FabSwingers.com forum: Would really appreciate some advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't watch porn. That's a major issue for some men

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

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"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load."

Do you masturbate a lot? Not trying to be funny.

I've found in past that over-masturbation caused seem problem for me.

Porn can also be another factor as Ronan has pointed out.

If you have no problem getting an erection and keeping it then the problem is psychological and not physical..... a mental block of some kind which you need to get to the root of.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

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Well, a guy doesn't always have to shoot his load each time he has sex, so don't feel under any pressure... I mean, you can have sex for a while, take a few breaks in between... then go all out for the big finale!!!

If you want to cum, you might start fantasizing about what really turns you on and that will most likely push you right over the finish line

Btw girls, I never do that myself as am only thinking of you while we're in bed together

Hope that helps Op and fairplay for being brave enough to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above is excellent advice. The all-too-available access to ANY type of porn and as a result over stimulation during masturbation COULD potentially give rise to what your are talking about.

Being able to get and maintain an erection as another poster alluded to points not to physiological rather a psychological issue.

My advice = cut down/reduce porn and masturbation and see if that helps. Failing that helping then you could always seek professional help from a counsellor. Either way - best of luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah good advice by the lads there. Don't overthink it, just go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.S. if I am with someone I actually prefer NOT to cum often....... I like the fact that I can typically control if/when I cum and prefer to be able to tease and please and please and please the lady with whom I have the distinct pleasure of sharing fun with. I guess this way there is no recovery time required for me ...... I and not a spring chicken anymore in my defence lol.

So what I am saying too is to look at the positives from it whilst doing whatever YOU feel necessary to help yourself.

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By *es deux lapinCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a guy that doesnt cum . Much better

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

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"I love a guy that doesnt cum . Much better

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A guy that doesn't cum

or a hard guy who doesn't cum

...Rhetorical question, but hey!!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

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Are you saying you last longer than the average 4.5 minutes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it hard to cum also, no issues with keeping hard but it makes it more fun when you do let go!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you saying you last longer than the average 4.5 minutes?

All the early cummers wiping their brow right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love looonnnnggggggggg drawn out sessions interspersed with wee quickies ....... love if the lady I am with can cum a lot and prefer to hold back myself until the end........but I am sure that is probably what most guys like or do or prefer ........

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

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Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a therapist. Sex is 10% physical 90% mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx for all the advice taking it all on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

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By *rs AWoman
over a year ago

venus

now i remember why i dont come on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanx for all the advice taking it all on board "

Good man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

I feel I should post you some money for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

Nah some see it as a problem and others a blessing and I had a feeling I would get this as well

Tbh came to a stage where girls I was with started doubting my attraction towards them

Came here for advice and greatful I got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a number of problems lets go true some of them well in my personal experince...

1 watching porn can have a major impact on it

2 wanking/playing too much

3 not enough sleep and diet

4 stress can cause it and other mental health issues not saying you have mental health issues.. could be just a bad day at the office type thing...

5 smoking & too much alcohol intake can slow it down so that can also affect it..

6 medications can aslo affect it

Maybe take a break for a few days aslong as u can get it up i cant see anything wrong down there but im not a doctor. So maybe a bit of fresh air (exercise) drink plenty of water try too be porn free for it.. and see how you get on on day 4...

Though honest try at least a 3 day break from porn an playing etc after the 3 days if your still struggling its a trip too the GP me thinks

Ste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

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yep seems like the days when someone asks for a bit of advice or tips are gone. No one wants too help out anyone anymore its such a shame!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

Nah some see it as a problem and others a blessing and I had a feeling I would get this as well

Tbh came to a stage where girls I was with started doubting my attraction towards them

Came here for advice and greatful I got it

Good. I've to admit I appreciate a man who lasts for a good while but as you said it can go either way. Just try and enjoy yourself, and there are many ways to get to the finish line beside inter course.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

yep seems like the days when someone asks for a bit of advice or tips are gone. No one wants too help out anyone anymore its such a shame! "

Ahh now, there's some good advice on this thread and the deviation wasn't too bad and lighthearted.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

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"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

Tis true. I need a bucket for my cries. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

You're not allowed cock block

Just sheer envy that he didn't have the the clever idea himself

Nah some see it as a problem and others a blessing and I had a feeling I would get this as well

Tbh came to a stage where girls I was with started doubting my attraction towards them

Came here for advice and greatful I got it

Is there really? Never knew looks like you just might have to show me these many ways haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

yep seems like the days when someone asks for a bit of advice or tips are gone. No one wants too help out anyone anymore its such a shame!

