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Repeat Meets or One and Done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are peoples views about repeat meets.

Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?

Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking for repeat meets with single guys, for many reasons being fussy can make it hard to find what you're attracted to, a repeat meet is less likely to let you down, and to build up a sexual relationship where the sex will get better and better, we've only managed to find 1 that R genuinely wants to play with again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They both have their positives, with repeat meets you have found out how to push each others buttons but a one off can be fun as well, the feeling of fresh hands etc. on your body is hard to beat.

I like having repeat meets displayed on my verification summary as well, it shows that people are willing to come back for more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples views about repeat meets.

Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?

Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!

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The good ones I repeat, so long as they don't get attached....

I'm allergic to monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs are great but repeat meets are so much better.

I love getting to explore more intimately and try different things each time. It's more satisfying!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"What are peoples views about repeat meets.

Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?

Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!

The good ones I repeat, so long as they don't get attached....

I'm allergic to monogamy "

Mahogany? Then you can't come see my many leather bound books in my mahogany book cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets for me. Like having a chat and a laugh during rest periods

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Defo Repeat meets if the 1st meet was a success!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Repeat meets if all enjoyed it. With clear boundaries and clarity.

Madame Boo

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

You should try everything twice I say..

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

As said above, repeat meets are great, as long as the rules are set and no one gets possesive. Met a girl a few times here, she rung me again for a 'shag' so went round and she had a tantrum that i never take her out???

Great fuck but that was the end of that.

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork

Repeats. Opportunity to enhance the experience!

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

Repeats for sure when its agreeable to both. Far better. The anticipation is different (better in my view) because you know what's coming. Plus no uncertainty and you have a good idea what turns your partner on. Both parties tend to let go a bit more also I think.

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

No doubt repeats are better! Getting used to each other's bodies means it works best for all concerned!

Having said that, the odd one off can be fantastic as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like repeats, although not always easy to find. The once off can be fun too.. When the need arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to been repeats. Sex gets better the more times u have it with someone u can trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats...all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're looking for repeat meets with single guys, for many reasons being fussy can make it hard to find what you're attracted to, a repeat meet is less likely to let you down, and to build up a sexual relationship where the sex will get better and better, we've only managed to find 1 that R genuinely wants to play with again. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats, in our experience are definitely more enjoyable as it's usually more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer repeats, everything is better, hotter, nicer with someone you know and trust and feel safe and comfortable with.

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"What are peoples views about repeat meets.

Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?

Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!

"

Good topic.

There is a handful of people we would meet again, good conversationalists and easy to get on with.

A woman once told me the 3 fs. Find them

Fuck them

Forget them.

Some we don't want to forget, others we stick to the 3 Fs, not in a pig ignorant way but it can be very hot to just fuck some random person in a club/party and know nothing about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a very interesting stat from the 20 posts, the overwhelming majority are in favour of repeats, and don't seem too overly concerned about negative emotional attachment.Providing clear guidelines, and boundaries are expressed and adhered to.

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

I generally tell most people I would like to have repeat meet.

And they tend to agree as well. But when push comes to shove they tend to change their minds or it's their way of saying thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be one of the few that don't repeat meets??

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Repeats. Opportunity to enhance the experience!"

I'll second that... repeatedly

Madame Boo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must be one of the few that don't repeat meets?? "

Your very greedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I generally tell most people I would like to have repeat meet.

And they tend to agree as well. But when push comes to shove they tend to change their minds or it's their way of saying thanks but no thanks"

Ssshhhh, everyone else is saying they have successful repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Your very greedy "

Is that it? I thought I was being generous by having my go and letting the rest of fabbers have theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be one of the few that don't repeat meets?? "
V seldom i repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"V seldom i repeat "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Your very greedy

Is that it? I thought I was being generous by having my go and letting the rest of fabbers have theirs "

You like to share, my bad..

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Oh I love repeat meets.

So much more fun when you have an idea what's coming. Great too when you introduce something new and unexpected.

I'm looking for someone to repeat meet.

Just saying.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I hate one off meets rather a regular lady friend whom I can get to be good friends with cos sex does get better and you can explore more with a regular friend .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u like the persons company and sex was amazing why not all my repeat meets are friends of mine at this stage you can change the level of kink for each meet its going to be a long dark winter its good to have a hot list at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are good and for different reasons, repeat meets you get to know what turns each other on and each meet can get more interesting, on the other hand sometimes you just wanna have sex no small talk, no getting to know each other no involvement whatsoever and then go your seperate ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets are definitely the best..... esp when each time it gets better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dave ja vu is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats meets are always welcome if you have a great experience,why would you not?...and the first meet nerves are gone!...."Good evening,let's get naked!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeats meets are always welcome if you have a great experience,why would you not?...and the first meet nerves are gone!...."Good evening,let's get naked!" "

Or answer the door naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeats meets are always welcome if you have a great experience,why would you not?...and the first meet nerves are gone!...."Good evening,let's get naked!"

Or answer the door naked "
. .Room service wasn't impressed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bita both..

Repeats are like Ronseal..does exactly Wat it says on tin..along with knowing how to push each others boundaries.

New meets always fun..like a new toy to play with n explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Once only even if it was good. Variety is the spice of life.x

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Too many questions in one go, could you repeat them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too many questions in one go, could you repeat them? "

Would you prefer a shag with strangers or with friends you haven't met yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat meets are definitely the best..... esp when each time it gets better and better "

I had better go and pin my calling card to that door

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Too many questions in one go, could you repeat them?

Would you prefer a shag with strangers or with friends you haven't met yet "

Lol,

Actually what works quite well is a new meet and then a repeat meet afterwards. Like that you get the nerve tingling bit of fresh meet and the satisfaction from the repeat meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to get a meet.

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Repeat meets for us are the best. You get more comfortable with each meet and it just gets better each time.

One offs are great too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go to a nice restaurant and have a great meal would you ever leave and say "Never coming back here again." Doubt it. My feelings with sex are the same.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Hard to find people that just get each other so for that reason I like repeats, pushing boundaries climbing to the next level building trust.

First meets are always exciting and if u can build on that excitment without the attachment then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live getting repeat meets - shows ur doing sometime right

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By *infulmeWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in Wexford

Good point. I was wondering about displaying repeat verifications on my profile but yeah definitely shows they want to come back for me.

I enjoy the easiness of repeat meet ups but also it's fun to meet new people too. So win win

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Hard to find people that just get each other so for that reason I like repeats, pushing boundaries climbing to the next level building trust.

First meets are always exciting and if u can build on that excitment without the attachment then why not "

Exactly this.

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By *infulmeWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in Wexford

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By *infulmeWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in Wexford

Long dark winter, I didn't even think of that lol

Aim: find more repeats

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