FabSwingers.com forum: Age limit.

By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

So just looking at some profiles. Lots of teenagers 18/19yr olds. Do you think the age limit should be 25 and over. I've teenagers and they can't even find the washing machine never mind know how to work it!. So....

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"So just looking at some profiles. Lots of teenagers 18/19yr olds. Do you think the age limit should be 25 and over. I've teenagers and they can't even find the washing machine never mind know how to work it!. So....

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?"
find a vagina hole is easier then working different cycle settings on a washing machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?"

Think it's every 2 there own but for me I could be doing with the childness. What get me going is a ladies that knows what she want and gets it.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?find a vagina hole is easier then working different cycle settings on a washing machine "

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?

Think it's every 2 there own but for me I could be doing with the childness. What get me going is a ladies that knows what she want and gets it. "

But would you meet an 18yr old?.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

no it shouldn't be over 25s. why should it?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?

Think it's every 2 there own but for me I could be doing with the childness. What get me going is a ladies that knows what she want and gets it.

But would you meet an 18yr old?. "
absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think it should be 25. We have met cpls singles on our travels from 18 upwards and yes some are immature but for the most part they knew what they wanted .. let them explore and yes if they were a mature 18 we would have no problem meeting them

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"No I don't think it should be 25. We have met cpls singles on our travels from 18 upwards and yes some are immature but for the most part they knew what they wanted .. let them explore and yes if they were a mature 18 we would have no problem meeting them

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?"

Once they're over 18, they're adults and can do what they like as long as it's legal. I wouldn't meet them, but then again I doubt they'd want to meet me either. That's what filters are for.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?

Once they're over 18, they're adults and can do what they like as long as it's legal. I wouldn't meet them, but then again I doubt they'd want to meet me either. That's what filters are for. "

I know legally they are adults but mentally some are still kids and act like 5 yr olds.

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

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That's a very generalising comment.

I have lots of friends and colleges under 25 who are delightful, much more sexually aware than when I was 18 and very good fun to go out somewhere with.

Age is so person dependant like a lot of other things we generalise about and use it as a stereotype.

So let them fab! I'm just jealous they have such a head start on this kinder fun.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"That's a very generalising comment.

I have lots of friends and colleges under 25 who are delightful, much more sexually aware than when I was 18 and very good fun to go out somewhere with.

Age is so person dependant like a lot of other things we generalise about and use it as a stereotype.

So let them fab! I'm just jealous they have such a head start on this kinder fun.

Im Just going on my interaction with kids of that age group. Maybe it's the Mum in me. I wasn't generalising i was just posing the question.

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By *rancis0741Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

legally they may be adults but personally think inexperience/immaturity means they can be taken advantage of at that age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?

Think it's every 2 there own but for me I could be doing with the childness. What get me going is a ladies that knows what she want and gets it.

But would you meet an 18yr old?. "

Nope..... 28 minimum

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

Teenagers maybe not, but i joined here before i was 25.. your age limit would mean i never got to meet ann or have some amazing nights

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"legally they may be adults but personally think inexperience/immaturity means they can be taken advantage of at that age. "

Being taken advantage of can be an issue too.

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

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Im Just going on my interaction with kids of that age group. Maybe it's the Mum in me. I wasn't generalising i was just posing the question. "

Oh I know, you are right in that a large proportion can't make toast in a toaster haha. Just kidding.

I totally get were your coming from, I have 21 year old daughter who is a mum herself, scary stuff, she couldn't feed herself, I was worried. The amazing thing is, she learnt a lot quicker by trying and with a bit of support because the circumstances made her do so.

So actually maybe fabbers that age is a good thing. Because how are they ever going to "find the buttons on the washing machine" (great quote btw) without being shown and then trying themselves.....

What we are actually doing is training the next generation of fabbers to be sexually adequate, thus making many future relationships more stable and enjoyable.

If you think about it we are doing good in the world through swinging.

#StitchthatCatholicchurch

#tongueincheek

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Teenagers maybe not, but i joined here before i was 25.. your age limit would mean i never got to meet ann or have some amazing nights

Awwwww.

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

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"legally they may be adults but personally think inexperience/immaturity means they can be taken advantage of at that age.

Being taken advantage of can be an issue too.

That can apply to all ages. Common sense isn't common, the amount of threads that you can read anywhere online prove that.

Yes experience does help but age doesn't guarantee you have had the right experience to not be niave.

PS loving this thread. Lots of great sensible discussion.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Im Just going on my interaction with kids of that age group. Maybe it's the Mum in me. I wasn't generalising i was just posing the question.

Oh I know, you are right in that a large proportion can't make toast in a toaster haha. Just kidding.

So actually maybe fabbers that age is a good thing. Because how are they ever going to "find the buttons on the washing machine" (great quote btw) without being shown and then trying themselves.....

What we are actually doing is training the next generation of fabbers to be sexually adequate, thus making many future relationships more stable and enjoyable.

If you think about it we are doing good in the world through swinging.

#StitchthatCatholicchurch

#tongueincheek

Absolutely. I get all that, but would you meet a girl your daughters age?. I personally couldn't meet someone so young that it was possible for me to have given birth to. I wouldn't feel right. Just my POV.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Yes, if they have the right attitude

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Yes, if they have the right attitude"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, if they have the right attitude"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have met 20 something years old and we're very mature and had great fun with them . But 18 19 year young ones I would be kinda afraid to meet them way to young .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when we look at the age of 18 we think about how carefree life was and how life was about socialising with peers our own age. I can safely say there was a huge amount I didn't know sexually at that age and swinging was something funny you'd see in a sketch show about a bowl and key's being thrown in. Ancient aren't I?

