FabSwingers.com forum: What one thing...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What one thing really puts you off a profile when you read it?

It could anything from strange demands to the infamous Sydney note.

Personally I read through until they ask for something I am not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, not meet verified, whole host of demands etc, if they say put something in the subject box!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

The distance away from me . I use to travel but makes you tired for the meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain pictures like guys cocks next to a sky remote. Profile that hasn't been filled out. The list is endless really

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

"Certain pictures like guys cocks next to a sky remote. Profile that hasn't been filled out. The list is endless really

I dont know about things that put me off a profile but i know a killer pair of red heels defo turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok this may sound strange ( ok maybe it is)and the person cant help it,but height is what i look at ,im 5'7 so he has to be that or over,then its married/attached and so on...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You are dead right nothing like a killer pair of heels to turn any guy on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who use caps and loads of !!!! in their list of demands. Feels like youre being shouted at.

Relax like. Calm yourselves down.

Polly

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I hate rude photos like close ups of pussy and Cum shots disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok this may sound strange ( ok maybe it is)and the person cant help it,but height is what i look at ,im 5'7 so he has to be that or over,then its married/attached and so on..."

Me too Persha. Im 5"7 and obviously taller with heels. I always look at a mans height to make sure he's a good height so I dont feel like the BFG next to him lol

Polly

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Put didgeridoo in the subject line of your message to show that you read the whole profile"

No, you're alright, thanks.

Alternatively, "no reply unless face pic included in first message". Erm, no actually, your alright as well, thanks.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah feck... *you're alright too

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. "

If I was a women that would put me off big time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All fair points. Hopefully a few folks out there will understanda lack of responses to mails now.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. "
this I've seen profiles where the lady face is nearly visable sucking the guy off

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. "

^^^^^ this.

and those lazy assed profiles that say " fill in later". Then theres the status on mens profiles calling women geebags, cunts...up their own holes etc but say theyre respectful in their profile bio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples' profiles with only female pics, dick pics in all the pics on a single guy's profile, whining statuses.... I could go on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fill in later and dick pics seem to be a common complaint that people should have learned about by now.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Hate it when they go unlos...other than that..lemme at 'em..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certain pictures like guys cocks next to a sky remote. Profile that hasn't been filled out. The list is endless really

I dont know about things that put me off a profile but i know a killer pair of red heels defo turns me on

Thanks. I do love my heels.

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By *e CountMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny

"You are dead right nothing like a killer pair of heels to turn any guy on . "

I could never wear heels ?? fecking things are dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo of a cock sticking out of a trouser zip reminds me of a flasher hiding behind the schools, too sleazy imo!

Those claiming to be a Dom but when chatting you realise they are only an apprentice Mr Grey

The profiles with no text just 'fill in later'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Then theres the status on mens profiles calling women geebags, cunts...up their own holes etc but say theyre respectful in their profile bio!

I make profile notes out of those statuses when I see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. this I've seen profiles where the lady face is nearly visable sucking the guy off

I've seen those too. Anyone that knows her would recognise her.

Also, those sort of pics on an unverified mans profile. Who is this woman? Does she know her pics are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are dead right nothing like a killer pair of heels to turn any guy on .

I could never wear heels ?? fecking things are dangerous. "

Plenty of practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. "

I agree.... definitely a no go for me!!!

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By *razycoupleniCouple
over a year ago

belfast

The only thing for us is being verified. The actual profile page for us really doesn't matter to much talking through message or phone is much more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non drinkers. Dont think we could ever meet without a bit of dutch courage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empty profiles. No pics with nothing written, not even interests.

Couple's profiles with pics of just the fem asking you to meet the husband.

Straight men that between 12am to 6am on a Fri, Sat and Sun put up status updates saying they will drop everything to suck off any cock on fab.

420 friendly. White/Snow friendly.

Status updates whoring themselves for drugs.

Those that demand face pics and key words written in the subject line of a mail. Utter nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok this may sound strange ( ok maybe it is)and the person cant help it,but height is what i look at ,im 5'7 so he has to be that or over,then its married/attached and so on...

Me too Persha. Im 5"7 and obviously taller with heels. I always look at a mans height to make sure he's a good height so I dont feel like the BFG next to him lol

Polly "

Ahh polly the BFG comment made me laugh as i say the same thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Empty profiles. No pics with nothing written, not even interests.

Couple's profiles with pics of just the fem asking you to meet the husband.

Straight men that between 12am to 6am on a Fri, Sat and Sun put up status updates saying they will drop everything to suck off any cock on fab.

420 friendly. White/Snow friendly.

Status updates whoring themselves for drugs.

Those that demand face pics and key words written in the subject line of a mail. Utter nonsense.

This gave me a right giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, not even an avatar pic on display .Also very graphic genetalia pics are a turn off -dripping cocks and pussies -yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who demands face pic with 1st message especially from the profiles who have no pics

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There way to many things to list that put me off, but keep them coming it makes selection easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non drinkers. Dont think we could ever meet without a bit of dutch courage "

Ah see I don't drink much or often myself but I would want stop someone having a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that are not meet verified, it's not hard, even for single guys. We were both singles on here before and believe If you are really interest in the swinging lifestyle, you will get yourself meet verified. At an M&G, social, coffee meet. There is plenty of opportunities. No excuses.

"It was all guys going to that social and I didn't want people to think I was gay cause I would only had veris from guys"

We do read the veris and can tell when people have played or just met at socials or even parties.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Will fill in later"

If you're lazy in filling out your profile most likely means you're lazy in bed too

Good luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And 3 word profile text with a 3 paragraph warning to Sydney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What one thing really puts you off a profile when you read it?

It could anything from strange demands to the infamous Sydney note.

Personally I read through until they ask for something I am not. "
when they have loads of demands like loads wants and not wants lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fill in later and dick pics seem to be a common complaint that people should have learned about by now. "
how can women complain about cock pics wen loads them have fanny pics don't get it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fill in later and dick pics seem to be a common complaint that people should have learned about by now. how can women complain about cock pics wen loads them have fanny pics don't get it lol"

Maybe its not those ones complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fill in later and dick pics seem to be a common complaint that people should have learned about by now. how can women complain about cock pics wen loads them have fanny pics don't get it lol

Maybe its not those ones complaining"
believe me I've seen plenty with pics there vagina all over there profile pic complaining about guys with cock pics women's logic for ye lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

420 bullshit puts me off straight away!

Cock pics taken dangling over the toilet or while the guy is sitting on the toilet

Profiles full of cock pics in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fill in later and dick pics seem to be a common complaint that people should have learned about by now. how can women complain about cock pics wen loads them have fanny pics don't get it lol

Maybe its not those ones complaining believe me I've seen plenty with pics there vagina all over there profile pic complaining about guys with cock pics women's logic for ye lol

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Single mens profiles where the pics have more lady body parts showing than of the man. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"420 bullshit puts me off straight away!

Cock pics taken dangling over the toilet or while the guy is sitting on the toilet

Profiles full of cock pics in general

Completely agree- a cock photographed over a toilet? It's so strange and just incredibly off-putting.

Also, poor grammar and spelling. Your vs you're, too vs to, the plural of lady is ladies, etc.

Finally, profiles that say things like 'I'll never understand women's logic as if every woman (or indeed man for that matter) thinks the exact same way.

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