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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many times would you be let down by a meet before you would consider giving up this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id give 2 chances no more

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"How many times would you be let down by a meet before you would consider giving up this site? "

By the same person?

maybe once.

other than that, keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with ur gut feeling op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go with ur gut feeling op"

Thanks. Demoralising when you chat to people for ages and then when it's time to meet, they pull out. Makes you wonder how real this site actually is.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Unless they have a very valid excuse for leaving you down the first time.. chances are they will keep doing it to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once"

If you mean they were a no show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once

If you mean they were a no show"

Yes. I've only let it happen once, but it's happened with three different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once

If you mean they were a no show

Yes. I've only let it happen once, but it's happened with three different people. "

Do you do the usual checks ? That they're well verified. A quick chat on the phone beforehand to see its really a woman?

Not foolproof but can help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice because the first time they could have legit excuse but if they do it second time there prob just messing you about

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Once

If you mean they were a no show

Yes. I've only let it happen once, but it's happened with three different people.

Do you do the usual checks ? That they're well verified. A quick chat on the phone beforehand to see its really a woman?

Not foolproof but can help. "

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

Not making a meet is rude and if the connection is there shouldn't happen if carefully planned.

A lot like being late for work, you don't want to go but make up elaborate excuse why, because, I didn't want to is to harsh.

So move on, don't give up. It can be fun.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Go to a social. You'll meet loads of like minded people there ... who have shown up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a social. You'll meet loads of like minded people there ... who have shown up!"

I will do. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that rally you in your pic OP?

Its coming up as possibly fake on my search. If the ladies that let you down checked too that could explain the no shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's defo fake looking pic but he has some friends only pics maybe there more real pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's defo fake looking pic but he has some friends only pics maybe there more real pics "

Quite possibly

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Is that rally you in your pic OP?

Its coming up as possibly fake on my search. If the ladies that let you down checked too that could explain the no shows."

Yeah that would do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure you ladies would check out veris, with the people concerned. Prior to meeting

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Im sure you ladies would check out veris, with the people concerned. Prior to meeting"

I wouldn't check with the people who verified others. My first thing is to check profile pic. If it comes up as fake I wouldn't go any further.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Is that rally you in your pic OP?

Its coming up as possibly fake on my search. If the ladies that let you down checked too that could explain the no shows."

Possibly fake....you're gas Loncav, unless it's Gabriel Macht himself, it's more than possibly fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that rally you in your pic OP?

Its coming up as possibly fake on my search. If the ladies that let you down checked too that could explain the no shows.

Possibly fake....you're gas Loncav, unless it's Gabriel Macht himself, it's more than possibly fake. "
you wouldn't be so lucky to get Harvey on this site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that rally you in your pic OP?

Its coming up as possibly fake on my search. If the ladies that let you down checked too that could explain the no shows.

Possibly fake....you're gas Loncav, unless it's Gabriel Macht himself, it's more than possibly fake. "

I was being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None because its a normal thing on here all talk no action something we are pretty use too. Now not all the time about 40% of it though

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Kik live pic the best way to see if someone is serious about a meet. being let down a few times.if they can't then in my mind they can't meet in real life.

But if they are worth the chance and don't use kik then I will take a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik live pic the best way to see if someone is serious about a meet. being let down a few times.if they can't then in my mind they can't meet in real life.

But if they are worth the chance and don't use kik then I will take a chance "
kik live on cam live photo verts anything like doesnt prove someone will meet up on time at a certin place..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times would you be let down by a meet before you would consider giving up this site? "

Well I've been on a few months, was stalked at first, learnt the hard way and it's hard to say, but after being stood up earlier from a guy that said he wasnt like other guys and could be trusted, take it at my own pace, I now trust actions not words, I mean there was no reason, texted, phone was going to voicemail and now seeing is believing won't happen again, I trust once then when the trust has gone, adios amigo!

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