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"I guess so everyone knows where they stand. Playing devil's advocate here, but why is it necessary to be dishonest if it's only recreational sex?" Agreed on this one. Yes...its recreational sex ...but I would not have recreational sex with a nut job, and honesty kinda limits the chances that you're a nut job. Also like to know if there are any things I need to be aware of up front. Getting battered by a jealous spouse when you know about them before hand is completely different to getting battered when you thought all was kosher. | |||
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"Probably more to do with playing safe then wanting to know every detail of your life. Nobody’s that interesting Going by most posts on this issues I'd say it's less about playing safe but seems to be much more about moral issues and filtering issues like age, married but single etc etc." Guess your right to an extent but I find here most people use the site filters for one thing then they use their own personal filter system on people to decide on if it’s a good idea to meet someone. I’d doubt if 20 per cent of profiles here are fully truthful. | |||
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"Probably more to do with playing safe then wanting to know every detail of your life. Nobody’s that interesting Going by most posts on this issues I'd say it's less about playing safe but seems to be much more about moral issues and filtering issues like age, married but single etc etc." | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. " What she said! | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. What she said!" ^^^^ 100% agree ladies | |||
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"I think it's advisable to take everything with a pinch of salt on here or in other words that you're being lied at in one way or another says it age, location, body height etc. In my humble opinion most of those lies are forgivable as we're making connections with complete strangers over the internet and it's only advisable to protect yourself and your identity because you don't know at the beginning who you're dealing with. From my experience as more tolerable you are in dealing with such particular lies as more likely you eventually will hear the truth or the other way around the more self righteous you behave the more you're being lied at. " Agree completely here. What is lying? Hiding the truth. We all hide things by deliberately avoid saying or telling them. We all have different reasons, I think what many get annoyed about it more to do with these 'lies' don't fit in with my parameters of what's acceptable. That's when it becomes offensive. Having a tolerance to understanding others are different and see things differently and that is ok allows us to be more forgiving and open to be told the truth too. | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. What she said! ^^^^ 100% agree ladies " So you three have never lied on here when chatting or messaging to others or about others on fab? I can't believe that. | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. What she said! ^^^^ 100% agree ladies So you three have never lied on here when chatting or messaging to others or about others on fab? I can't believe that." Haha and pigs might fly. | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. What she said! ^^^^ 100% agree ladies So you three have never lied on here when chatting or messaging to others or about others on fab? I can't believe that. Haha and pigs might fly." Mine was a genuine question... i shake my head at time when I hear things like that. As far as recreational sex goes too... Most hookups involve knowing little if anything about the other person... more often one doesn't want to know either..... so in reality what difference if they say they're 25 when they're 35 or they're single when married or a manager when unemployed or has a lada when says an M3? | |||
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"Great sex takes good communication between those involved. Good communication does not happen unless it's honest, so why bother lying about anything, if you are genuinely interested in great sex!" I fully agree. But one can choose to believe a lie and as a result have great sex.... or believe the lie and end up having poor sex. What is the difference? Not the lie obviously because it's still a lie, but how one chooses to believe or respond. | |||
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"Great sex takes good communication between those involved. Good communication does not happen unless it's honest, so why bother lying about anything, if you are genuinely interested in great sex!" I had fantastic sex with some that are a bit fibbing about ie their age. They eventually told me how old they are, guess what it didn't change a thing for me and most of them I met again and again, some of them I don't even know their proper first name. All that counts is that they behave like gentlemen behind closed doors and don't give me any trouble and this is one thing I find out with good conversation that rarely involves any personal information. Trust your gut feeling and not some high moral grounds that can mislead you more than using your brain. | |||
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"Great sex takes good communication between those involved. Good communication does not happen unless it's honest, so why bother lying about anything, if you are genuinely interested in great sex! I fully agree. But one can choose to believe a lie and as a result have great sex.... or believe the lie and end up having poor sex. What is the difference? Not the lie obviously because it's still a lie, but how one chooses to believe or respond. " | |||
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"Great sex takes good communication between those involved. Good communication does not happen unless it's honest, so why bother lying about anything, if you are genuinely interested in great sex! I had fantastic sex with some that are a bit fibbing about ie their age. They eventually told me how old they are, guess what it didn't change a thing for me and most of them I met again and again, some of them I don't even know their proper first name. All that counts is that they behave like gentlemen behind closed doors and don't give me any trouble and this is one thing I find out with good conversation that rarely involves any personal information. Trust your gut feeling and not some high moral grounds that can mislead you more than using your brain. " Couldn't agree more....trust your gut or if you're a guy your cock....it will tell you who to meet | |||
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"Great sex takes good communication between those involved. Good communication does not happen unless it's honest, so why bother lying about anything, if you are genuinely interested in great sex! I had fantastic sex with some that are a bit fibbing about ie their age. They eventually told me how old they are, guess what it didn't change a thing for me and most of them I met again and again, some of them I don't even know their proper first name. All that counts is that they behave like gentlemen behind closed doors and don't give me any trouble and this is one thing I find out with good conversation that rarely involves any personal information. Trust your gut feeling and not some high moral grounds that can mislead you more than using your brain. " Bloody hell DG we got to stop agreeing ffs | |||
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"Because....its recreational sex as you call it . In my opinion honesty is VITAL.. What she said! ^^^^ 100% agree ladies " Very simple but so true | |||
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