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"Because my wife blames herself already and I’m not adding more stress on her lap " Does she know you are on here? If she doesn't and you are concerned of adding more to her stress, why are you on here? | |||
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"I’m here cause I need releases I need not say wrong things I need fun " There is nothing wrong with needing release, however is honesty not something you value? | |||
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"In an ideal world yes In real world it don’t happen " Agreed it doesn't happen sometimes. Of course, it is a choice thing isn't it? | |||
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"my wife whom is brill has now zero sex drive nor interest due to a bad health run last few years , which i fully surport her through , but i have needs too , am i wrong for been here ?" No one is here to judge anyone we are all here for our own reasons.. best of luck in whatever you decide.. and hope your wife gets better soon | |||
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"There is no question in it, what you are doing is a disservice and in fact a cruel thing to your wife. The “I have needs” argument is thrown around a lot, have a wank, get a fleshlight both of these things could be brought into your marriage which might lead to her getting more interested. What you are doing is 100% selfish, wrong, unfaithful and cruel. Please know that this is not a judgment from me but an accurate answer to a very simple question. My advice from 15 years of very happy marriage is to be open and kind with her, talk it through in a non accusing manner and tell her you need to relieve yourself more and would love her to be involved even if it’s only to rub your chest and kiss you." Well said that couple. | |||
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"There is no question in it, what you are doing is a disservice and in fact a cruel thing to your wife. The “I have needs” argument is thrown around a lot, have a wank, get a fleshlight both of these things could be brought into your marriage which might lead to her getting more interested. What you are doing is 100% selfish, wrong, unfaithful and cruel. Please know that this is not a judgment from me but an accurate answer to a very simple question. My advice from 15 years of very happy marriage is to be open and kind with her, talk it through in a non accusing manner and tell her you need to relieve yourself more and would love her to be involved even if it’s only to rub your chest and kiss you." So my wife who has just gotten over breast cancer and had a heart attack wil prefer me wanking beside her just so that I’m honest She has lost both her breasts and feels a failure , for record I’ve never once thought less off her ever Do you not think that would make her more self conscious and I agree I am selfish | |||
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"Divorce her mate " This is quite possibly the worst and hurtful comment ive ever read... my god... did you not read the woman had breast cancer and a heart attach.. My god.... fucking hell that put me in the horrors | |||
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"Divorce her mate " Ha ...that answer needed to be told. Trolling forums looking for justification. | |||
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"I'll give you a straight answer, from my perspective or judgement, seen as you ask. Consider the possible unwanted consequences that may be attached to your behaviour, such as divorce, loss of parental control, loss of social standing, distribution of assets, not to mention the loss of someone you obviously love, the reality is you are already lying, manipulating and keeping important secrets from a woman you care about, the longer you remain here the more entrenched that will become. Cheating does not have to be the only logical solution to your relationship or other life problems. How about actually talking to your wife about what your feeling, and how the two of you may be able to craft a more fulfilling relationship..this information was hard learned on my behalf.. " well said.. | |||
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"Divorce her mate Ha ...that answer needed to be told. Trolling forums looking for justification. " Trolling forums ??? Really ??? | |||
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"Divorce her mate Ha ...that answer needed to be told. Trolling forums looking for justification. Trolling forums ??? Really ???" There is no doubt that your wife has been through an awful lot. Makes your needs look quite petty though, doesn't it? Can't you just go without after thinking about everything she has gone through? | |||
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"Divorce her mate Ha ...that answer needed to be told. Trolling forums looking for justification. Trolling forums ??? Really ??? There is no doubt that your wife has been through an awful lot. Im thankful off all advice positive and negative And no I’m not ready to go without and I’m not looking to fuck around but flirting is a change from hospitals and it gives me strength to make her laugh Sad I kno but if I can leave her without burden I’m happy Makes your needs look quite petty though, doesn't it? Can't you just go without after thinking about everything she has gone through?" | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you." Most definitely. She has had to fight for her life, but he has needs. Speechless really. | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you." Thank you | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you. Most definitely. She has had to fight for her life, but he has needs. Speechless really." ditto plus give her back her panties and you havent mentioned once being gay/bi thats not an itch that any woman will scratch for you . | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you. Most definitely. She has had to fight for her life, but he has needs. Speechless really. ditto plus give her back her panties and you havent mentioned once being gay/bi thats not an itch that any woman will scratch for you ." For starters they are not hers and I don’t recall asking anyone to scratch ohh and I didn’t kno u spoke for everyone in world | |||
