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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m curious do many half’s of couples meet alone? There are loads of hot women here who are part of a couple, I presume most wouldn’t but who meets alone? Do you meet alone if you both met someone at a social or party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going form my inbox, I can tell you lots of the male half of the couples meet alone.

Whether the female half knows this is quite another matter. In one or two cases I know they have no idea. In other cases I doubt there is a female half.

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By *un for 2Couple
over a year ago

The West

Ya we do meet alone depending

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Going form my inbox, I can tell you lots of the male half of the couples meet alone.

Whether the female half knows this is quite another matter. In one or two cases I know they have no idea. In other cases I doubt there is a female half. "

This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met alone before, it hasn't happened very often and hubby has met them beforehand. It has been more men that we have met on afew occasions together previously.

Same as the ladies have said about male halves of "couples" here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people are here for different reasons. For us it's about strengthening our bond and getting some collective memories for savoring in later years, so we wouldn't do anything not in the same room.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

We have done the odd separate meet , but they are usually quick encounters as it says on the profile and we both know whats happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples meet separately.

Thank fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it starts with the couple messaging then all of a sudden it's the man messaging on his own

If a couple are going to meet i would only meet them as a couple

Plenty of single guys on fab so no interest in meeting just the guy of a couple :-/

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By *inkyboots1Couple
over a year ago

Armagh

We both have met separately as it's something that we like to do on the odd occasion. We have a male friend who meets with us both or wife alone regularly. If both partners are aware and happy then it can be very exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet alone or have any desire too..one of the reasons we joined was so we both would enjoy the experiences and get off on each others kinks.

In saying that..totally respect cpls that do..its all about what works for you and sucking every last drop of satisfaction out of it

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By *exwaterCouple
over a year ago

waterford


"I wouldn't meet alone or have any desire too..one of the reasons we joined was so we both would enjoy the experiences and get off on each others kinks.

In saying that..totally respect cpls that do..its all about what works for you and sucking every last drop of satisfaction out of it "

Spot on

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira

Male half here and no.. We joined this together to have fun together so wouldnt be the same for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going form my inbox, I can tell you lots of the male half of the couples meet alone.

Whether the female half knows this is quite another matter. In one or two cases I know they have no idea. In other cases I doubt there is a female half. "

Would they not see the messages if it’s a couples account? I presume both would be logging in and out of the same account. I dunno if it’s acceptable to mail couples asking do they meet alone but I have done in the past lol Couldn’t resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going form my inbox, I can tell you lots of the male half of the couples meet alone.

Whether the female half knows this is quite another matter. In one or two cases I know they have no idea. In other cases I doubt there is a female half.

Would they not see the messages if it’s a couples account? I presume both would be logging in and out of the same account. I dunno if it’s acceptable to mail couples asking do they meet alone but I have done in the past lol Couldn’t resist "

You would think they both would see it. But I know for absolute certainty 2 wives don't.

I can only guess that they leave the running of the profile to the husband and never check in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found it starts with the couple messaging then all of a sudden it's the man messaging on his own

If a couple are going to meet i would only meet them as a couple

Plenty of single guys on fab so no interest in meeting just the guy of a couple :-/"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet alone or have any desire too..one of the reasons we joined was so we both would enjoy the experiences and get off on each others kinks.

In saying that..totally respect cpls that do..its all about what works for you and sucking every last drop of satisfaction out of it "

Lol Literally sucking every drop all here for satisfaction and fun so whatever floats your boat

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

We both meet alone, but it's typically the male that is on the profile, cos she loses patience with all the idiots. So to get to her you have to get past me first

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By *ixpackCouple
over a year ago

South


"I wouldn't meet alone or have any desire too..one of the reasons we joined was so we both would enjoy the experiences and get off on each others kinks.

In saying that..totally respect cpls that do..its all about what works for you and sucking every last drop of satisfaction out of it "

Us too. We do everything together on fab.

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

wife has met alone a few times she planning a meet soon with another guy she has fucked before and another couple for swapping fun

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Everyone to their own. We tried it wasnt for us, dont regret it. Glad we did it.

