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"So i know this may be a minefeild, but I think that promoting the fact that women like sex as much as men will make it is a level playing field, less predatory . So why do women hide there desires ?? I know I'm setting myself up for some abuse , but I also know there is some serious intelligence out there too to make a proper debate . " I don't see any women hiding their desires on fab They may not tell every Tom dick and Harry about them They go about quietly and full fill them Now let the fun or drama commense | |||
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"So i know this may be a minefeild, but I think that promoting the fact that women like sex as much as men will make it is a level playing field, less predatory . So why do women hide there desires ?? I know I'm setting myself up for some abuse , but I also know there is some serious intelligence out there too to make a proper debate . I don't see any women hiding their desires on fab They may not tell every Tom dick and Harry about them They go about quietly and full fill them Now let the fun or drama commense" More power to them, I say. I believe the OP is referring to society in general though, probably not Fab specifically. In that regard, I would agree, once it is generally accepted that women can have similar libido to men, things may improve somewhat. However, I'm not convinced that it will prevent a certain predatory mindset among those who have it. | |||
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 unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well "This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already. | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well "Only in your mind None of my peers have that attitude in 2017 | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already. "With some exceptions, you being one of them, DH. I find that most women choose not to take the initiative in an overt way. They're way more subtle than that. Some are downright passive. They wait to be approached. How many posts do you see here where women complain about the quality of approaches that men make? There's not one single reason for this. The risk of being shamed is certainly a massive part of it? But if someone is judging you for being here, would you really want see them? What about the risk of rejection? | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well "I agree with this, when I had my first 3sum I was young and at the time everyone knew who was with who at the weekend etc, when people found out the two lads got high fives and I was called every name under the sun  so I kept the "real" me under wraps for a long time. It's always been the way in this backward country. Lads can all sit around talking about woman etc and even now I get looks about the crap that comes out of my mouth without realising who's in my company   .
I do think woman have come a long way with talking and fulfilling their desires but still abit to go in my opinion | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
Only in your mind
None of my peers have that attitude in 2017"Maybe the environment ur in has something to do with that but in rural Ireland I am afraid it is still prevalent | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
Only in your mind
None of my peers have that attitude in 2017
Maybe the environment ur in has something to do with that but in rural Ireland I am afraid it is still prevalent "There's probably a touch of that in rural everywhere where society is a little more traditional (and often too rigid) | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fulfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
Only in your mind
None of my peers have that attitude in 2017
Maybe the environment ur in has something to do with that but in rural Ireland I am afraid it is still prevalent
There's probably a touch of that in rural everywhere where society is a little more traditional (and often too rigid) "That's true and it there within the city's as well but possibly shaded more by the anominity forwarded by being in a city | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already. " | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already.
"So if I'm understanding this position, its the attitudes of some men that cause women not to openly express themselves. So for the sake of argument, lets remove those men from the site. Would that enable women to be more proactive? I think it would help but it wouldn't fix it. What about the proposition that its men are the risk takers and women are more risk averse? | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already.
So if I'm understanding this position, its the attitudes of some men that cause women not to openly express themselves. So for the sake of argument, lets remove those men from the site. Would that enable women to be more proactive? I think it would help but it wouldn't fix it. What about the proposition that its men are the risk takers and women are more risk averse? "I think on here it's a different story and the above applies to society in general. I only mentioned the dial a ride as an indicator of the attitude out there. If you're still struggling on here to express your desires and get them fulfilled, it is down to your self confidence and prudishness. But I would say there's also a good percentage of women who simply prefer the passive approach out of ease. | |||
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"In reality a woman seen to be promiscuous is a slapper and a guy is seen as a stud unfortunately that's the way society is and until that changes we always will have women afraid to express their sexual desires not to mind actively seeking them out and fullfill them.
Mind u there are some female predators here as well
This! Also if a woman expresses openly her desires is most likely regarded as game and exposes herself to all sorts of advances. The dial a ride attitude some have on here proves that already.
So if I'm understanding this position, its the attitudes of some men that cause women not to openly express themselves. So for the sake of argument, lets remove those men from the site. Would that enable women to be more proactive? I think it would help but it wouldn't fix it. What about the proposition that its men are the risk takers and women are more risk averse?
I think on here it's a different story and the above applies to society in general. I only mentioned the dial a ride as an indicator of the attitude out there.
If you're still struggling on here to express your desires and get them fulfilled, it is down to your self confidence and prudishness. But I would say there's also a good percentage of women who simply prefer the passive approach out of ease. "Yes I do agree there's a high percentage that choose the passive approach although there are a few that see something they like and they just go for it. I guess here they have the confidence of saying I want cock without prejudice on normal society, however such a statement in vanilla land would bring looks of distain and whispers out the sides of mouths | |||
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