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"While I am looking for new members in the group, I'm still careful about who I do allow in it. We've yet to have an incident six months in. Do you get their CV's? " No, he just meant there aren't any members yet! | |||
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"I have a secret group on fb with couples and singles. A lot of people seem afraid to get involved even though it's very safe and discrete. I'd just like to know if there's any couples or fems who would be interested. I'd be happy to answer any questions about it " So what your saying is you have a FB group that your looking for people to join. First you said singles and couples and as above it's changed to couples and fems. Hhhhmmmm sounds like winner. NOT !!!! | |||
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"I have a secret group on fb with couples and singles. A lot of people seem afraid to get involved even though it's very safe and discrete. I'd just like to know if there's any couples or fems who would be interested. I'd be happy to answer any questions about it So what your saying is you have a FB group that your looking for people to join. First you said singles and couples and as above it's changed to couples and fems. Hhhhmmmm sounds like winner. NOT !!!! " No, the question im simply putting out there in the forums is "is this the kind of thing people would be interested in?" | |||
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"Is that not what KIK is for? Someone that has a gripe at you can make it public to your work friends that you swing. I wouldnt mind the lads knowing but work friends would be totally different. " I can totally see where you're coming from. I tried a kik group and it just wasn't the same. There should never be any reason in a group like that that you should have anyone having any kind of gripe with you. But there's no way to say that would never happen. I guess the only way you can protect yourself after that is your security settings so that people in the group don't have access to your personal info or friends etc. We have never had any trouble so far. But can I guarantee it could never happen? Of course not. But why should it?? | |||
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"twitter is easier just saying " You're probably right, I've always been shit at twitter though and don't have much to do with it. | |||
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"I have a secret group on fb with couples and singles. A lot of people seem afraid to get involved even though it's very safe and discrete. I'd just like to know if there's any couples or fems who would be interested. I'd be happy to answer any questions about it So what your saying is you have a FB group that your looking for people to join. First you said singles and couples and as above it's changed to couples and fems. Hhhhmmmm sounds like winner. NOT !!!! No, the question im simply putting out there in the forums is "is this the kind of thing people would be interested in?" " It definitely would not be for us, we've had our fair share of problems with Weirdos on here, without giving them the opportunity of invading our private lives too. not saying you are a weirdo, then again how would we know you are not, or any of the other 45 members are not either. Like someone mentioned before "isn't that what kik is for" If it is not broken, don't fix it, | |||
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"I have a secret group on fb with couples and singles. A lot of people seem afraid to get involved even though it's very safe and discrete. I'd just like to know if there's any couples or fems who would be interested. I'd be happy to answer any questions about it So what your saying is you have a FB group that your looking for people to join. First you said singles and couples and as above it's changed to couples and fems. Hhhhmmmm sounds like winner. NOT !!!! No, the question im simply putting out there in the forums is "is this the kind of thing people would be interested in?" It definitely would not be for us, we've had our fair share of problems with Weirdos on here, without giving them the opportunity of invading our private lives too. not saying you are a weirdo, then again how would we know you are not, or any of the other 45 members are not either. Like someone mentioned before "isn't that what kik is for" If it is not broken, don't fix it, " Fair point. I'm not looking to force anyone to participate. Just gauging interest. If it's not for you, it's not for you. | |||
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"So its basicly for you to collect members pics and wank off to? Or am i missing something else that Farce Book has to offer. Isnt Fab good enough for you????" Yeah, you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. | |||
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"So its basicly for you to collect members pics and wank off to? Or am i missing something else that Farce Book has to offer. Isnt Fab good enough for you???? Yeah, you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. " Wow,you get asked a genuine question and thats your reply. Thats really going to help your cause. And you wonder why people are so wary. Well done you sir. | |||
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"So its basicly for you to collect members pics and wank off to? Or am i missing something else that Farce Book has to offer. Isnt Fab good enough for you???? Yeah, you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. Wow,you get asked a genuine question and thats your reply. Thats really going to help your cause. And you wonder why people are so wary. Well done you sir." No, what I said is basically true, I responded to your incorrect hostile message with the same kind of hostility. I'm not trying to force anyone to be in my group. I'm simply gauging interest. When I posted the original message I totally expected messages from single blokes like you who have nothing better to do than troll through the forums looking for an argument. | |||
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"OP you have yet to properly explain to anyone here or in the UK forum what the actual purpose of this FB page/group is for. FB or farce book as i call it is asking for trouble when it comes to stuff like this. So excuse me and others for being very wary of a single bloke with hardly any verifications wanting people from here to join this FB group. You understand?" This coming from a guy with one verification from a couple and one from another bloke? The group is simply a social group where members share pics, vids, banter, jokes etc. I'm not trying to convince anyone to be in the group. If people are wary, that's absolutely fine. It's their prerogative. | |||
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"OP you have yet to properly explain to anyone here or in the UK forum what the actual purpose of this FB page/group is for. FB or farce book as i call it is asking for trouble when it comes to stuff like this. So excuse me and others for being very wary of a single bloke with hardly any verifications wanting people from here to join this FB group. You understand? This coming from a guy with one verification from a couple and one from another bloke? The group is simply a social group where members share pics, vids, banter, jokes etc. I'm not trying to convince anyone to be in the group. If people are wary, that's absolutely fine. It's their prerogative. " Im not looking to set up any groups to draw people in though. I find it ironic that you say any questions just ask,you seem very on edge now that its been put to you. Can you not share banter,jokes and pics here on Fab with these lovely females and couples?? Farce book is very dodgey for this and is regulary attacked and hacked too. | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous." Well said!! | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous. Well said!!" Plenty enough banter craic and pics on Fab. And the good thing about Fab is that the mods/admin are allways keeping an eye on this site for anything dodgey or nasty. You wont get that on FB as the post is left there for ages and ages. | |||
