on the carpet

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Well said xx

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Have done this before with a certain level of success, so I would recommend ye try it out.

Then report back to this thread on your results

This works for me and C. She has started proper full on squirting as a result and soaking the sheets.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Statistically most women don't cum from penetration alone, some do but many do not.

Usually, as I have found through experience, they require extra stimulation and that is ok I think. I don't think it really matters how one achieves bringing a woman to the big "O" just so long as you achieve that end goal then that's the main thing, whether it's through penetration and/or other methods of stimulation.

The truth is that every woman is different and their bodies all respond in different ways to different methods. What works for one may not work for another, but that is the fun part I think, is exploring a woman's body searching for and discovering her erogeneous zones, seeing what works well for her and then building on it. I find no bigger turn on than actually seeing and getting a woman really turned on and bringing her to orgasm. Sometimes it can take a bit of trial and error but it is still fun whilst figuring it all out.

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