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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

nvr been to a party yet , we have had a few invites but with recent events sw rag , not sure if we will accept offers now bit nervous tbh ,what ye think guys !!!

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"nvr been to a party yet , we have had a few invites but with recent events sw rag , not sure if we will accept offers now bit nervous tbh ,what ye think guys !!! "

Dont let the recent hype put yous off hun, Parties are fantasic and a great place to meet other genuine folks.. everybody feels nervous to some degree goin to a party, ive been to loads and still get the jitters... the day yous dont get those nerves going on a meet, is the day to stop swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even the slightest bit nervous about attending parties. It will take a lot more than a sensationalised piece in a red top rag that is seriously struggling to shift papers to deter us from enjoying ourselves

#Swingers&Proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, its yesterdays news, the only sensationalism will be coming from some folk in the swingers community, which is never a bad thing really, all cults need to look at their systems and policies from time to time, I gaurantee once you attend your first, you'll be hooked, and the ones making the news for all the right reasons, but just to be on the safe side wear clean knickers and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sat outside our first event for 10 or 15 mins after traveling a long way and even walking to the door still asked each other did we wanna turn back but had a blast and way more than we expected.

Be nervous, but do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at one sat night 1st one very nervous...no drink taken was driving so that didn't help...but go for it man ull enjoy ok...

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

thank you we still considering going to a

Halloween one at least we d be in costume, for some of the time !

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"To be honest, its yesterdays news, the only sensationalism will be coming from some folk in the swingers community, which is never a bad thing really, all cults need to look at their systems and policies from time to time, I gaurantee once you attend your first, you'll be hooked, and the ones making the news for all the right reasons, but just to be on the safe side wear clean knickers and a smile "
lol ill keep a spare pair so cheers

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Why would you be nervous attending a party ? They are great craic and you don't have to do anything you don't want to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys they are great fun had one sat night run properly there is no pressure on anybody to swing we are still laughing today over the fun we all had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been attending parties for 8/9 years,and we still get nervous,it's part of the build up,the excitement.

Where's the fun in complacency?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been asked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its natural to be nervous the first time.Bite the bullet and go for it once you are sure of the hosts and other people attending.

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By *agle Eye PMan
over a year ago

meath, drogheda

Even though I've had my profile here for ages, mostly lurking and admiring the profiles of others... I'm still apprehensive about meeting strangers from here.

The social events really intrigue me, and despite my own wavering trust in others coupled with those recent events... I'm still eager to experience it overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I've had my profile here for ages, mostly lurking and admiring the profiles of others... I'm still apprehensive about meeting strangers from here.

The social events really intrigue me, and despite my own wavering trust in others coupled with those recent events... I'm still eager to experience it overall.

"

Strangers are merely friends you haven't met yet

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Guys they are great fun had one sat night run properly there is no pressure on anybody to swing we are still laughing today over the fun we all had"

Still ragin we missed this one. Sounds like yous had a blast! X

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Nerves are a good thing. Just don't drink to much to get over them! X

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Juggled with idea of attending one or two parties that was invited too previously! But at the end of the day nah they are just not my thing! More comfortable meeting someone have spoken to here for awhile one on one rather than in a group full of strangers! Each to their own!

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Juggled with idea of attending one or two parties that was invited too previously! But at the end of the day nah they are just not my thing! More comfortable meeting someone have spoken to here for awhile one on one rather than in a group full of strangers! Each to their own! "

But if you've never attended one how do you know? X

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"nvr been to a party yet , we have had a few invites but with recent events sw rag , not sure if we will accept offers now bit nervous tbh ,what ye think guys !!! "
deffo. prob main reason i have never went

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It was great craic on sathurday nite . It was my first party but it won't be my last. I was not nervous at all .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I drank non alcoholic beers cos I was driving. And if you drink lots of water. Which I seen a few women do .

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Juggled with idea of attending one or two parties that was invited too previously! But at the end of the day nah they are just not my thing! More comfortable meeting someone have spoken to here for awhile one on one rather than in a group full of strangers! Each to their own!

But if you've never attended one how do you know? X"
Easy answer is rather meet female one on one so can get to know her a bit with no distractions! Rather than a group meet where maybe see female might be interested in but load of other guys there trying to impress her as well kinda thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys they are great fun had one sat night run properly there is no pressure on anybody to swing we are still laughing today over the fun we all had"

And an excellent one it was - lots of laughs, lovely people & no pressure on anyone

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By *on1980Man
over a year ago

City Centre

I hosted my first one on Saturday night and I was very nervous sitting in the bar waiting for everyone to arrive.

In the end there was nothing to be nervous about at all, a great bunch and a very enjoyable night

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I hosted my first one on Saturday night and I was very nervous sitting in the bar waiting for everyone to arrive.

In the end there was nothing to be nervous about at all, a great bunch and a very enjoyable night "
fair play to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are normal. But just remember most people are lovely and you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nymphy how did i get in that picture lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am a bit, I have one coming up at the end of the month.

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Juggled with idea of attending one or two parties that was invited too previously! But at the end of the day nah they are just not my thing! More comfortable meeting someone have spoken to here for awhile one on one rather than in a group full of strangers! Each to their own!

But if you've never attended one how do you know? X Easy answer is rather meet female one on one so can get to know her a bit with no distractions! Rather than a group meet where maybe see female might be interested in but load of other guys there trying to impress her as well kinda thing! "

Is it not the same dynamic though?

Boy meets girl, boy tries to tempt girl (or vice versa), if there's a mutual attraction great and if not no harm done. But way less pressure. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I organised a hike up a mountain first stopping off in a lovely old pub for a pint so before party everybody was well acquainted also name tags with fab names as well helped everybody to mingle more freely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nymphy how did i get in that picture lol "

You & your duster are the stars of the picture

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Guys they are great fun had one sat night run properly there is no pressure on anybody to swing we are still laughing today over the fun we all had

And an excellent one it was - lots of laughs, lovely people & no pressure on anyone "

and the craic over breakfast.. the flash backs still laughing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi never been at a party, would love to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweetlips your brown bread was pussy licking good

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I can't see why people are nervous meeting people at parties maybe single ladies OK but couples . I am never nervous the only thing is if some one is messing about meeting and does not show up . That would piss me off . Ooh nearly had a heart attack sathurday my phone locked on me and nearly missed a great nite ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties can be daunting especially if you don't know any of the other guests but if you are brave enough to take the first step you will find everyone very welcoming and dare I say it "Normal"

Any parties we ve been to have been very social aswell and never any pressure to do anything we didn't want to.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Sweetlips your brown bread was pussy licking good"

mmmm that sweet taste of more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't see why people are nervous meeting people at parties maybe single ladies OK but couples . I am never nervous the only thing is if some one is messing about meeting and does not show up . That would piss me off . Ooh nearly had a heart attack sathurday my phone locked on me and nearly missed a great nite .."

You nearly had a heartattack when you get got there too!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Haha lol

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