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"my wife whom is brill has now zero sex drive nor interest due to a bad health run last few years , which i fully surport her through , but i have needs too , am i wrong for been here ?" Not turned out the way you thought hey?? These things never turn out well. | |||
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"There is no question in it, what you are doing is a disservice and in fact a cruel thing to your wife. The “I have needs” argument is thrown around a lot, have a wank, get a fleshlight both of these things could be brought into your marriage which might lead to her getting more interested. What you are doing is 100% selfish, wrong, unfaithful and cruel. Please know that this is not a judgment from me but an accurate answer to a very simple question. My advice from 15 years of very happy marriage is to be open and kind with her, talk it through in a non accusing manner and tell her you need to relieve yourself more and would love her to be involved even if it’s only to rub your chest and kiss you. So my wife who has just gotten over breast cancer and had a heart attack wil prefer me wanking beside her just so that I’m honest She has lost both her breasts and feels a failure , for record I’ve never once thought less off her ever Do you not think that would make her more self conscious and I agree I am selfish " OP, if you don't mind me saying you are giving a lot of very personal information about your circumstances, you obviously have more than yourself to consider here | |||
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"There is no question in it, what you are doing is a disservice and in fact a cruel thing to your wife. The “I have needs” argument is thrown around a lot, have a wank, get a fleshlight both of these things could be brought into your marriage which might lead to her getting more interested. What you are doing is 100% selfish, wrong, unfaithful and cruel. Please know that this is not a judgment from me but an accurate answer to a very simple question. My advice from 15 years of very happy marriage is to be open and kind with her, talk it through in a non accusing manner and tell her you need to relieve yourself more and would love her to be involved even if it’s only to rub your chest and kiss you. So my wife who has just gotten over breast cancer and had a heart attack wil prefer me wanking beside her just so that I’m honest She has lost both her breasts and feels a failure , for record I’ve never once thought less off her ever Do you not think that would make her more self conscious and I agree I am selfish " I can't believe you're even asking these questions... You're wife has been so ill and your concern is your need to cum, so you're looking for people to tell you it's ok that you fuck someone behind her back.... You are 100% in the wrong for this! You think working hard on making your wife feel sexy after losing her breasts to cancer is going to make her feel worse than finding out her husband is on a swingers site fucking people behind her back and discussing her illness?!! Have a wank, yes beside her,or go into another room, tell her you're doing it... Talk to her, not to a site full of people you don't know because we don't matter nor doesnout opionion.... Your wife does and so does her opinion!! | |||
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"It is actually beyond me how anybody could air such tragic and personal details on the public forum of a swingers site. We are fucked up as a society where advice is being sought and probably taken from anonymous (mostly)strangers on an internet site. Probably no coincidence that the issue being aired is not the real one (his wife's health and well being)but the rather inconsequential one of the OP's next leg over." | |||
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"Way to go OP!.... Just when your wife has gone through probably the most fearful time of her life, survived and is trying to recover, you pull out the old “well I have needs” card!?... When she needs and expects your understanding and support while she’s going through such low self esteem about how she looks/feels, you feel the need to justify yourself being here and wanting to fuck other people because of her low libido after surgery... Can you even imagine how she would feel if she found out what you’re trying to do?? (Her self esteem couldn’t get any lower, and realising her ‘Rock’ and love of her life really isn’t) I applaud you sir! You really are a steadfast and strong person, who’s family always comes first when you’re needed most! " This | |||