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

My Mrs has met guys alone. In fact she just spent Saturday night with one while I'm offshore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of couples profiles who won't meet on their own but will meet one of another couple or singles. There are those who won't meet singles either.

Thankfully there are plenty of single ladies to choose on here.

There's a good seleection for everyone's tastes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do sometimes

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

We do to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noticed of couples profiles on here with there is no actual female. Its a male trying to dupe people into thinking its a couple.

And then come the excuses as to why female cant meet or isnt able to meet.

If you aint a swinging couple anymore or shes left you,then delete the profile and put up a singles profile. Stop messing people about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed of couples profiles on here with there is no actual female. Its a male trying to dupe people into thinking its a couple.

And then come the excuses as to why female cant meet or isnt able to meet.

If you aint a swinging couple anymore or shes left you,then delete the profile and put up a singles profile. Stop messing people about."

On this thread - or on fab in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed of couples profiles on here with there is no actual female. Its a male trying to dupe people into thinking its a couple.

And then come the excuses as to why female cant meet or isnt able to meet.

If you aint a swinging couple anymore or shes left you,then delete the profile and put up a singles profile. Stop messing people about.

On this thread - or on fab in general?"

Fab in general. 2 here in Dublin. Wouldnt be surprised if it is the same guy with the 2 profiles Caught 1 of the profiles out earlier on this evening. But cant say who it is because of forum/site rules.

Why oh why do people resort to doing this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed of couples profiles on here with there is no actual female. Its a male trying to dupe people into thinking its a couple.

And then come the excuses as to why female cant meet or isnt able to meet.

If you aint a swinging couple anymore or shes left you,then delete the profile and put up a singles profile. Stop messing people about.

On this thread - or on fab in general?

Fab in general. 2 here in Dublin. Wouldnt be surprised if it is the same guy with the 2 profiles Caught 1 of the profiles out earlier on this evening. But cant say who it is because of forum/site rules.

Why oh why do people resort to doing this??"

God knows. Theres dozens if not hundreds of men pretending to be a couple.

Just report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed of couples profiles on here with there is no actual female. Its a male trying to dupe people into thinking its a couple.

And then come the excuses as to why female cant meet or isnt able to meet.

If you aint a swinging couple anymore or shes left you,then delete the profile and put up a singles profile. Stop messing people about.

On this thread - or on fab in general?

Fab in general. 2 here in Dublin. Wouldnt be surprised if it is the same guy with the 2 profiles Caught 1 of the profiles out earlier on this evening. But cant say who it is because of forum/site rules.

Why oh why do people resort to doing this??

God knows. Theres dozens if not hundreds of men pretending to be a couple.

Just report them"

Yep,Quite pathetic but all you can do is report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carla had a solo meet with a guy (not from Fab) before we created our couple profile on here.

The guy turned out to be a total creep and made her feel really uncomfortable.

Anyway, it has been a learning curve for us but we have set boundaries and rules in place as we have went along.

Carla will never meet alone initially. Firstly any guy must have a social meet with both her and I so we can see what they are like in person. If they seem ok and there is chemistry or attraction then we will go to the next step of a private meet with myself also present.

After a period if we deem the guy to be sane and safe enough then Carla meeting on her own is a possibility but again with certain boundaries in place such as it is a hotel or I already know the address of the person accomodating and know it is safe. Even then I would maybe do a few check ins during any meet by text or phone to make sure all is good.

Some may think it is over cautious but I firmly believe that on a site of this nature safety must always always come first and foremost above everything else (even fun). Women, especially Carla, can be vulnerable and I don't mean that in any disrespectful or sexist manner.

Solo meets for myself are different as I am a guy and can generally handle myself but even then I still take some precautions to make sure I am not wandering into some unknown or precarious situation.

We have also had guys message trying to get Carla to meet behind my back, not realising I see all the messages too. She even shows me, lol. Then there have been some guys who have met us and start falling for Carla then want to steal her away. I find it amusing at times the way some people behave but in the end they are only shooting themselves in the foot as we will usually cut such people out pretty swiftly.

