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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated..." I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself " Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself " Ouch !!! | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself " When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up.. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up.."It has everything to do with your thread cause if you were a proper father and in your kids life then your post would have never existed | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong." It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up..
It has everything to do with your thread cause if you were a proper father and in your kids life then your post would have never existed "That's an absolutely shocking and unforgivable thing for you to say when you have no idea what his circumstances are. There are plenty of fathers up and down the country who never get to see their kids because some crazy ass bitch is using them as pawns. As for the topic, I cried last Saturday morning and I nearly cried today when my car broke down. But thankfully it's all sorted now. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life " And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up..
It has everything to do with your thread cause if you were a proper father and in your kids life then your post would have never existed
That's an absolutely shocking and unforgivable thing for you to say when you have no idea what his circumstances are. There are plenty of fathers up and down the country who never get to see their kids because some crazy ass bitch is using them as pawns.
As for the topic, I cried last Saturday morning and I nearly cried today when my car broke down. But thankfully it's all sorted now. "You need to re read what I wrote. Like I said everyone has different circumstances but regardless of what the mammy is like if fathers really want to see their kids then the mammy can't stop them. The mammy may be a bitch but if fathers don't fight for their kids then in my eyes the father is worse | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself " Your defense of women and stance on abandonment and lack of responsibility is admirable up to a point. You are judging it by your experience and only a snippet of the ops circumstances. You don't have all the information to jump to that conclusion. Op first off I think letter writing is a beautiful way to communicate especially with your daughter as she progresses on to another chapter in her life. These are always emotional moments for us as parents as they are symbolic of the passing of time and while it's a new, challenging, exciting and hopefully happy move onwards for our children, it's also a closing of another chapter of their innocent childhood year's. I have cried twice in the last few days, seeing one child off for another semester of college, after she left I spotted she had left post it notes for me reminding me how awesome she is  and sadly the other time was in relation to shitty behaviour from my ex towards one of our children which brings me back to the post I have quoted...please don't judge all with the heading without all the facts. Some people really do deserve the title of deadbeat parent but extenuating circumstances can sometimes mean that not all parents are lucky enough to have 24/7 access for a variety of reasons but are still great parents. The facts paint a different picture.
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him." I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up..
It has everything to do with your thread cause if you were a proper father and in your kids life then your post would have never existed
That's an absolutely shocking and unforgivable thing for you to say when you have no idea what his circumstances are. There are plenty of fathers up and down the country who never get to see their kids because some crazy ass bitch is using them as pawns.
As for the topic, I cried last Saturday morning and I nearly cried today when my car broke down. But thankfully it's all sorted now.
You need to re read what I wrote. Like I said everyone has different circumstances but regardless of what the mammy is like if fathers really want to see their kids then the mammy can't stop them. The mammy may be a bitch but if fathers don't fight for their kids then in my eyes the father is worse "I really don't need to reread what you wrote. You launched into a horrible personal attack on someone with no knowledge of his life or why it is like it is. I accept that you're possibly taking your standpoint because of your own experiences but I still don't and can't agree with what you said to him. I've no wish to derail this thread so I'm stepping out of it now. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father " You don't have a fucking clue what you're on about | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father You don't have a fucking clue what you're on about" Explain how I don't then . | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father You don't have a fucking clue what you're on about Explain how I don't then . " As fucking if I need to explain anything to you. Not a fucking clue what you're on about. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father You don't have a fucking clue what you're on about Explain how I don't then . As fucking if I need to explain anything to you. Not a fucking clue what you're on about. " Sounds like ypu another runaway daddy with a reply like thato | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father " Well if you don't know the circumstances of others you should keep you're mouth shut. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father You don't have a fucking clue what you're on about Explain how I don't then . As fucking if I need to explain anything to you. Not a fucking clue what you're on about. Sounds like ypu another runaway daddy with a reply like thato " Fucking wanker. You haven't a clue. | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father Well if you don't know the circumstances of others you should keep you're mouth shut." Judge and you will be judge... never judge someone else's choices ... there not your choices, you know nothing about this persons life | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself Maybe sometimes it might be the mammy's fault.You seem to think that they can do no wrong. It may quite possibly be the mammys fault absolutely but that would never stop a father been in a kids life And how do you know the o.p circumstances to say what you did to him. I don't know his circumstances but there is no reason in this world that in my eyes is acceptable for a father to not to be in his kids life. Only reason that's acceptable is if the kids doesn't want to see a father Well if you don't know the circumstances of others you should keep you're mouth shut." | |||
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"This is my last post on this topic. I don't need to know anybodies circumstances. My point is a general point that there is no reason or excuse in this world were a parent would not be in their kids lives on a very regular basis " That's very good of you, your last post on my thread with your topic, maybe find a more meaningful way to vent your misconstrued attitude.. | |||
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"This is my last post on this topic. I don't need to know anybodies circumstances. My point is a general point that there is no reason or excuse in this world were a parent would not be in their kids lives on a very regular basis That's very good of you, your last post on my thread with your topic, maybe find a more meaningful way to vent your misconstrued attitude.." | |||