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"I'll give you a straight answer, from my perspective or judgement, seen as you ask. Consider the possible unwanted consequences that may be attached to your behaviour, such as divorce, loss of parental control, loss of social standing, distribution of assets, not to mention the loss of someone you obviously love, the reality is you are already lying, manipulating and keeping important secrets from a woman you care about, the longer you remain here the more entrenched that will become. Cheating does not have to be the only logical solution to your relationship or other life problems. How about actually talking to your wife about what your feeling, and how the two of you may be able to craft a more fulfilling relationship..this information was hard learned on my behalf.. " You normally post crap constantly but have to say this is spot on As for you OP I think your a coward and you don’t deserve your wife. After what she’s going through her needs should come first no matter what. You need to suck it up and do what your suppose to do and that’s to be her husband. I hope she gets her life and confidence back and leaves your sorry excuse of man | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you. Most definitely. She has had to fight for her life, but he has needs. Speechless really. ditto plus give her back her panties and you havent mentioned once being gay/bi thats not an itch that any woman will scratch for you . For starters they are not hers and I don’t recall asking anyone to scratch ohh and I didn’t kno u spoke for everyone in world" Are they her sister's? | |||
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"If it’s true that she has gone through all this and you are just feeling put out because of a lack of pussy you probably deserve not to get any meets and she is better off without you. Most definitely. She has had to fight for her life, but he has needs. Speechless really. ditto plus give her back her panties and you havent mentioned once being gay/bi thats not an itch that any woman will scratch for you . For starters they are not hers and I don’t recall asking anyone to scratch ohh and I didn’t kno u spoke for everyone in world Are they her sister's? " | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads " Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you " I suppose you have never cheated or been with married folk before | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you " exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you I suppose you have never cheated or been with married folk before " No I actually haven't , I would never be a someone's mistress, I have never cheated either, I don't see the point in cheating, if I was unhappy I would leave my relationship! | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you I suppose you have never cheated or been with married folk before " It's not about being with someone whos married . Its about common decency. | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister " I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" " I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock" | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock" After seeing his thread about his wife’s sister I’m inclined to agree with you | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock" Im not so sure, I think anyone who can wear such horrendous knickers, is more than capable of making some outrageous decisions. | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you " | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock" And an over active imagination. Sad wanker! | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock And an over active imagination. Sad wanker! " And of course the usual suspects in here getting their knickers' in a twist | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock And an over active imagination. Sad wanker! And of course the usual suspects in here getting their knickers' in a twist" This is turning into a knickers thread In fairness the story gathered momentum. From a woman's point of view when breast cancer is mentioned that's an all time low. | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock And an over active imagination. Sad wanker! And of course the usual suspects in here getting their knickers' in a twist This is turning into a knickers thread In fairness the story gathered momentum. From a woman's point of view when breast cancer is mentioned that's an all time low." If only some of the womens knickers could be at an all time low, preferably around the ankles | |||
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"There judgemental asf on here lad bad place put up thread like this too bad cant delete threads Yeah imagine people thinking badly about a man cheating on his wife after having her breasts removed to stop cancer from spreading through her body and killing her and the the audacity of her to have a heart attack on top of all that because this man had needs! How is everyone on this forum not seeing things from his point of you exactly and yet hope springs eternal...as even though he has all this anguish and pain he struggles thru to start another thread about his wifes sister I haven't seen it His poor wife, I don't know her, yet I can't help feeling empathy for her , what she's going through and the lack of support from her "husband" I don't think there is an actual 'wife', just a fantasist and an over-wanked cock And an over active imagination. Sad wanker! And of course the usual suspects in here getting their knickers' in a twist This is turning into a knickers thread In fairness the story gathered momentum. From a woman's point of view when breast cancer is mentioned that's an all time low. If only some of the womens knickers could be at an all time low, preferably around the ankles " Stop.... you're giving the OP ideas. | |||
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