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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork

While we regularly comment on threads here and it always seem to be the same commentators i think there is far more people who would like to comment to agree or disagree or sit on the fence on different threads.

I think it would be a great addition to the thread/topic or each individual comment to be able to, at the click of a button and anonymously,

Like, dislike or on the fence about a comment. If you feel strongly about it then the option to reply and quote is still there.

It would give a better figure on the number of people who visit a thread or topic.

Basically a Facebook style set up but liking or disliking a comment without revealing your profile.

On any given thread its usually 6 or 7 people replying in the whole thing. Would get more people involved.

HAVE YOU ANY SUGGESTIONS THAT YOU FEEL WOULD BENEFIT THE FORUMS?

That's my input.

Noel x

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"While we regularly comment on threads here and it always seem to be the same commentators i think there is far more people who would like to comment to agree or disagree or sit on the fence on different threads.

I think it would be a great addition to the thread/topic or each individual comment to be able to, at the click of a button and anonymously,

Like, dislike or on the fence about a comment. If you feel strongly about it then the option to reply and quote is still there.

It would give a better figure on the number of people who visit a thread or topic.

Basically a Facebook style set up but liking or disliking a comment without revealing your profile.

On any given thread its usually 6 or 7 people replying in the whole thing. Would get more people involved.

HAVE YOU ANY SUGGESTIONS THAT YOU FEEL WOULD BENEFIT THE FORUMS?

That's my input.

Noel x "

I think thats a great idea. Im guessing that eventually it would encourage "likers" to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great idea ,I think it would work,but its something the site owners could think about in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have more participation on the forum, and a broader range of topic issues up for discussion or just for the craic, I must say though, I do enjoy the banter and at times the madness, but I appreciate that might not be everyone's cup of tea, I'm probably one of the six or seven that you mention so the anonymity button wouldn't be applicable to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to participate, they can always, you know, comment. There's nobody stopping anyone from joining in

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

some people are afraid to post on threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people are afraid to post on threads "

Can I ask why you think that?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"some people are afraid to post on threads

Can I ask why you think that?"
for fear of ridicule or afraid it would cause confrontation. list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It think it would make few regular posters surprised to see their comments being voted down, especially when they hijack thread etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post "
it wouldn't

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't "

It might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post "

How is them clicking a like or dislike button encouraging anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post

How is them clicking a like or dislike button encouraging anything?"

You decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people are afraid to post on threads

Can I ask why you think that?for fear of ridicule or afraid it would cause confrontation. list goes on "

I don't think we give ourselves enough credit here, the vast majority of people here have plenty of cop on and can smell bullshit from a hundred paces, this maybe keyboard warrior interaction, and I can understand the scrutiny some posts and threads get are not palpable for some, having said that some peoples behaviour at times including my own need to be challenged, as much as it would in larger society, ya cant protect people from making mistakes, in my opinion.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't

It might"
no it wouldn't. if they want to post they know where the button is

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't

It mightno it wouldn't. if they want to post they know where the button is "

Ah but the like option is for the shallow end. Not everyone wants to dive in

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't

It mightno it wouldn't. if they want to post they know where the button is

Ah but the like option is for the shallow end. Not everyone wants to dive in "
encouraging them to like annon won't get them to post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people are afraid to post on threads

Can I ask why you think that?for fear of ridicule or afraid it would cause confrontation. list goes on

I don't think we give ourselves enough credit here, the vast majority of people here have plenty of cop on and can smell bullshit from a hundred paces, this maybe keyboard warrior interaction, and I can understand the scrutiny some posts and threads get are not palpable for some, having said that some peoples behaviour at times including my own need to be challenged, as much as it would in larger society, ya cant protect people from making mistakes, in my opinion."

Think you've got it in one Mr McCarthy

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't

It mightno it wouldn't. if they want to post they know where the button is

Ah but the like option is for the shallow end. Not everyone wants to dive in encouraging them to like annon won't get them to post "

Surely its worth a trial? Never know a lass might "like" you

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"some people are afraid to post on threads

Can I ask why you think that?for fear of ridicule or afraid it would cause confrontation. list goes on

I don't think we give ourselves enough credit here, the vast majority of people here have plenty of cop on and can smell bullshit from a hundred paces, this maybe keyboard warrior interaction, and I can understand the scrutiny some posts and threads get are not palpable for some, having said that some peoples behaviour at times including my own need to be challenged, as much as it would in larger society, ya cant protect people from making mistakes, in my opinion.

