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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I am a fab woman... A swinger since my twenties.. Women here need to speak up we can be a feminist and be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab i guess,life is for living.Make love not war.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just be a woman confident secure and happy with yourself without having to label yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just be a woman confident secure and happy with yourself without having to label yourself "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is so bad about feminist leanings..... You all love women. Surly a woman who loves herself and women is a good thing.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

I am a woman on fab, swinging since my early twenties... have enough lables in swinging and bi besides adding others but no guilt attached to anything I do under the above headings.

Madame Boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is so bad about feminist leanings..... You all love women. Surly a woman who loves herself and women is a good thing. "

Hello sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course and is great seeing confident strong woman but why label it anything more than just a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is so bad about feminist leanings..... You all love women. Surly a woman who loves herself and women is a good thing. "

Mostly everything nowadays

If you love equality you should mistrust feminism

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"What is so bad about feminist leanings..... You all love women. Surly a woman who loves herself and women is a good thing.

Mostly everything nowadays

If you love equality you should mistrust feminism "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is so bad about feminist leanings..... You all love women. Surly a woman who loves herself and women is a good thing.

Mostly everything nowadays

If you love equality you should mistrust feminism "

That makes zero sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

"

You've just made some very general sweeping statements without giving any reasons/evidence to support your claims. Feminism is nothing to be distrusting or wary of. At its most basic level, it's just the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated accordingly. Sadly that is something a large part of the world still fails to accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

"

they only want equality when it suits them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

You've just made some very general sweeping statements without giving any reasons/evidence to support your claims. Feminism is nothing to be distrusting or wary of. At its most basic level, it's just the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated accordingly. Sadly that is something a large part of the world still fails to accept. "

I share the same beliefs but don't need feminism to hold them.

Think for yourself.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

You've just made some very general sweeping statements without giving any reasons/evidence to support your claims. Feminism is nothing to be distrusting or wary of. At its most basic level, it's just the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated accordingly. Sadly that is something a large part of the world still fails to accept.

I share the same beliefs but don't need feminism to hold them.

Think for yourself. "

If you share the same beliefs why do you run a campaign against it every time the topic comes up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

You've just made some very general sweeping statements without giving any reasons/evidence to support your claims. Feminism is nothing to be distrusting or wary of. At its most basic level, it's just the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated accordingly. Sadly that is something a large part of the world still fails to accept.

I share the same beliefs but don't need feminism to hold them.

Think for yourself. "

I'm happy for you, unfortunately millions of women around the world do need feminism and are fighting everyday to be accepted as equal.

They also need men to help them in their struggle instead of having some kind of weird suspicion about the whole thing. Look at the post immediately above your last one. Typical lazy, unhelpful comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Various reasons.

Some misinformation and propaganda, some extremely unscientific opinions, at least a few mimisandrists with questionable mental health and motives at its core.

Lots of platitudes about feminism being for everyone and equality for all but the actions don't often match the words.

It stinks of first world problems while not showing enough regard for genuine abuse of women's rights in other parts of the world.

More generally, in my view in its current form it's creating disharmony and unwarranted mistrust between men and women when we all should just get along.

You've just made some very general sweeping statements without giving any reasons/evidence to support your claims. Feminism is nothing to be distrusting or wary of. At its most basic level, it's just the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated accordingly. Sadly that is something a large part of the world still fails to accept.

I share the same beliefs but don't need feminism to hold them.

Think for yourself.

If you share the same beliefs why do you run a campaign against it every time the topic comes up? "

Because the world isn't black and white. I can hold egalitarian ideals and still criticise it.

On the other point - I think modern feminism doesn't do enough where it is needed for millions of women and is generally absurd in promoting equality of outcome rather than equality of opportunity for already privileged women elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Typical lazy, unhelpful comment. "

I'll be here all day if I have to spell it out.

This article from a humanist woman is a good start at revealing one layer of the silliness.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10831043/Modern-feminism-has-got-it-wrong-about-men.html

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Do you want equality of the sexes? Congratulations! You're a feminist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Typical lazy, unhelpful comment.

I'll be here all day if I have to spell it out.

This article from a humanist woman is a good start at revealing one layer of the silliness.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10831043/Modern-feminism-has-got-it-wrong-about-men.html"

If you read my comment again you'll notice I'm directing you to someone else's comment on the thread. Unfortunately I'm not here all day as I have to work and I'm also a dab hand at spelling so I'll decline your offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know how you're helping the "cause"?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

First of all on fab women on fab hols most of the cards. So there's no need to look for equal rights here as it's unequal in your favour.

