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By *oshua2659 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Recently I have come across a huge amount of time wasters on this ... Who themselves instigate the conversation respond saying 'let's meet' etc and then the conversation goes dead no response very frustrsting!!

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By *athatgothecreamCouple
over a year ago

Rural and private

Not half as frustrating as being a no show!!

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By *oshua2659 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Agreed! Very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not time wasters they are sick arseholesx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly cock teasers here i find. Happy to play along and lead you on, enjoy ur attention etc but the min they are faced with having to put their money where there mouth is... They disappear and move on to the next guy.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Recently I have come across a huge amount of time wasters on this ... Who themselves instigate the conversation respond saying 'let's meet' etc and then the conversation goes dead no response very frustrsting!!"

So they say hello, you respond with "let's meet" and that's the end of the "conversation". How the feck is that wasting your time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If person didn't get any, most likely, he will call it waste of time. And those people who didn't give him any most likely will be called time wasters.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"If person didn't get any, most likely, he will call it waste of time. And those people who didn't give him any most likely will be called time wasters."

I have a sneaking suspicion you might be close to the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st post ever on the forum but agree no show is so frustrating, speaking to a certain female on here she instigated the chat getting on great for days arranged to meet up picked a hotel of her choice I paid for it and was waiting and upto 10 mins she was saying she was coming and then a message to say she forgot to "lock her house" and had to go back to lock it and would be back in half a hour so still sat there like an eejit a hour later and then no reply to messages etc.... stung !!! lol it's funny now but awfully annoying at the time.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"1st post ever on the forum but agree no show is so frustrating, speaking to a certain female on here she instigated the chat getting on great for days arranged to meet up picked a hotel of her choice I paid for it and was waiting and upto 10 mins she was saying she was coming and then a message to say she forgot to "lock her house" and had to go back to lock it and would be back in half a hour so still sat there like an eejit a hour later and then no reply to messages etc.... stung !!! lol it's funny now but awfully annoying at the time. "

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That's horrible man, hope there was a porn on the hotel TV as a consolation prize!!!

Seriously though, after pulling a stunt like that, please tell me she's no longer on the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1st post ever on the forum but agree no show is so frustrating, speaking to a certain female on here she instigated the chat getting on great for days arranged to meet up picked a hotel of her choice I paid for it and was waiting and upto 10 mins she was saying she was coming and then a message to say she forgot to "lock her house" and had to go back to lock it and would be back in half a hour so still sat there like an eejit a hour later and then no reply to messages etc.... stung !!! lol it's funny now but awfully annoying at the time. "

A cnut

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"1st post ever on the forum but agree no show is so frustrating, speaking to a certain female on here she instigated the chat getting on great for days arranged to meet up picked a hotel of her choice I paid for it and was waiting and upto 10 mins she was saying she was coming and then a message to say she forgot to "lock her house" and had to go back to lock it and would be back in half a hour so still sat there like an eejit a hour later and then no reply to messages etc.... stung !!! lol it's funny now but awfully annoying at the time. "

What a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus thats lousy shame on her

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I've heard this so many times before. Completely thoughtless. Hope it hasn't put you off.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Maybe it was Dorothy and you know what her fecking house is like in a windy day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She activity on here I see her online a lot, ah it was an experience to say the least a €120 experience ha ha. I hope it's not something that's done a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be allowed to name and shame.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"You should be allowed to name and shame."

Yes, because all fab members are very well balanced individuals and would never dream of telling lies about anyone else.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Had a dude mailing me asking would i be interested in a threesome and i said yes depending on the lady in question of course..we swapped kik addys and he gave me her user name too and i text them both but somehow i got the impression i was talking to the same person even though pics were swapped ..supposedly both people were married with children and this was just a bit of fun on the side arrangement..Had no problem with that..he then asked For my address which i wouldnt give him..I think he was trying to get information in order to black mail me..anyway i was then promptly blocked and not a peep from both kik accounts

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Recently I have come across a huge amount of time wasters on this ... Who themselves instigate the conversation respond saying 'let's meet' etc and then the conversation goes dead no response very frustrsting!!"

Check they have verification and try and get phone numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have come across a huge amount of time wasters on this ... Who themselves instigate the conversation respond saying 'let's meet' etc and then the conversation goes dead no response very frustrsting!!

Check they have verification and try and get phone numbers "

We'd never give out our phone numbers, back before smart phones, we all had swing phones or swing sims but kik we find is perfect now.

But back to the original post, I'd be very dubious of a single lady initiating a conversation, even more so if I was still a single guy on here. Im sure there is many who do, I'm just saying alarm bells would be ringing if they did, forget about it if they were unverified

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Recently I have come across a huge amount of time wasters on this ... Who themselves instigate the conversation respond saying 'let's meet' etc and then the conversation goes dead no response very frustrsting!!