Think you've got it in one Mr McCarthy "

Look again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea and would encourage broader opinions and views. Encourage quieter members to post it wouldn't

It might"

We won't know though till its tried. I genuinely think it's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm clicking ,thumbs up. H

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people are afraid to post on threads "

I only started to post on the threads and post my own opinions on the forums. Some great a great response and other don't. But sure that's life.

Can please everyone all the time.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input "
what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that. "

oh its happened and i landed a 3 day bad for feck all only voicing my view .. some can dish but cant take it

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that.

oh its happened and i landed a 3 day bad for feck all only voicing my view .. some can dish but cant take it "
like a school playground telling tales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input "

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that.

oh its happened and i landed a 3 day bad for feck all only voicing my view .. some can dish but cant take it like a school playground telling tales "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that.

oh its happened and i landed a 3 day bad for feck all only voicing my view .. some can dish but cant take it "

Once you report a person for voicing there opinions. Then you have lost the argument, its cowardly, infantile and sickening. I'll bet they had got the guts to admit it to you. No they hide behind PC, H

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Wait.. You do realise you can be banned without anyone reporting you, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best keep your opinions to yourself on here, otherwise some cnut always gets ya banned ..such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to see some new Fabbers join in on some of the threads. Someone’s opinion is exactly that, their opinion and if you don’t agree with it, you debate and put your side across. Sometimes unfortunately, there’s people who like to have an opinion and shove it down your throat while their at it. There is also a lot of cutting remarks and some nasty things said about and to people but on the whole, I think it’s good natured and fun but would love to see more Fabbers get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people are afraid to post on threads

Can I ask why you think that?for fear of ridicule or afraid it would cause confrontation. list goes on

I don't think we give ourselves enough credit here, the vast majority of people here have plenty of cop on and can smell bullshit from a hundred paces, this maybe keyboard warrior interaction, and I can understand the scrutiny some posts and threads get are not palpable for some, having said that some peoples behaviour at times including my own need to be challenged, as much as it would in larger society, ya cant protect people from making mistakes, in my opinion.

Think you've got it in one Mr McCarthy

Look again"

Lol it is the wanking, making us women go blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the forums have become monotonous in the short mths ive been here.. im not as active on here much for the very reason. would be great to see new faces with new threads and input what livens up any forum is a bit of debate issue and confrontation. prob with that is you get people reporting and that's the end of that.

oh its happened and i landed a 3 day bad for feck all only voicing my view .. some can dish but cant take it

Once you report a person for voicing there opinions. Then you have lost the argument, its cowardly, infantile and sickening. I'll bet they had got the guts to admit it to you. No they hide behind PC, H"

They can report you all you like. You won't be banned unless you've actually broken site rules so I don't why people get so annoyed at being reported

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument. "

well said

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By *pforit74Man
over a year ago

a secluded seaside cottage, ballybunion,


"The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument. "

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula


"The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument. "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm not sure you can do anything to change it very much. You could ban all the current posters and let an entirely new group take over but very shortly it will end up the exact same again. The numbers who post here have always been small a you always have the same types. It's a reflection of human life in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument.

"

hi jacking threads well I never........

I hope NI put up a good show tonight

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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork


"The forums have become boring in the last few months, it's the same people commenting the whole time and the same people having the same argument over something petty. Maybe if people didn't always hijack a thread then it might encourage more people to participate in the discussion instead of them being brought into an argument.

"

??

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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork

Some good points there alright. Always room for improvement on everything i guess.

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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago

Cork / Wexford

Well if it's not tried out how are we to know. Let a hope the Fan higher ups and reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who is relatively new here, as yet unverified and rarely comments,I can honestly say it's because at times certain threads don't interest me! A lot of the time (but not always ) the ones that are worth joining in end up with smart comments or some sort of argument and tbh I just exit that topic and scroll down til I find something else.

