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"Great idea OP and well done for trying to organise it and hopefully you'll get a few that are interested " If it doesnt go ahead iv lost nothing ao no harm in it I would have thought with the amount of blokes giving out there would have been some interest.offer stands anyway | |||
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"What a great and thoughtful idea! Its not easy for blokes on this site. Dont know how they do it. Fair play to you! Hope it goes well Px " Thanks.its not easy no.i struggled for ages like most and if this had of been offerd to me i would have jumped in it.figurtively speaking ha | |||
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"Great idea OP. Hope it goes well. I've seen from previous that the lads complaining about no meets and no veris on the forums go missing when something like this is suggested!" Yup,well if i myself or anyone else puts up posts like this then they have no excuse.im sure there will still be a "why is it so hard to get verified" post tomorrow | |||
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"Ive done coffee meets before for newbs and unveried users. Its great when its a success. Those that want the veri will show. Then, ye have those that talk the talk but dont walk the walk so to speak. Best of luck and good for you " Id imagine as a woman offering this you would get a great response.maybe not so much for a bloke.....thanks tho | |||
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"Ive done coffee meets before for newbs and unveried users. Its great when its a success. Those that want the veri will show. Then, ye have those that talk the talk but dont walk the walk so to speak. Best of luck and good for you Id imagine as a woman offering this you would get a great response.maybe not so much for a bloke.....thanks tho " It's still early days so hopefully you'll get some interest from the guys.. | |||
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"Ive done coffee meets before for newbs and unveried users. Its great when its a success. Those that want the veri will show. Then, ye have those that talk the talk but dont walk the walk so to speak. Best of luck and good for you Id imagine as a woman offering this you would get a great response.maybe not so much for a bloke.....thanks tho " I got a great response here on the forum. The show up on the day was quite different so, being a woman thats hosting doesnt matter. Having a set of balls to show up does | |||
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"Ive done coffee meets before for newbs and unveried users. Its great when its a success. Those that want the veri will show. Then, ye have those that talk the talk but dont walk the walk so to speak. Best of luck and good for you Id imagine as a woman offering this you would get a great response.maybe not so much for a bloke.....thanks tho I got a great response here on the forum. The show up on the day was quite different so, being a woman thats hosting doesnt matter. Having a set of balls to show up does" Thats very true.worat case scenario il enjoy a nice coffee in peace | |||
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"Sounds like a great idea!! Pity I'm so far away!!! " Well if you ever find yourself down this direction give me a shout | |||
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"Sounds like a great idea!! Pity I'm so far away!!! Well if you ever find yourself down this direction give me a shout" Next time there's an eminem concert I'll be there lol | |||
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"Sounds like a great idea!! Pity I'm so far away!!! Well if you ever find yourself down this direction give me a shout Next time there's an eminem concert I'll be there lol " | |||
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"The men that look for coffee meets to get that elusive verification suddenly go silent when it's a guy that offers to verify them. That's because they live in hope that a coffee meet will lead to a snog, a quicky handjob or maybe a ride. If it's a bloke doing it then there's no hope of that. they just can't see the bigger picture. They think a social veri from a bloke is like locking a shut door....when it could be the door opening for them. best of luck to you OP, but I bet if you get just one lady to co-organise with you, the floodgates will open. " I agree thats how 90% of them think but if that 10% or 1% take this opportunity then il be happy with that....thanks | |||
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"The men that look for coffee meets to get that elusive verification suddenly go silent when it's a guy that offers to verify them. That's because they live in hope that a coffee meet will lead to a snog, a quicky handjob or maybe a ride. If it's a bloke doing it then there's no hope of that. they just can't see the bigger picture. They think a social veri from a bloke is like locking a shut door....when it could be the door opening for them. best of luck to you OP, but I bet if you get just one lady to co-organise with you, the floodgates will open. " Couldn't agree more with this. | |||
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"Dying to know when it is and if I'm free to go to it " No time or date as of yet but by the looks of it,it will just be me and you hahaha so when you free?;) | |||
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" Let me know if you're going ahead, I'll pop in if I'm around! " Drop me a message if you can so il remember | |||