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"I cried yesterday. After 34 years waiting, had "contact" via 3rd party from a birth parent to confirm they don't want any contact whatsoever. Plus side, they acknowledged my existence which the other birth parent didn't do, and as much as I can rationalise their decision, still breaks my heart "Oh god, how absolutely devastating for you xxx | |||
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"Apologies, im not trying to bring people on a downer. I was writing a letter to my daughter last night, whom I love more than life itself, I wouldn't consider myself to be an overly emotive person.Some background information, I would not see my daughter very often, nothing to do with my lifestyle choice, just to clarify... And I love writing letters, not emails. txts etc. Anyways I was writing away, general stuff, she just started secondary school, so a lot to talk about,I lost train of thought but continued writing, I caught myself in the moment, and I was reminiscing about my baby.. cue floodgates, tears were streaming down my face, I read it again, and felt completely overwhemed with emotion, I went to bed last night feeling very sad. But woke this morning feeling very, very blessed to have such a beautiful person in my life, even if the physical presence is afar. The power of emotion. When was the last time you cried, was it because you were angry, sad, hurt, happy etc.. all comments appreciated... I know I'm going to get slatted for this but I have no sympathy for you one bit. There is nothing in this world that would stop me from seeing my kids on a regular basis. Thankfully I have my kids full time but if I didn't I'd make sure I'd see them regularly I enjoy helping them with their homework or bringing them training or swimming reading them stories at night and so on. I don't know how anyone can walk away from their kids. I know everyones situation is different but there are so many fathers out there that walk out of their kids lives when the parents separate and it's completely disgusting. Even the financial side of it too. How do these men expect the mammy to be all of a sudden able to afford and pay all the bills by herself When your finished on your soap box, can I borrow it please, first of all, you got a couple of issues, confused. I would have suggested ye have the balls to start your own thread on the topic your ranting about, which has nothing to do with the subject matter I discussed, secondly I neither asked nor want your sympathy, nor anyone else's for that matter, in relation to my circumstances. After all big boys dont cry and finally, because its been a long day.. grow the fuck up.." | |||
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"Madame boo I'm not judging it by any experience. My point is that I don't see any excuse for a parent be it a father or mother to not be in their kids lives Your judgement would seem to centre on myself not being in my child's life,and by defenition you assume I iam not supporting my child, be it financially, psychologically, emotionally, morally or spiritually, how did you come to this conclusion.?" Exactly this. It was an assumption that he jumped on, judged on and is now being rude about. Great topic op despite the attempt to derail it. Madame Boo | |||
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"I cried yesterday. After 34 years waiting, had "contact" via 3rd party from a birth parent to confirm they don't want any contact whatsoever. Plus side, they acknowledged my existence which the other birth parent didn't do, and as much as I can rationalise their decision, still breaks my heart "I am sorry that you had to go through that, it must be awful. Madame Boo | |||
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"I cried yesterday. After 34 years waiting, had "contact" via 3rd party from a birth parent to confirm they don't want any contact whatsoever. Plus side, they acknowledged my existence which the other birth parent didn't do, and as much as I can rationalise their decision, still breaks my heart "Xxxxxx | |||
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"Madame boo I'm not judging it by any experience. My point is that I don't see any excuse for a parent be it a father or mother to not be in their kids lives " But he is in his daughters life and he clearly states that in that he was writing to her in between seeing her. What he also stated is that he doesn't see her often which you jumped on as abandonment which isn't the case. You got it wrong and handled it badly. Again your defensive stance of parental interaction with their children is admirable but you jumped the gun here. | |||
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"Madame boo I'm not judging it by any experience. My point is that I don't see any excuse for a parent be it a father or mother to not be in their kids lives Your judgement would seem to centre on myself not being in my child's life,and by defenition you assume I iam not supporting my child, be it financially, psychologically, emotionally, morally or spiritually, how did you come to this conclusion.? Exactly this. It was an assumption that he jumped on, judged on and is now being rude about. Great topic op despite the attempt to derail it. Madame Boo" Thank you, I suppose the moral of the story is, that big boys do cry. | |||
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"I cried yesterday. After 34 years waiting, had "contact" via 3rd party from a birth parent to confirm they don't want any contact whatsoever. Plus side, they acknowledged my existence which the other birth parent didn't do, and as much as I can rationalise their decision, still breaks my heart "That was very courageous of you to share, thank you so much.. | |||
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"Madame boo I'm not judging it by any experience. My point is that I don't see any excuse for a parent be it a father or mother to not be in their kids lives Your judgement would seem to centre on myself not being in my child's life,and by defenition you assume I iam not supporting my child, be it financially, psychologically, emotionally, morally or spiritually, how did you come to this conclusion.? Exactly this. It was an assumption that he jumped on, judged on and is now being rude about. Great topic op despite the attempt to derail it. Madame Boo Thank you, I suppose the moral of the story is, that big boys do cry." I know, they write letters Madame Boo | |||
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Letter writing is a beautiful way of sharing, interacting and an obviously needed outlet for a few tears. Showing your emotional side in an all to frequently cruel, cold world is a stronger braver move in my opinion.
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"I cried Sunday, I cry alot lately because I work in Dublin and i miss home and my family. It gets me awfully down and I have anxiety about my future. There is no simple fix." Crying wont fix the problems, as you know too well yourself, but at least your getting a release no matter how small it may seem, we all need to talk, and remember nothing stays the same, life keeps turning, and hopefully for the better in your situation, as im sure it will. | |||
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"I cried Sunday, I cry alot lately because I work in Dublin and i miss home and my family. It gets me awfully down and I have anxiety about my future. There is no simple fix." It'll all work out in the end pal. Won't be the near future, but in a few years. Keep the head up | |||
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