FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Meet and Greet Social Sunny South East - Friay 22n sept

Jump to newest
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

We are a new couple on the scene in Waterford and would love to meet couples on our wave length, but only have limited time.

Could anyone give me pointers on how to set up a meet? or do I book a hotel events room or just suggest a pub and see if people turn up

what about knowing if they are swingers and interested? is there a code?

Thanks million and sorry if they seem stupi questions Dee xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite honestly it will be tough for you to organise. You're pretty new here and people don't know you.

If you do go ahead, why not just try a pub meet meet. Don't spend out any money.

Undoubtedly you'll get a lot of men asking for invites - a lot of these won't turn up. Its well known that a lot of Grannys die, a lot of cars break down and a lot of kids get sick on social nights.

You need women and couples there - and that could be hard - as I said, they don't know you.

Why not try a social/ M&G first? Or contact some of the hosts on here for tips?

If you go ahead - Good Luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Go to a few parties/socials/meet & greets yourselves and observe how they're organised before attempting your own.

Good luck!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

There's no need to jump right in from the off lol.

Why not just arrange a small drinks social at first? Keep it simple and work the dynamics that suit you...

We've organised meets from just 'anyone in the area for a drink on sat' to a bigger event like a soirée/social...

Foo

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a new couple on the scene in Waterford and would love to meet couples on our wave length, but only have limited time.

Could anyone give me pointers on how to set up a meet? or do I book a hotel events room or just suggest a pub and see if people turn up

what about knowing if they are swingers and interested? is there a code?

Thanks million and sorry if they seem stupi questions Dee xxx"

There's no such thing as a stupid question.....nice assss though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

As others said start small.

Reserve an area in a bar ( birthday, work do etc)

Get the numbers for of cpls and women firstly then invite the guys other wise you'll have 100 guys and no cpls or women.

Use a spreadsheet to keep track of invites.

Don't tell anyone the exact location of the event if people want to know best place to book a room give them the general area.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just meet 1 or 2 couples in a pub for a few drinks and then at a later date you can organise to have bedroom fun . Or else go to the vanilla club and meet other people or go to the cork Club. A lot of people always say they will turn up and don't.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

Firstly thanks for compliments on arse

All information is greatly received and thank you.....as said A small meet is the way i was thinking too and yeah with other parties i organise only a 50 to 70% attendance is usual.soz have event mgt background haha....

Question in pub how do you know if swingers and also are interested without direct ask?

Thanks again dee xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to the hike and party i have organised on the 30th of sept details are in the irl forum page

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

I would be free and interested in going Friday if you'll have me there.

But can't message you guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

Would love to go to hike party but have commitments...always the way when you want to go somewhere like hike or redvelvet event im housebound with kids...thats why i said ill organise something for when im free last friday night for about a month but is my birthday at end of month so maybe able to escape

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go to hike party but have commitments...always the way when you want to go somewhere like hike or redvelvet event im housebound with kids...thats why i said ill organise something for when im free last friday night for about a month but is my birthday at end of month so maybe able to escape "

Well, if ya don't want me calling in for cake, don't put balloons and banners on your door

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

Well rant time...60 invites 50hours of time and not one definate...i dont understand..ive been polite said its no pressure no expectation social event just to meet. Total respect.....what happened?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well rant time...60 invites 50hours of time and not one definate...i dont understand..ive been polite said its no pressure no expectation social event just to meet. Total respect.....what happened?"

That's unfortunate, short notice maybe a factor, and then with some, maybe they just need to be bigger than their excuses.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

The amount of people that say there going and then no shows is unreal . You would be better off going to some one else's party and then when they get to know you . You might get people to meet you .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

Thanks for replies....had a fag and calmed down now rant over haha

Think its club time...just got annoyed as last time i can get out for a month

But next time will be my birthday so roll on next month...be a hoooleee

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for replies....had a fag and calmed down now rant over haha

Think its club time...just got annoyed as last time i can get out for a month

But next time will be my birthday so roll on next month...be a hoooleee "

I hope your candles don't get blown out on that haha..always look on the bright side.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsolute gentMan
over a year ago

county Cork

Lots of couples going to Vanilla club and Red velvet club parties this weekend....maybe too expensive to be out both nights.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsolute gentMan
over a year ago

county Cork

I'll turn up if you like.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *isex couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

waterford

Canelled.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top