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"Crazy I thought there would be loads taking you up on this opportunity OP seems people don't cop the fact if you have at least a verification you are ahead of the game because people know you are genuine! Not as if you're asking for your cock to be sucked lol or payment (which I've heard of before happening last time I was on!) " Why didnt i think of paymeng haha Yea it just goes to show most are just chancing their arms hoping a female will see their cry for help and come to the rescue.if itvwas me id jump at the chance and as you said be ahead of the game and get that green tick | |||
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"Crazy I thought there would be loads taking you up on this opportunity OP seems people don't cop the fact if you have at least a verification you are ahead of the game because people know you are genuine! Not as if you're asking for your cock to be sucked lol or payment (which I've heard of before happening last time I was on!) Why didnt i think of paymeng haha Yea it just goes to show most are just chancing their arms hoping a female will see their cry for help and come to the rescue.if itvwas me id jump at the chance and as you said be ahead of the game and get that green tick " The women are supposed to be the damzels in distress lol not the blokes! | |||
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"Crazy I thought there would be loads taking you up on this opportunity OP seems people don't cop the fact if you have at least a verification you are ahead of the game because people know you are genuine! Not as if you're asking for your cock to be sucked lol or payment (which I've heard of before happening last time I was on!) Why didnt i think of paymeng haha Yea it just goes to show most are just chancing their arms hoping a female will see their cry for help and come to the rescue.if itvwas me id jump at the chance and as you said be ahead of the game and get that green tick The women are supposed to be the damzels in distress lol not the blokes!" But this been fab,everything is backwards | |||
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"Great idea vanman im in if it takes off " Don't get in the van with the stranger offering treats Great idea op, hope it goes well and separates the fabbers from the whiners Enjoy your coffee Madame | |||
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"Don't know why guys are so shy/against meeting other guys for a verif. As a newbie I would've loved meeting some1 that could educate & chat about their experiences of the site. " As someone else pointed out i think with a lot of guys they only want to meet a woman for a coffee to get verified thinking it might lead to something more.not realising if they meet a bloke and get the green tick its half the battle won.....the bigger picture | |||
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"Don't know why guys are so shy/against meeting other guys for a verif. As a newbie I would've loved meeting some1 that could educate & chat about their experiences of the site. As someone else pointed out i think with a lot of guys they only want to meet a woman for a coffee to get verified thinking it might lead to something more.not realising if they meet a bloke and get the green tick its half the battle won.....the bigger picture" Could be altho any coffee meet I had, was just that, coffee. If we liked each other then arrangements would be made for d future but it was still gonna be just coffee. | |||
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"Don't know why guys are so shy/against meeting other guys for a verif. As a newbie I would've loved meeting some1 that could educate & chat about their experiences of the site. As someone else pointed out i think with a lot of guys they only want to meet a woman for a coffee to get verified thinking it might lead to something more.not realising if they meet a bloke and get the green tick its half the battle won.....the bigger picture Could be altho any coffee meet I had, was just that, coffee. If we liked each other then arrangements would be made for d future but it was still gonna be just coffee. " You mean you met for a coffee and didnt drop your pants? Haha i think some people just have a fantasy about it. | |||
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"If you'll have me I'd like to come along, daytimes suit me best and I like doing group coffees as they can be a great giggle. I'm far from a newbie so I'm not looking for veris. " You are more than welcome,id imagine this post is going to get a lot more interest now | |||
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"What if you don't like coffee lol " Tea or hot chocolate or a bottle of water | |||
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"I know I'd never meet a group of lads for a coffee. But I would for a game of 5aside on astro or something followed by a few pints. The interest would be higher in that for people similar to me. " that does sound a better idea to be fair | |||
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"I know I'd never meet a group of lads for a coffee. But I would for a game of 5aside on astro or something followed by a few pints. The interest would be higher in that for people similar to me. " I get that but this is a daytime thing,on a lunch break and so on.its not just for lads,so far 2 of tge fab ladies have offerd to come along.if newbies want to get verified so badly then im sure having a few mins chat with a bloke isnt the worst thing | |||