Have noticed others mentioning above, and we too have had single males message from "couple" profiles and it is usually so obvious. Laughable sometimes but sure......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New cpl joined yest had a pic up of v slim.lady yet he had large on.the profile . He mailed i questioned that and fact she was straight. He then.said maybe i shouldnt use her i.have another.whos bi. Told him.why bother why not just make simgle.profile beyond me really .

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away


"Carla had a solo meet with a guy (not from Fab) before we created our couple profile on here.

The guy turned out to be a total creep and made her feel really uncomfortable.

Anyway, it has been a learning curve for us but we have set boundaries and rules in place as we have went along.

Carla will never meet alone initially. Firstly any guy must have a social meet with both her and I so we can see what they are like in person. If they seem ok and there is chemistry or attraction then we will go to the next step of a private meet with myself also present.

After a period if we deem the guy to be sane and safe enough then Carla meeting on her own is a possibility but again with certain boundaries in place such as it is a hotel or I already know the address of the person accomodating and know it is safe. Even then I would maybe do a few check ins during any meet by text or phone to make sure all is good.

Some may think it is over cautious but I firmly believe that on a site of this nature safety must always always come first and foremost above everything else (even fun). Women, especially Carla, can be vulnerable and I don't mean that in any disrespectful or sexist manner.

Solo meets for myself are different as I am a guy and can generally handle myself but even then I still take some precautions to make sure I am not wandering into some unknown or precarious situation.

We have also had guys message trying to get Carla to meet behind my back, not realising I see all the messages too. She even shows me, lol. Then there have been some guys who have met us and start falling for Carla then want to steal her away. I find it amusing at times the way some people behave but in the end they are only shooting themselves in the foot as we will usually cut such people out pretty swiftly.

Have noticed others mentioning above, and we too have had single males message from "couple" profiles and it is usually so obvious. Laughable sometimes but sure......"

Your post rings true for us.

I Sam have met up solo a few times but always keep in contact with Stuart via text.

With the possible meets, if Stuart is not happy or feels uncomfortable with me meeting a certain guy, I respect his opinion and don't meet.

We are both in this together, we never go behind the others back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carla had a solo meet with a guy (not from Fab) before we created our couple profile on here.

The guy turned out to be a total creep and made her feel really uncomfortable.

Anyway, it has been a learning curve for us but we have set boundaries and rules in place as we have went along.

Carla will never meet alone initially. Firstly any guy must have a social meet with both her and I so we can see what they are like in person. If they seem ok and there is chemistry or attraction then we will go to the next step of a private meet with myself also present.

After a period if we deem the guy to be sane and safe enough then Carla meeting on her own is a possibility but again with certain boundaries in place such as it is a hotel or I already know the address of the person accomodating and know it is safe. Even then I would maybe do a few check ins during any meet by text or phone to make sure all is good.

Some may think it is over cautious but I firmly believe that on a site of this nature safety must always always come first and foremost above everything else (even fun). Women, especially Carla, can be vulnerable and I don't mean that in any disrespectful or sexist manner.

Solo meets for myself are different as I am a guy and can generally handle myself but even then I still take some precautions to make sure I am not wandering into some unknown or precarious situation.

We have also had guys message trying to get Carla to meet behind my back, not realising I see all the messages too. She even shows me, lol. Then there have been some guys who have met us and start falling for Carla then want to steal her away. I find it amusing at times the way some people behave but in the end they are only shooting themselves in the foot as we will usually cut such people out pretty swiftly.

Have noticed others mentioning above, and we too have had single males message from "couple" profiles and it is usually so obvious. Laughable sometimes but sure......

Your post rings true for us.

I Sam have met up solo a few times but always keep in contact with Stuart via text.

With the possible meets, if Stuart is not happy or feels uncomfortable with me meeting a certain guy, I respect his opinion and don't meet.

We are both in this together, we never go behind the others back."