I really enjoy a healthy debate and would always encourage interaction but have no desire to get into a petty disagreement with strangers. Especially anonymous ones! Having said that I do enjoy the forums and I reckon a like & dislike button would make it easier for people like me to participate more!! An ice breaker,so to speak! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure you can do anything to change it very much. You could ban all the current posters and let an entirely new group take over but very shortly it will end up the exact same again. The numbers who post here have always been small a you always have the same types. It's a reflection of human life in general. "

Deep in thought there Mick

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira


"As someone who is relatively new here, as yet unverified and rarely comments,I can honestly say it's because at times certain threads don't interest me! A lot of the time (but not always ) the ones that are worth joining in end up with smart comments or some sort of argument and tbh I just exit that topic and scroll down til I find something else.

I really enjoy a healthy debate and would always encourage interaction but have no desire to get into a petty disagreement with strangers. Especially anonymous ones! Having said that I do enjoy the forums and I reckon a like & dislike button would make it easier for people like me to participate more!! An ice breaker,so to speak! ! "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I'm not sure you can do anything to change it very much. You could ban all the current posters and let an entirely new group take over but very shortly it will end up the exact same again. The numbers who post here have always been small a you always have the same types. It's a reflection of human life in general.

Deep in thought there Mick "

Balls deep!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"As someone who is relatively new here, as yet unverified and rarely comments,I can honestly say it's because at times certain threads don't interest me! A lot of the time (but not always ) the ones that are worth joining in end up with smart comments or some sort of argument and tbh I just exit that topic and scroll down til I find something else.

I really enjoy a healthy debate and would always encourage interaction but have no desire to get into a petty disagreement with strangers. Especially anonymous ones! Having said that I do enjoy the forums and I reckon a like & dislike button would make it easier for people like me to participate more!! An ice breaker,so to speak! ! "

Well said

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"As someone who is relatively new here, as yet unverified and rarely comments,I can honestly say it's because at times certain threads don't interest me! A lot of the time (but not always ) the ones that are worth joining in end up with smart comments or some sort of argument and tbh I just exit that topic and scroll down til I find something else.

I really enjoy a healthy debate and would always encourage interaction but have no desire to get into a petty disagreement with strangers. Especially anonymous ones! Having said that I do enjoy the forums and I reckon a like & dislike button would make it easier for people like me to participate more!! An ice breaker,so to speak! ! "

Sometimes you have to hit upon a thread at the right time. And sometimes you miss your window and the thread's gone to shit and then you couldn't be arsed even typing up a response.

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Oh and on topic, so what the OP is saying is like Reddit? Comments and threads can be upvoted or downvoted so the dregs sit at the bottom?

There are pros and cons for that. Interesting though.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Oh and on topic, so what the OP is saying is like Reddit? Comments and threads can be upvoted or downvoted so the dregs sit at the bottom?

There are pros and cons for that. Interesting though. "

Well the people with multiple profiles will love the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is relatively new here, as yet unverified and rarely comments,I can honestly say it's because at times certain threads don't interest me! A lot of the time (but not always ) the ones that are worth joining in end up with smart comments or some sort of argument and tbh I just exit that topic and scroll down til I find something else.

I really enjoy a healthy debate and would always encourage interaction but have no desire to get into a petty disagreement with strangers. Especially anonymous ones! Having said that I do enjoy the forums and I reckon a like & dislike button would make it easier for people like me to participate more!! An ice breaker,so to speak! !

Sometimes you have to hit upon a thread at the right time. And sometimes you miss your window and the thread's gone to shit and then you couldn't be arsed even typing up a response."

Very true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on another forum on another site where there was an option to 'like' a post and 'star' a thread. At the end of every month the top ten list of each was published. And even a simple thing like that caused arguments over cliques voting for their friends and people complaining that their topics didn't get voted for.

It was quite interesting though to see which topics were starred and which post got post of the month. The winners got a couple of days of free membership as a prize.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Oh and on topic, so what the OP is saying is like Reddit? Comments and threads can be upvoted or downvoted so the dregs sit at the bottom?

There are pros and cons for that. Interesting though. "

Given the tribalism that is rampant here, I don't think it would work.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

The forum is for fun topics you don't take it to seriously .

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