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"Just put up pics of yourself holding a piece of paper with your username written on it. Boom. Your profile is legit. It worked for me. I've had zero meets yet lol but plenty offers and kik usernames thrown my way. They odd Skype given to me too ha. If people don't think your real with those pics on your profile then they need to grow a brain haha But ya it's not hard guys!" ......yeah it's totally the sign working for you. | |||
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"Just put up pics of yourself holding a piece of paper with your username written on it. Boom. Your profile is legit. It worked for me. I've had zero meets yet lol but plenty offers and kik usernames thrown my way. They odd Skype given to me too ha. If people don't think your real with those pics on your profile then they need to grow a brain haha But ya it's not hard guys!" What piece of paper?.. I can't see anything but muscles... swoon... ;-) | |||
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"Ok so just an idea. Iv noticed a lot of newbies and unverified males posting recently about how hard it is to get verified. i was not too long ago in the same position. I was thinking about organising a coffee meet up for any guys or gals that would like to get verified. During the week about lunch time.meet up on the northside of dublin,quick chat and a coffee and meet some new faces.nothing big just a handfull of people.id be happy to do it.its hard for unverified guys to get any party invites and such so this could be another option.anyone interested just send me a message. This can be for a group or 1 on 1" Thanks! Great idea. It's frustrating alright. My only problem now is that Dublin is too far away for a cup of coffee!! Oh well. | |||
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"This was to go ahead today at 11.it seems everyone dropped out,almost 10 guys.however i myself will still be tbere enjoying a nice coffee on the off chance anyone decides to come along " Sadly this happens all too often. And whatever anyone says - its usually the single men that are the no shows. You tried, fair play to you Enjoy your coffee | |||
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"I enjoyed a lovely latte in my own company.i tried and i was pretty much expecting this outcome.oh well" So nobody showed? Not one person? good god give me strength!! Goes to show you all the same about those that talk the talk and dont walk the walk. At least you tried, well done anyway. | |||
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"I enjoyed a lovely latte in my own company.i tried and i was pretty much expecting this outcome.oh well So nobody showed? Not one person? good god give me strength!! Goes to show you all the same about those that talk the talk and dont walk the walk. At least you tried, well done anyway. " Not a soul! 15 or so said they would show then 1 by 1 they dropped out but they let me know so it could have been worse | |||
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"I enjoyed a lovely latte in my own company.i tried and i was pretty much expecting this outcome.oh well So nobody showed? Not one person? good god give me strength!! Goes to show you all the same about those that talk the talk and dont walk the walk. At least you tried, well done anyway. " They're scared that they will have been veri'd by a man. What they don't realise is that some people don't care who the veri is from - they just like to see that you actually turn up. | |||
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"I enjoyed a lovely latte in my own company.i tried and i was pretty much expecting this outcome.oh well So nobody showed? Not one person? good god give me strength!! Goes to show you all the same about those that talk the talk and dont walk the walk. At least you tried, well done anyway. Not a soul! 15 or so said they would show then 1 by 1 they dropped out but they let me know so it could have been worse" Some people are beyond help, well done for trying, hope at least there was some talent in the coffee shop to distract yourself with... | |||
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"Hardly surprising. Armchair swingers. " I would love one of those Armchair's that swing.Lol | |||
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"I enjoyed a lovely latte in my own company.i tried and i was pretty much expecting this outcome.oh well So nobody showed? Not one person? good god give me strength!! Goes to show you all the same about those that talk the talk and dont walk the walk. At least you tried, well done anyway. Not a soul! 15 or so said they would show then 1 by 1 they dropped out but they let me know so it could have been worse" Jesus - that's bad form. I think the same thing happened to one of the guys last week who organised a social. Nobody turned up. Some people are so inconsiderate. | |||
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"At least we can scroll up and see who most of them might've been." Yep | |||
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"This was to go ahead today at 11.it seems everyone dropped out,almost 10 guys.however i myself will still be tbere enjoying a nice coffee on the off chance anyone decides to come along " Disappointing to hear that, but not surprising, personally op I wouldn't, consider organising a meet and greet for newbies, until they have been on the sight for at least 12 weeks. I know this will still throw up its issues, I would also insist that they go through the terrible inconvenience of getting photo verified before they are welcome to attend such meet...12 weeks in my opinion is not a long time to get somewhat familiar with this sight. | |||
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