FabSwingers.com forum: If you go onto a profile with a check list do you think

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This chick is sour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This chick is sour"

No, I think she runs her profile the way she wants.

If only all people did that instead of trying to impress one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like profiles like that.

Its clear what they want - and if you don't fit the bill, don't contact them. Saves everyones time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This chick is sour"

But talking of sour,do you think it's right to criticise someone else's profile?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Maybe not sour but some are clearly suffering from delusions of grandeur,I include women, men and couples in that. You have people that would barely warrant a second glance on the street looking for George Clooney/Cindy Crawford types. i reckon you're going to get a lot of sour comments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day is gone when women must be simpering sweet ornaments.

It's ok for women to be direct and assertive, if the profile reader views that as "sour" then the profiler and reader are not compatible ... everyone can just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think sour more that I'll never fill all that criteria and just leave it. Think I do the same with what they are interested in.

Found that most don't match their own profiles ( not what you would expect ) or usually not sour and their profiles just act as an extra filter.

Most people here are lovely just frustrating finding a perfect match when nobody's perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day is gone when women must be simpering sweet ornaments.

Both sweet and assertive is the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, everybody qrites their profile how they wish and they may just find it works for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sour is your perception based on her list. It is a big perception to make of a person without understanding why they have put the list there. The important thing is why she has made a list. If there is 6 rules for example on it maybe they are 6 things she desires in a meet and does not want outside of those parameters. (Clean/safe sex/unattached/other person to accom/stamina in bed/large cock for instance).

Maybe she has wasted too much time with married blokes who can't accom with a small dick who want to fuck bareback.

She has the choice to lay out what she wants in a meet. She has the choice to ask the men to come dressed with a pink feather boa if she so pleases. It her own autonomous choice to do as she pleases.

Subjective views often chanhe with perception and also with the 3rd party's ability to perceive.

More ppwer to the woman with the list I say. More power to her for not being a pushover and being an easy notch on the bedpost for others. It may be a swing site but I have much more respect personally who have a clear identity of who they are and what they want.

I think the fact many men have very limited profiles who send one liner intro messages with a cock pic shows the lack of imagination and respect for the process of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a list of what we want, not because we are "sour" but because we have a specific type that we are attracted to, like everyone. The reason we do this is to save people wasting their time messaging us and and getting the awkward " you're not what we're looking for" reply.

Everyone has a right to be attracted to a certain type wheter you feel they qualify looks/body wise to be so picky. Its honest and a time saver and I would imagine a filter for single girls as they are inundated with messages

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Not too bothered about "criteria" the thing I dislike most on a profile is when the person writing out the profile thinks that they are typing out war and peace and you get fed up after chapter 12 send them a message and they're like "you never typed my hidden password requirement in the message heading" "you didn't read my profile" and I'm thinking if I read the lot I'd be out of your age range by the time I bloody finished it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not too bothered about "criteria" the thing I dislike most on a profile is when the person writing out the profile thinks that they are typing out war and peace and you get fed up after chapter 12 send them a message and they're like "you never typed my hidden password requirement in the message heading" "you didn't read my profile" and I'm thinking if I read the lot I'd be out of your age range by the time I bloody finished it."

Well if you get fed up by the long profile then why bother messaging at all?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Well if you get fed up by the long profile then why bother messaging at all?"

to see if I can get laid,pretty much the same as 99% of people on a swingers site

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