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"Legal age has to come into play here you don't want any under age sex allegations made against him either. Tell him the truth about snowballing etc or let him Google them while your with him good luck " Totally agree with the sex allegations point. If I give him condoms then I feel I will be encouraging him to have sex. I don't want him having sex at that age obviously I don't think there will be a need to give him any but as he gets older I don't want him getting some poor girl pregnant. It's a catch 22 situation | |||
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"Legal age has to come into play here you don't want any under age sex allegations made against him either. Tell him the truth about snowballing etc or let him Google them while your with him good luck Totally agree with the sex allegations point. If I give him condoms then I feel I will be encouraging him to have sex. I don't want him having sex at that age obviously I don't think there will be a need to give him any but as he gets older I don't want him getting some poor girl pregnant. It's a catch 22 situation " Ackward one for yous to get a happy medium | |||
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"Had the same thing last year with my daughter she was 11, she was hearing alot of things in school and was sensible enough to come ask us about them. I explained as best i could with out getting into too much but then i found a great book she read it then came and asked any questions she had and we answered them. There is a book for girls and boys,so to be prepared i bought the boys one too cause the young lad will ask questions soon" Oh I might have a look for a book. That's a good idea. | |||
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"How many here where asking the same questions at there age be honest? I did its life and now thats there smart phones an tablets its so easy for a child too google this sort of stuff is right by all means NO. Only a parent can do is explain what is and whats the dangers of it. And also put some anti porn security / parental control on there devices.. but it still doesnt stop them from going too google and clicking images an well typing what ever they wish.. " I knew what sex was at that age but not much else. I think 13 is so young. I feel I was a lot more innocent at that age | |||
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"Having had the same type of questions from my boys all I can say is first it's great to know that he can come to you with those questions. Secondly answer them as truthfully as you can. Condoms for a 13yr old yikes!!!. Mentally they are not ready for a sexual relationship/ encounter. Good luck OP." Got to agree. 13 too young for condoms. | |||
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"How many here where asking the same questions at there age be honest? I did its life and now thats there smart phones an tablets its so easy for a child too google this sort of stuff is right by all means NO. Only a parent can do is explain what is and whats the dangers of it. And also put some anti porn security / parental control on there devices.. but it still doesnt stop them from going too google and clicking images an well typing what ever they wish.. I knew what sex was at that age but not much else. I think 13 is so young. I feel I was a lot more innocent at that age " well not everyone can brought up the same some other students in the school could be brought up differently as in not a care in the world type thing. I think it just best too explain what is but also show them the affects and dangers that sex can have STDs aids warts the list is endless but you get me drift. They see the good side of sexual stuff but never the bad side well not at least till there in there late teens and even at that its pushing it. I think some parents are too blame in this with no internet protection among there devices.. | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years?" im sorry for going off topic here, but do you think its appropriate to be taking golden showers, and snowballing, while trying to deal with such a sensitive subject...really!!! | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years?im sorry for going off topic here, but do you think its appropriate to be taking golden showers, and snowballing, while trying to deal with such a sensitive subject...really!!! " I don't but he asked about them | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years?im sorry for going off topic here, but do you think its appropriate to be taking golden showers, and snowballing, while trying to deal with such a sensitive subject...really!!! I don't but he asked about them " Haha im sure it was just a typo, read your post... | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years?" My eldest son is 15 and we've just recently gave him condoms and I am not happy about it as it's that fine line of saying it's ok but the being safe than sorry outweighs my feelings about it. My youngest son is 12 but they both have very differing personalities so in all honesty it really depends on the child though we've always been very open about sex and the birds and bees etc, I've been lucky where we have a good honest and Frank mother son relationship. As you say OP it is scary how much things have changed, damned if you do and damned if you don't! | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years? My eldest son is 15 and we've just recently gave him condoms and I am not happy about it as it's that fine line of saying it's ok but the being safe than sorry outweighs my feelings about it. My youngest son is 12 but they both have very differing personalities so in all honesty it really depends on the child though we've always been very open about sex and the birds and bees etc, I've been lucky where we have a good honest and Frank mother son relationship. As you say OP it is scary how much things have changed, damned if you do and damned if you don't!" Bloody hell Pink - you have a 15 year old? ! | |||
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"I completely messed up the whole sex conversation with my spawn. 13 is just too young she's still a little girl really don't even like her talking to boys and she certainly won't be going on the pill. Gonna lock her a tower like rapunzel " I was fine with my daughter - tho I did resort to using some leaflets. I was useless with the boys - and my husband was even worse. I just used to scream CONDOMS every time they went out. Fortunately it worked. | |||
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"You might all need to talk to your children sooner rather than later. Gardai are encouraging parents as from today, to watch a video with their kids, on sextortion from Interpol. This news broke just over an hour ago on breakingnews.ie. Keeping your kids in the dark about sex, isnt protecting them.Its actually denying them the right to information on their own bodies, and you as parents should mentor, guide and protect them through a vulnerable stage in their young lives. Teach them about sex so theyll know right from wrong when it comes to making choices and decisions. Its the best decision youll ever make for them. " I totally agree with this,that is why we didnt hide anything when the first question was asked. We did get stick from some of our friends because they said she was too young but our response to that was if shes not too young to ask the question then shes not to young to know the truth about what shes hearing in school. At least this way we know shes not goin around oblivious to whats happening and what is right or wrong | |||