Secondly it seems that people use the most extreme version of a group when discussing the pros and cons eg feminist = militant feminist socialists = communists conservative = far right/nazi. Yes everyone should have equal rights but there are differences between the the sexes that can't be ignored.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

The problem with most "feminists" is they want to be more equal than men,then you get the male sympathisers hoping to get a shag by agreeing with everything the "feminist" says,if they want to be a cuckold just say so. Then again I am a white male so in the "feminist" eyes I am just Satan who spreads lies and mistrust. Is it any wonder a lot of people label them feminazis?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


" there are differences between the the sexes that can't be ignored. "

I would never ignore those great lil stiff differences, they get all my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all on fab women on fab hols most of the cards. So there's no need to look for equal rights here as it's unequal in your favour.

Secondly it seems that people use the most extreme version of a group when discussing the pros and cons eg feminist = militant feminist socialists = communists conservative = far right/nazi. Yes everyone should have equal rights but there are differences between the the sexes that can't be ignored. "

Best thing is to ignore and chastise all these groups.

Of course you have to pay attention to what the hardcore elements want and how they act, because that's the direction they want to go and they are the most involvedand invested.

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened."

Completely agree. Most women just want to be treated equally, in terms of salary, work opportunities and health as men. Why even associate the word 'nazi' with that?

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened.

Completely agree. Most women just want to be treated equally, in terms of salary, work opportunities and health as men. Why even associate the word 'nazi' with that?"

Because they think giving someone more rights reduces their own.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think everyone should be treated equally regardless of age, sex , colour, sexual orientation, religion, nationality. The problem is all these folks that want to be treated the same and use the man as what would be normal never want that. They want more than what a man has. I’m a straight white male who feels with all the rights being handed out and people saying oh you can’t say that because it would upset one group of people it is the average man who should have more rights to bring him in line with every other fecker that’s bangs on about equality. The other thing is people are so over sensitive with the opinions you darent say shit now with out some some spineless fecker taking offence to it. Time the people of the world put there big boys and big girls pants on and man/ women the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth "

RTE are addressing the issue Sharon Ni Bheolein, gets a stalker and Bryan Dobson, twice her salary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth

RTE are addressing the issue Sharon Ni Bheolein, gets a stalker and Bryan Dobson, twice her salary."

Wow amazing to see that being stalked is a joke now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth

RTE are addressing the issue Sharon Ni Bheolein, gets a stalker and Bryan Dobson, twice her salary.

Wow amazing to see that being stalked is a joke now!"

You have taken it up that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened.

Completely agree. Most women just want to be treated equally, in terms of salary, work opportunities and health as men. Why even associate the word 'nazi' with that?"

You have all those things currently under the law of the land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth

RTE are addressing the issue Sharon Ni Bheolein, gets a stalker and Bryan Dobson, twice her salary."

That casually ignores their tenure in the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.S. the gender pay gap is just a myth

RTE are addressing the issue Sharon Ni Bheolein, gets a stalker and Bryan Dobson, twice her salary.

That casually ignores their tenure in the job"

Agree, by and large I do believe women are equal to men in this Country, I think smaller issues that the media seem to be more concerned about covering, such as, should wolf whistling in the street be an offence, are merely distracting from more important issues.

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

dublon


"So I am a fab woman... A swinger since my twenties.. Women here need to speak up we can be a feminist and be on fab."

Why ?

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

dublon

I agree

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

dublon

I find all this very odd

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened.

Completely agree. Most women just want to be treated equally, in terms of salary, work opportunities and health as men. Why even associate the word 'nazi' with that?

You have all those things currently under the law of the land.

"

They have yet to get autonomy over their own bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women will always have this argument! We are equal tho.. I have great respect for anyone who treats each other with respect. There are things that woman can do that men aren't good at.. And visaversa !!! But ..feminists are a bit over the top lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for people who label all feminists as feminazis the same way I've no time for people who label all men as satan. It's bullshit.

If that's the foundation of your argument it's already flawed.

These people just feel threatened.

Completely agree. Most women just want to be treated equally, in terms of salary, work opportunities and health as men. Why even associate the word 'nazi' with that?

You have all those things currently under the law of the land.

They have yet to get autonomy over their own bodies."

No one had full autonomy over their bodies if you think about it.

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