Yes, exactly. Carla is the same. Sometimes there are certain guys she will take an interest in but if I get bad vibes or feelings about the person then she respects my opinion. I know how men can think and sometimes it may not be obvious to her but I would sometimes see in messages or their body language that something is off or that they are being disrespectful. I've also had a single profile for years on here whereas Carla is new to all this so she acknowledges that I have experience with a lot of Fab related situations and know what I am talking about.

As you say, and the same applies to us. We are both in this together and never go behind each others backs. We're both completely open and honest with one another and that is one of the most important things needed for something of this nature to work quite well.

So far so good.

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away


"Carla had a solo meet with a guy (not from Fab) before we created our couple profile on here.

The guy turned out to be a total creep and made her feel really uncomfortable.

Anyway, it has been a learning curve for us but we have set boundaries and rules in place as we have went along.

Carla will never meet alone initially. Firstly any guy must have a social meet with both her and I so we can see what they are like in person. If they seem ok and there is chemistry or attraction then we will go to the next step of a private meet with myself also present.

After a period if we deem the guy to be sane and safe enough then Carla meeting on her own is a possibility but again with certain boundaries in place such as it is a hotel or I already know the address of the person accomodating and know it is safe. Even then I would maybe do a few check ins during any meet by text or phone to make sure all is good.

Some may think it is over cautious but I firmly believe that on a site of this nature safety must always always come first and foremost above everything else (even fun). Women, especially Carla, can be vulnerable and I don't mean that in any disrespectful or sexist manner.

Solo meets for myself are different as I am a guy and can generally handle myself but even then I still take some precautions to make sure I am not wandering into some unknown or precarious situation.

We have also had guys message trying to get Carla to meet behind my back, not realising I see all the messages too. She even shows me, lol. Then there have been some guys who have met us and start falling for Carla then want to steal her away. I find it amusing at times the way some people behave but in the end they are only shooting themselves in the foot as we will usually cut such people out pretty swiftly.

Have noticed others mentioning above, and we too have had single males message from "couple" profiles and it is usually so obvious. Laughable sometimes but sure......

Your post rings true for us.

I Sam have met up solo a few times but always keep in contact with Stuart via text.

With the possible meets, if Stuart is not happy or feels uncomfortable with me meeting a certain guy, I respect his opinion and don't meet.

We are both in this together, we never go behind the others back.

Yes, exactly. Carla is the same. Sometimes there are certain guys she will take an interest in but if I get bad vibes or feelings about the person then she respects my opinion. I know how men can think and sometimes it may not be obvious to her but I would sometimes see in messages or their body language that something is off or that they are being disrespectful. I've also had a single profile for years on here whereas Carla is new to all this so she acknowledges that I have experience with a lot of Fab related situations and know what I am talking about.

As you say, and the same applies to us. We are both in this together and never go behind each others backs. We're both completely open and honest with one another and that is one of the most important things needed for something of this nature to work quite well.

So far so good. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few do, I've had couples gett in touch with solo meet intentions. Then there's a tonne of profiles where the other half doesn't exist, blokes and ladies so it goes both ways around here really

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"A few do, I've had couples gett in touch with solo meet intentions. Then there's a tonne of profiles where the other half doesn't exist, blokes and ladies so it goes both ways around here really "

You would think one of them would have verified you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few do, I've had couples gett in touch with solo meet intentions. Then there's a tonne of profiles where the other half doesn't exist, blokes and ladies so it goes both ways around here really

You would think one of them would have verified you lol"

Ah I didn't meet so would be wrong to get a veri none of my old meets are on here anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told by a few ladies that often after meeting a couple together.....the male half chances his arm secretly to hook up on their own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s a team hobby so we never meet men alone but still get asked, although we do have it stated on our profile.

Cockold couples are on those who meet separately ... we’ve met some as couples before, although it’s not for us, they enjoy it but it seems the lady has more attention and fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For us it’s a team hobby so we never meet men alone but still get asked, although we do have it stated on our profile.

Cockold couples are on those who meet separately ... we’ve met some as couples before, although it’s not for us, they enjoy it but it seems the lady has more attention and fun"

I can see why you are asked lol but if people bothered to read your profile they’d know.

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