Ahh now, there's some good advice on this thread and the deviation wasn't too bad and lighthearted. "
lighthearted too you but the guy only asked for tips not lighthearted comments.. anyway we where nice enough too leave our advice and tips.. some people just forget there manners on here at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very clever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very clever lol"

genius i would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load."

seems to meow your meeting the wrong ppl ..meet some 1 you gel with not just some1 for a ride the different

is sooo much better when u dooo

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Very helpful advice given by lots here, fair play to those that adviced

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

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"Could be a number of problems lets go true some of them well in my personal experince...

1 watching porn can have a major impact on it

2 wanking/playing too much

3 not enough sleep and diet

4 stress can cause it and other mental health issues not saying you have mental health issues.. could be just a bad day at the office type thing...

5 smoking & too much alcohol intake can slow it down so that can also affect it..

6 medications can aslo affect it

Though honest try at least a 3 day break from porn an playing etc after the 3 days if your still struggling its a trip too the GP me thinks

Ste "

Actually a very detailed and in depth analysis covering the different possibilities. Take note op. The answer could be right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load."

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

I need attention

But isn't that what we are all here for

OP Try not to dwell on the fact that ur not shooting and load every 4.7 mins and enjoy their pleasure ur giving ur partner, I once seen a guy fucking a girl for what seemed like hrs to see her face every time she climaxed was a delight to say they least poor lad she not let him off her demanding he fuck her almost. Enjoy their experiences of a insatiable woman and give her ur best once u getting over the fact that ur not shooting a load but u are pleasuring her ull soon find that there are more ways to climax than emptying ur balls watch her reactions as she climaxes don't stop but fuck her trough her climax take her to a place she's never being see her zone out and become almost an almost out of body experience for her. Then bring her down from her high belive me a mind blowing fuck like that has it rewards it's not something ull getting with every body but man it is satisfying

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

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"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

I need attention

But isn't that what we are all here for

CJ's d*unk lol but he speaks the truth. Go to bed you.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

I need attention

But isn't that what we are all here for

CJ's d*unk lol but he speaks the truth. Go to bed you.

I Wish never had a drop last night

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

yep seems like the days when someone asks for a bit of advice or tips are gone. No one wants too help out anyone anymore its such a shame!

Ahh now, there's some good advice on this thread and the deviation wasn't too bad and lighthearted. lighthearted too you but the guy only asked for tips not lighthearted comments.. anyway we where nice enough too leave our advice and tips.. some people just forget there manners on here at times.."

I understand where you're coming from, however the remarks were not disrespectful, ridiculing or negatively phrased quite contrary and reading the op's reply he took them rather well.

If there's no more space for lighthearted comments even on a serious thread and if we go pc to an extreme extent on here, it will become a rather boring place.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Are you saying you last longer than the average 4.5 minutes?

I see a typo there. I'm sure you meant seconds rather than minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha. Maybe this is a clever ploy by OP to catch interest of any women who see this and think "Oh my, a guy that can go a good while". Clever....very clever.

Lol it would have the opposite effect on me I would find it very frustrating if he didn't cum and go hungry lol as I like to taste

Stella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

I need attention

But isn't that what we are all here for

I need one of those throw in some edging and it's just heaven

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Are you saying you last longer than the average 4.5 minutes?

I see a typo there. I'm sure you meant seconds rather than minutes.

Mimosa Pudica

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Are you saying you last longer than the average 4.5 minutes?

I see a typo there. I'm sure you meant seconds rather than minutes.

Mimosa Pudica

Lol, how very horticultural!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i remember why i dont come on forums

yep seems like the days when someone asks for a bit of advice or tips are gone. No one wants too help out anyone anymore its such a shame!

I understand where you're coming from, however the remarks were not disrespectful, ridiculing or negatively phrased quite contrary and reading the op's reply he took them rather well.

If there's no more space for lighthearted comments even on a serious thread and if we go pc to an extreme extent on here, it will become a rather boring place. "
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant believe the ladies are buying this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant believe the ladies are buying this lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Am kinda awkward but taught this might be a good place to find some advice if any guys on here have or had the same problem as myself

My problem being that I find it hard to cum during intercouse. Keeping hard no problem there and enjoyment again no problems just can't shoot my load.

keep up what your doing hun there doesn't seem to be a problem your verified.... you looking attention seems so !!Meow is outa here

I need attention

But isn't that what we are all here for

I need one of those throw in some edging and it's just heaven "

Heaven may be just a mail away

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