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Why is it impossible for a young lad to get a reply of a mature lady??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title says I've been trying my absolute best and I can't even get a reply of a mature lady god dam

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Maybe check their age preferences on their profile before messaging them?

If u already do that and ur not getting replies then it's just a "not interested"

Tina

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because if like me im trying to get away frm my 20 yr old son not have fun wit one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

women and men don't think alike. a lot of older men would fuck a younger woman in a heartbeat. same doesn't apply the opposite way around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is pretty disappointing man

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity "
Not a bit rude in the slightest ,hence the maturity necessary to play with thee elusive older lady . Having a 24 year old there's not a hope I'd want to engage physically with someone young either so each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your on site 7 days, with no pics, this might be hampering your quest.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well if you are not getting replys she ain't interested. Simple as that I'm afraid . Ps if you don't get a reply after one message you won't get a reply after 2 or 3 messages that's for certain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have pictures there just on private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocko maybe he should add ten years to his age? What you think Chocko? Would you suggest he do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have pictures there just on private "

Alot won't entertain a profile with no pics showing, 1 at least is better than none.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Maybe haha . These young guys don't have patience . They think the ladies are here for them and not the other way round .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe haha . These young guys don't have patience . They think the ladies are here for them and not the other way round . "
What are the ladies here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe haha . These young guys don't have patience . They think the ladies are here for them and not the other way round . "

Some the older guys think that to

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well I don't

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Everybody is here to enjoy themselfs and you don't need anyone annoying you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an uphill battle alright.

You just need to make yourself stand out, be sure to display maturity in your profile and messages.

For some women, this will be enough to convince them youre not the typical 'hows u ' young guy.

For others, they have personal reasons (ie. a younger son or previous bad experience). In this case, you just have to accept it and move on

You'll be grand, and believe me, the countless messages are worth it for when do you meet an open minded older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity "
Why is it rude ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?"

I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude

Thick skin needed on Fab at times

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

That place in

0P your younger then my kids so that a turn off right

And your age might'nt help either

But good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?

I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude

Thick skin needed on Fab at times "
gentleman thanks bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?

I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude

Thick skin needed on Fab at times gentleman thanks bro "

You're welcome, it's not east for younger guys on Fab.

We should set up some sort o f group for cougars to take their pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?

I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude

Thick skin needed on Fab at times gentleman thanks bro "

You didn't really think being not interested was rude did you?

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By *obby931000Man
over a year ago

new york city

Lad I know we’re your coming from, you’d rather a response even if it is to be shot down, but not to be pushy is key and just be polite in your messages. Iv a few friends and I’m no expert let’s be fair but patience and politeness is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of reasons kid,they may have children your age or simply not interested,manners go a long way!I have sent plenty of messages with face pics and never a rude word ever said,still no reply and some just deleted as unread!no pics don't help either!keep at it ??

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Ohhhh such yummy young guys in the whest..,

I may have to fly over in my broom for a nosey.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Op I suggest you figure out your surroundings before jumping in. Nobody is being rude or personal but you came to an open forum with a question and are being responded to honestly but seem defensive as they are not the responses you were expecting. Your profile says you were here before so you probably know the answer, it takes time and patience while showing maturity to be able to handle an older woman.

Get your pics sorted and fill out the profile a bit more, keep it light hearted and positive. Read the forums and maybe try attending a social meet and greet to get verified.

By time you have all that done... you should be ready grass hopper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh think any seasoned fabster took his / her time to get started but nobody owes you anything it’s unfortunately a shallow world where in reality ladies do have choice and time location and reliability are constraints and factors as well as safety. If you are pleasant mannerly and are seen to be involved in the social aspect of the site women will notice you and conversation will start. What happens after that will determine how you get on Nothing as off putting as the “ feeling sorry because of no replies “ stick with it. It will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh think any seasoned fabster took his / her time to get started but nobody owes you anything it’s unfortunately a shallow world where in reality ladies do have choice and time location and reliability are constraints and factors as well as safety. If you are pleasant mannerly and are seen to be involved in the social aspect of the site women will notice you and conversation will start. What happens after that will determine how you get on Nothing as off putting as the “ feeling sorry because of no replies “ stick with it. It will happen "

It's worth it when you do get a good meet guys.

Unfortunately the cougar to cub ratio on Fab is lacking in equity

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Because if like me im trying to get away frm my 20 yr old son not have fun wit one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But Chocko you didn't say whether the lad should change his age by 10 years to make him more attractive to the lay dees.

After all you are great at giving advice Chocko.

Is changing age a bit sensitive old boy?

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