I think as we get older we see how vulnerable we were because of what we didn't know. The mistakes and the laughs we had making those mistakes. It's life's experiences that make us and this site will give you those in abundance, good and bad.

On fab I have seen people, older, who are in a vulnerable and delicate state that I feel shouldn't be on here.

18 is all gravy in my opinion and everyone has the freedom to use age filters.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I think when we look at the age of 18 we think about how carefree life was and how life was about socialising with peers our own age. I can safely say there was a huge amount I didn't know sexually at that age and swinging was something funny you'd see in a sketch show about a bowl and key's being thrown in. Ancient aren't I?

On fab I have seen people, older, who are in a vulnerable and delicate state that I feel shouldn't be on here.

18 is all gravy in my opinion and everyone has the freedom to use age filters.

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it's like I always say. alot of males join here with sex in mind. swinging doesn't enter the mind. it's viewed as a site where you try pick up so sexual fun. whether you're 18 or 80 alot of men view it like that

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I've met some incredible lads on here that were under 25.....and I'd probably meet up with them again no problem......suppose I was just lucky.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to stick to the age limit I have on my profile

At the moment anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So yesterday people are complaining about guys in their 30s. Today others are asking for age limits. Can we not just meet who you choose to meet regardless of their age.

It is a swingers a place that is meant to be fun and enjoyable where can fulfill there fantasies and let themselves go.

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

Hope this post stays sane

I really don't think there should be an age limit. Its probably the naturalist (as opposed to supernaturalist) coming out in me. I think if its legal, then who are we to judge / ban / make things exclusive.

Personally I don't think I could be handling a young wan - as Tommy Tiernan says, 'it would be like fucking a salmon'. I much prefer the mature lady who knows what's happening, is emotionally secure and appreciates the sophistication of an older gentleman

Of course there are younger ladies who are more emotionally mature than some of their older compadres, but I think generally its a safer bet that the older you are the more mature you are.

Each to their own. No need to up the age limit. Sure tis all grand.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"So yesterday people are complaining about guys in their 30s. Today others are asking for age limits. Can we not just meet who you choose to meet regardless of their age.

It is a swingers a place that is meant to be fun and enjoyable where can fulfill there fantasies and let themselves go. "

I'm not asking for an age limit . My question was do you think there should be. It's just hypothetical .

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Hope this post stays sane

Of course there are younger ladies who are more emotionally mature than some of their older compadres, but I think generally its a safer bet that the older you are the more mature you are.

Each to their own. No need to up the age limit. Sure tis all grand.

I agree. I guess if I was in my thirties then my age preferences would be quiet different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope this post stays sane

Of course there are younger ladies who are more emotionally mature than some of their older compadres, but I think generally its a safer bet that the older you are the more mature you are.

Each to their own. No need to up the age limit. Sure tis all grand.

I agree. I guess if I was in my thirties then my age preferences would be quiet different.

One thing you can't do is stop aging..

Enjoy life while you can

18 is legal so the site is within the law, for me 30+ people that i've more in common with..

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Hope this post stays sane

Of course there are younger ladies who are more emotionally mature than some of their older compadres, but I think generally its a safer bet that the older you are the more mature you are.

Each to their own. No need to up the age limit. Sure tis all grand.

I agree. I guess if I was in my thirties then my age preferences would be quiet different.

One thing you can't do is stop aging..

Enjoy life while you can

18 is legal so the site is within the law, for me 30+ people that i've more in common with.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 50 year olds who act like 5 year olds. Their immaturity shines all over fab.

Set your own age preferences. The site allows that. And let others do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say I wouldn't restrict the age limit to over 25! 18 and 19 yr olds now are a lot more clued in than back in my day. They have access to to anything they want to know,especially sexual,at the touch of a button! Wether that's right or wrong I don't know,but I'd have loved that kind of info at that age! My only concern with meeting an 18/19 year old now would be,are they actually that age! Girls are far older looking now when they're dressed up! If they're 18 and want to experiment I say let them at it! Even on fab! It wouldn't be for me though...just my opinion! !

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By *igBlondeDomme OP Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I'd have to say I wouldn't restrict the age limit to over 25! 18 and 19 yr olds now are a lot more clued in than back in my day. They have access to to anything they want to know,especially sexual,at the touch of a button! Wether that's right or wrong I don't know,but I'd have loved that kind of info at that age! My only concern with meeting an 18/19 year old now would be,are they actually that age! Girls are far older looking now when they're dressed up! If they're 18 and want to experiment I say let them at it! Even on fab! It wouldn't be for me though...just my opinion! ! "

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Half your age + seven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some 18 year olds can act more mature than some 50 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?"

I suppose I can only speak for myself but many moons ago, I had a girlfriend whom was into swinging , I was in my late twenties. I was'nt ready for it then ,even though she tried her best to convince me .I cant speak for modern day teenagers, but Id be on the age limit side ,but then again what age limit ?

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Is fab and sites like it suitable for teenagers?"

Washing Machines - WOW - I just luv the odd tumble

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

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Not for a fab meet no, but that doesn't mean the site should have age restrictions. (Which was what the original question was)

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