Check they have verification and try and get phone numbers

We'd never give out our phone numbers, back before smart phones, we all had swing phones or swing sims but kik we find is perfect now.

But back to the original post, I'd be very dubious of a single lady initiating a conversation, even more so if I was still a single guy on here. Im sure there is many who do, I'm just saying alarm bells would be ringing if they did, forget about it if they were unverified "

You'd think it would be easy to meet people for sex on a swing site..I find it easier on pof or tinder tbh..very rarely do i come across time wasters on those sites too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just changed their mind about you...

It works in two directions you know...

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

I've had many many timewasters on here . I had one guy who insisted that I collected him . I called him from the car when I was on my way , and we chatted ( hands free ) most of the way there while he face me directions . I pulled up outside his apartment building , and I messaged him to come down . He had messaged me the address previously , and had wanted me to come up to the apartment . I called and texted to say I was there ,,, and nothing , no response . To be honest I think if I'd gone up and called on the door I could have been in a lot of trouble , maybe him and his friends there , or god knows what . By the way , this was someone I'd chatted ( messaged ) to a lot over a good bit over a couple of months , bad gad spoken to on the phone .

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I've had many many timewasters on here . I had one guy who insisted that I collected him . I called him from the car when I was on my way , and we chatted ( hands free ) most of the way there while he face me directions . I pulled up outside his apartment building , and I messaged him to come down . He had messaged me the address previously , and had wanted me to come up to the apartment . I called and texted to say I was there ,,, and nothing , no response . To be honest I think if I'd gone up and called on the door I could have been in a lot of trouble , maybe him and his friends there , or god knows what . By the way , this was someone I'd chatted ( messaged ) to a lot over a good bit over a couple of months , bad gad spoken to on the phone . "

That's well dodgy. Thank god you didn't go in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a nightmare was invited to a meet by a well verified cpl said they were into dogging and out door fun etc. It was my first meet so excited and shitting it lol

So turned up in this forest car park only one other car so thought maybe ok. Got message to follow this path down in to woods half way down this guy was standing in the bushes trousers around his ankles wanking his cock at me no sign of anybody else so legged it and him trying to run like penguin behind us and wanking shouting come back etc. Funny now but scary shit at time

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"Had a nightmare was invited to a meet by a well verified cpl said they were into dogging and out door fun etc. It was my first meet so excited and shitting it lol

So turned up in this forest car park only one other car so thought maybe ok. Got message to follow this path down in to woods half way down this guy was standing in the bushes trousers around his ankles wanking his cock at me no sign of anybody else so legged it and him trying to run like penguin behind us and wanking shouting come back etc. Funny now but scary shit at time "

Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a nightmare was invited to a meet by a well verified cpl said they were into dogging and out door fun etc. It was my first meet so excited and shitting it lol

So turned up in this forest car park only one other car so thought maybe ok. Got message to follow this path down in to woods half way down this guy was standing in the bushes trousers around his ankles wanking his cock at me no sign of anybody else so legged it and him trying to run like penguin behind us and wanking shouting come back etc. Funny now but scary shit at time "

Jesus thats like a story line from criminal minds

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Had a nightmare was invited to a meet by a well verified cpl said they were into dogging and out door fun etc. It was my first meet so excited and shitting it lol

So turned up in this forest car park only one other car so thought maybe ok. Got message to follow this path down in to woods half way down this guy was standing in the bushes trousers around his ankles wanking his cock at me no sign of anybody else so legged it and him trying to run like penguin behind us and wanking shouting come back etc. Funny now but scary shit at time

Jesus thats like a story line from criminal minds "

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By *r philygMan
over a year ago

dublin

Yes im sick of the bull talk of the time wasters to many on here

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere

There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms. "

Jaysus. I would have climbed over hot coals to be there first time. Eight no shows on the one fella, got to be a record.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms.

Jaysus. I would have climbed over hot coals to be there first time. Eight no shows on the one fella, got to be a record. "

So did he. He kept ending up in A&E so couldn't show up for the meet!

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere


"There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms.

Jaysus. I would have climbed over hot coals to be there first time. Eight no shows on the one fella, got to be a record.

So did he. He kept ending up in A&E so couldn't show up for the meet! "

It's not only women who are time wasters. (Or fake women lol)

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms. "

Wow! May i ask what made you hold out hoping? Ive often given the benefit of the doubt, but not to that extent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 times ya not get the hint the first few times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone on here who has stood me up 8+ plus times (that I can count). Yes I know I'm the idiot who said yes each time, this has been a long saga going on over two years now.

I'm not naive, I just like to believe that people will actually come through in the end. In fairness after the first few times I was sure he was never gonna show . Finally hit the block there the other day on all platforms. "

I thought that was reading 8+ inches at first...stood up with that wouldn't be too bad.... but no, 8+ times ....shocking...although some people tend to think if they mail you a few times and in the end you don't wanna meet or can't they'd call it time wasting....i wouldn't call it anything.

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