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"You might all need to talk to your children sooner rather than later. Gardai are encouraging parents as from today, to watch a video with their kids, on sextortion from Interpol. This news broke just over an hour ago on breakingnews.ie. Keeping your kids in the dark about sex, isnt protecting them.Its actually denying them the right to information on their own bodies, and you as parents should mentor, guide and protect them through a vulnerable stage in their young lives. Teach them about sex so theyll know right from wrong when it comes to making choices and decisions. Its the best decision youll ever make for them. I totally agree with this,that is why we didnt hide anything when the first question was asked. We did get stick from some of our friends because they said she was too young but our response to that was if shes not too young to ask the question then shes not to young to know the truth about what shes hearing in school. At least this way we know shes not goin around oblivious to whats happening and what is right or wrong" Youre right too. My youngest daughter is 11 and already showing signs of boobs and pubic hair. She cried at first when she saw them but i just explained it was part of growing up. She knows about having periods, boys and sex cos i spoke to her about it. Kids minds are like sponges and will soak up the information and accept it. With teens being tech- savvy these days and predators online, why would any parent not give their child the information to protect themselves too. | |||
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"Well we gave him the talk again and allowed him to ask what ever questions he wanted. He knew a lot more than I gave him credit for. As for the condoms well lets just say and these are his words. Sticking a penis inside a girl is just gross. Like seriously ma why would anyone want to do that. It took a lot to not laugh " Well done! now he knows he has mum and dad in his corner for advice too. Win win for you all | |||
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"Well we gave him the talk again and allowed him to ask what ever questions he wanted. He knew a lot more than I gave him credit for. As for the condoms well lets just say and these are his words. Sticking a penis inside a girl is just gross. Like seriously ma why would anyone want to do that. It took a lot to not laugh Well done! now he knows he has mum and dad in his corner for advice too. Win win for you all " Thanks | |||
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"My son is 13 and has recently started asking about sex. He has heard things in school and I'm taking golden showers, snowballing here. I of course nearly got sick when he asked what the expressions meant. I told him that me and his dad would sit down and answer any questions he had. I guess I'm wondering how much you tell a 13 year old. I don't want him to have to much information but at the same time I want him to be properly informed about things. He has had the basic sex talk and I am grateful he can comes to me with these questions. I rang my husband to ask him to have a chat with him and we had a giggle over what he was asking. He then said maybe it time we buy the lad some condoms to have just in case. I argued he was way to young. So at what age do you guys think giving your child condoms is appropriate? Taking into account things have changed a lot in the last number of years? My eldest son is 15 and we've just recently gave him condoms and I am not happy about it as it's that fine line of saying it's ok but the being safe than sorry outweighs my feelings about it. My youngest son is 12 but they both have very differing personalities so in all honesty it really depends on the child though we've always been very open about sex and the birds and bees etc, I've been lucky where we have a good honest and Frank mother son relationship. As you say OP it is scary how much things have changed, damned if you do and damned if you don't! Bloody hell Pink - you have a 15 year old? !" Hahahahaha shhhhh | |||
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"I remember when my oldest daughter was around 9/10 and I just found out that I was pregnant. Her friend was a only child both round my house . My daughter says "mum do you have sex to have a baby" I remember cooking the dinner and half muttering yes I think so !!!! Around the kitchen table her friend said. "My mum didn't like this sex thing not really cause she only had me" my daughter replied "mum did you enjoy it you must cause you did it three times ".. " Cringe | |||
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"I remember when my oldest daughter was around 9/10 and I just found out that I was pregnant. Her friend was a only child both round my house . My daughter says "mum do you have sex to have a baby" I remember cooking the dinner and half muttering yes I think so !!!! Around the kitchen table her friend said. "My mum didn't like this sex thing not really cause she only had me" my daughter replied "mum did you enjoy it you must cause you did it three times ".. " Hahahhahaha. I laughed more than I should have at this. | |||
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"Our fella came home when he was 8/9 and asked what a blow job was. He was told it was something to do with sex and he was happy enough with that. Apparently a kid in his class had an I phone and was looking things up on it. The key is to explain to them in a way that suits their mental maturity. Not too much just enough that they don't want to hear any more. If course sometimes its to the level of the parents mental maturity " 8/9 year old asking about blow jobs fecking hell there suppose be innocent that age lol | |||
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"I remember when my oldest daughter was around 9/10 and I just found out that I was pregnant. Her friend was a only child both round my house . My daughter says "mum do you have sex to have a baby" I remember cooking the dinner and half muttering yes I think so !!!! Around the kitchen table her friend said. "My mum didn't like this sex thing not really cause she only had me" my daughter replied "mum did you enjoy it you must cause you did it three times ".. Hahahhahaha. I laughed more than I should have at this. " She's 20 now I think she knows Thats not the case | |||
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"I remember when my oldest daughter was around 9/10 and I just found out that I was pregnant. Her friend was a only child both round my house . My daughter says "mum do you have sex to have a baby" I remember cooking the dinner and half muttering yes I think so !!!! Around the kitchen table her friend said. "My mum didn't like this sex thing not really cause she only had me" my daughter replied "mum did you enjoy it you must cause you did it three times ".. Hahahhahaha. I laughed more than I should have at this. She's 20 now I think she knows Thats not the case " Well, so long as she doesn't discover you on Fab and see your verification list you'll be grand. | |||
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"Had the same thing last year with my daughter she was 11, she was hearing alot of things in school and was sensible enough to come ask us about them. I explained as best i could with out getting into too much but then i found a great book she read it then came and asked any questions she had and we answered them. There is a book for girls and boys,so to be prepared i bought the boys one too cause the young lad will ask questions soon Oh I might have a look for a book. That's a good idea." Easons always have a few good books. I teach SPHE and it's not the best syllabus really I think it leaves a lot of unanswered questions and depending on the school and the teacher it can be almost non existent. | |||
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