FabSwingers.com forum: Dilemma

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was out at the weekend at a 30th Birthday party, anyway a friend’s house mate was there with her house mate. I knew her house mate over the years but never really though anything of it, she is now engaged and her fiancé was there also.

So, when we get to the night club, get starts giving it socks on the dance floor and is doing some serious flirting which was reciprocated. I felt sorry for her fiancé as I don’t think he was into seeing his girl flirting with another guy.

Was she just making him jealous?

Now, I don’t normally think about what happened on a Saturday night, but this one has got me thinking.

None of my friends know I’m on fab, maybe I should tell her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe you should leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why? It's not as if I instigated the situation, plus she want's to do a 5km run in a few weeks.

Would it not be better to see what happens? 2 new swingers might be born!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she was just looking for attention like lot women do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why? It's not as if I instigated the situation, plus she want's to do a 5km run in a few weeks.

Would it not be better to see what happens? 2 new swingers might be born! "

She was prob having a flanter with you and your reading too much into it .. have you asked her fiance what he thinks you should do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why? It's not as if I instigated the situation, plus she want's to do a 5km run in a few weeks.

Would it not be better to see what happens? 2 new swingers might be born!

She was prob having a flanter with you and your reading too much into it .. have you asked her fiance what he thinks you should do

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that's what I'm thinking she was doing as well

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person.

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much drink maybe ?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Why? It's not as if I instigated the situation, plus she want's to do a 5km run in a few weeks.

Would it not be better to see what happens? 2 new swingers might be born! "

Ahh but does she know you're 'fab straight'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or she was just looking for attention like lot women do

As do lots of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or she was just looking for attention like lot women do

As do lots of men "
. True

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person."

The dilemma is to tell her about fab, not ask her out for a drink

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet! "

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person.

The dilemma is to tell her about fab, not ask her out for a drink

Why would you think she would want to know that ? Do you think it will make her jump into bed with you or will make you more appealing to her? I'm curious as to what your looking the answer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while. "

As do we

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person.

The dilemma is to tell her about fab, not ask her out for a drink

Why would you think she would want to know that ? Do you think it will make her jump into bed with you or will make you more appealing to her? I'm curious as to what your looking the answer too

We don't appear on the same wave length!

No I don't think having a fab username is going to make someone want to be with you and anyone that does could be considered somewhat retarded.

It would seem, she might like to swing, so if I tell her about fab I am leaving myself exposed.

The dilemma is to start taking about swinging and fab. Yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

As do we

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

As do we

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while. "

Porn pre dates civilization as per wikipedia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you are reading way to much into it.

Guessing you both had a few drinks, which would cloud the matter.

She could just be a flirty d*unk/few drinks in kind of person.

The dilemma is to tell her about fab, not ask her out for a drink

Why would you think she would want to know that ? Do you think it will make her jump into bed with you or will make you more appealing to her? I'm curious as to what your looking the answer too

We don't appear on the same wave length!

No I don't think having a fab username is going to make someone want to be with you and anyone that does could be considered somewhat retarded.

It would seem, she might like to swing, so if I tell her about fab I am leaving myself exposed.

The dilemma is to start taking about swinging and fab. Yes or no. "

No then

I'm sure if she wants to swing she will find the site in due course

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

Porn pre dates civilization as per wikipedia

Indeed. The dinosaurs were well known for their love of porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

Porn pre dates civilization as per wikipedia

Indeed. The dinosaurs were well known for their love of porn. "

Yeah I could imagine the T-Rex whacking off to a bit of FFM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No then

I'm sure if she wants to swing she will find the site in due course

Eh, why?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd love to know how what her 5km run has to do with it?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"God be with the days when flirting was an end in itself. Innocent times they were.

I assume you refer to the days before porn and the internet!

Porn isn't a new thing. Both it and flirting pre date the internet by quite a while.

Porn pre dates civilization as per wikipedia

Indeed. The dinosaurs were well known for their love of porn.

Yeah I could imagine the T-Rex whacking off to a bit of FFM"

No, the tyrannosaurus rex was famously frustrated by its short front legs that weren't long enough to reach its mickey. As a result they actually invented flirting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, the tyrannosaurus rex was famously frustrated by its short front legs that weren't long enough to reach its mickey. As a result they actually invented flirting. "

How did the triceratops fair out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd love to know how what her 5km run has to do with it?

That's when I'm meeting her again, and I get very horny after a run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your self esteem so low that you need to chase after someone who is engaged to boost it?

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

Exactly this

In a nutshell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So because she was flirting you think she would be into swinging pmsl

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, tbh it just doesn't sound right plus you could make pretty much a fool out of yourself or worse.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"So because she was flirting you think she would be into swinging pmsl

It's amazing the things that go through a persons mind during a 'flirt'

Hey next time we go dancing and someone bops off us I'll give them our PPS numbers, sure it's OBVIOUS they want to do our tax returns for us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So because she was flirting you think she would be into swinging pmsl

It's amazing the things that go through a persons mind during a 'flirt'

Hey next time we go dancing and someone bops off us I'll give them our PPS numbers, sure it's OBVIOUS they want to do our tax returns for us!

Input like this isn't really helpful !! Just in case you didn't realise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op, tbh it just doesn't sound right plus you could make pretty much a fool out of yourself or worse. "

Yes I take on board what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is your self esteem so low that you need to chase after someone who is engaged to boost it? "

No. Where did you get this notion from

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

So you reckon if a girl is attached no other guy should be with her even if she wants it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

Exactly this

In a nutshell!"

Can i get an amen for all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously couldn't make proper sense of this thread.

From what I gathered op you are saying you were out and some guy's fiancée was flirting with you. You're trying to decide if you should tell this woman about Fab to maybe entice her.

The way I see it, it is someone else's woman and unless he and her both mention swinging or joining them fun then I am not gonna tread on some other dude's toes.

So you reckon if a girl is attached no other guy should be with her even if she wants it?"

I think what people are saying is that you may have got ahead of yourself.

You'd all been drinking - and flirting. Happens every Saturday night in pubs and clubs all over the country.

Its a big leap to want to introduce them to swinging. Or to even think they may want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think what people are saying is that you may have got ahead of yourself.

You'd all been drinking - and flirting. Happens every Saturday night in pubs and clubs all over the country.

Its a big leap to want to introduce them to swinging. Or to even think they may want to."

I hear you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So because she was flirting you think she would be into swinging pmsl

It's amazing the things that go through a persons mind during a 'flirt'

Hey next time we go dancing and someone bops off us I'll give them our PPS numbers, sure it's OBVIOUS they want to do our tax returns for us!

brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5km is the new code for dtf

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

OP, you sound like you're smitten with her after a bit of d*unken flirting.

She has a fiance,so leave it well alone.

And since you're doing a 5k run with her im guessing you know the couple fairly well?

If theres never been flirting while sober then that says enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks someone is going for the fuck ??

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