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"OP you have yet to properly explain to anyone here or in the UK forum what the actual purpose of this FB page/group is for. FB or farce book as i call it is asking for trouble when it comes to stuff like this. So excuse me and others for being very wary of a single bloke with hardly any verifications wanting people from here to join this FB group. You understand? This coming from a guy with one verification from a couple and one from another bloke? The group is simply a social group where members share pics, vids, banter, jokes etc. I'm not trying to convince anyone to be in the group. If people are wary, that's absolutely fine. It's their prerogative. Im not looking to set up any groups to draw people in though. I find it ironic that you say any questions just ask,you seem very on edge now that its been put to you. Can you not share banter,jokes and pics here on Fab with these lovely females and couples?? Farce book is very dodgey for this and is regulary attacked and hacked too." I'm not on edge at all. I wholeheartedly disagree with what you're saying. In the six months or so that the group has been running, we have had none of these incidents you reckon must happen because you dislike facebook. All the people in the group seem to be enjoying it. It's just another outlet for members to be able to enjoy their sexiness. It's there for anyone who wants to be involved, and if there are people like you who don't find it appealing, they're welcome to stay away. | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous. Well said!! Plenty enough banter craic and pics on Fab. And the good thing about Fab is that the mods/admin are allways keeping an eye on this site for anything dodgey or nasty. You wont get that on FB as the post is left there for ages and ages." I'm the admin in the group, and I'm always on it so nothing dodgy or nasty would ever be tolerated. | |||
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"I use Facebook mainly for my family and close friends. Facebook and fab don't mix well usually ends in disaster " That's why I set it up as a secret group. I appreciate as much as the next person that everyone needs to keep family and fun separate. Only members of the group can see anything related to the group on there. | |||
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"Why facebook and not kik op just curious" I did set up a kik group. Those people who had been in the fb group and then joined the kik group complained that it just wasn't the same. It wasn't half as enjoyable an experience | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous." "You took the words right out of my mouth" To connect anything to fb is insanely naive if you want to keep privacy. There's an oxymoron in there somewhere. Why not just have a private group of friends on here. That's not uncommon but seems to work well. | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous. Well said!! Plenty enough banter craic and pics on Fab. And the good thing about Fab is that the mods/admin are allways keeping an eye on this site for anything dodgey or nasty. You wont get that on FB as the post is left there for ages and ages." And minimum 6 months when a person deletes their account ( just in case they may want to return, says fb) scary if employer gets access to your social media...by accident | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous. Well said!! Plenty enough banter craic and pics on Fab. And the good thing about Fab is that the mods/admin are allways keeping an eye on this site for anything dodgey or nasty. You wont get that on FB as the post is left there for ages and ages. And minimum 6 months when a person deletes their account ( just in case they may want to return, says fb) scary if employer gets access to your social media...by accident " But it's a secret group. What part of that are you not getting? It's not like it's out there for people to see | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986" I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no?" Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book. | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book." I've answered every question you've posed. Even with your snide shitty tongue in cheek attitude attached. But you are really annoying. I'm as entitled to my opinion of you as you are entitled to your narrow minded view of my facebook group | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book. I've answered every question you've posed. Even with your snide shitty tongue in cheek attitude attached. But you are really annoying. I'm as entitled to my opinion of you as you are entitled to your narrow minded view of my facebook group" Now now young man,not the way to behave to people asking genuine questions of you. Have you noticed the amount of women and couples who are also saying avoid your Facebook. Clearly they must be narrow minded too then?? | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book. I've answered every question you've posed. Even with your snide shitty tongue in cheek attitude attached. But you are really annoying. I'm as entitled to my opinion of you as you are entitled to your narrow minded view of my facebook group" Perhaps some of the "25+" members from Fab would like to jump on here and support you? Their silence is deafening ... | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book. I've answered every question you've posed. Even with your snide shitty tongue in cheek attitude attached. But you are really annoying. I'm as entitled to my opinion of you as you are entitled to your narrow minded view of my facebook group Perhaps some of the "25+" members from Fab would like to jump on here and support you? Their silence is deafening ..." Maybe they will weigh into this thread if I ask them to. One of them has already commented on my thread in the UK forum. | |||
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"R ur 45 members men by any chance ? Given the general psychology of the group dynamic there is always a recipe for disaster, team that with Facebook and well u can figure out the pitfalls... I would advise against it. " You are one of the narrow minded ones too then? | |||
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" I find it ironic that you say any questions just ask,you seem very on edge now that its been put to you. " Maybe he expected less aggression when the questions came. | |||
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" I find it ironic that you say any questions just ask,you seem very on edge now that its been put to you. Maybe he expected less aggression when the questions came. " Some people forget that this is a site where people should be looking for naughty fun, and instead they spend their time looking for an argument. I was simply gauging people's interest in another outlet for fun and I got this..... lol | |||
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" . I was simply gauging people's interest in another outlet for fun " Exactly. I am sure the people who think it is a bad idea won't join and the people who realise they could use a different FB account or that it is a closed group might join. Good luck anyway | |||
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"I have another set of pals on fb which I don't need them to know I'm on here. " That's fine. Don't join the group then. It's that simple. | |||
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" . I was simply gauging people's interest in another outlet for fun Exactly. I am sure the people who think it is a bad idea won't join and the people who realise they could use a different FB account or that it is a closed group might join. Good luck anyway" It's better than a closed group, it's a secret group, which has even more safety protocols built in. | |||
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"Given the amount of people here who can't keep their traps shut, the idea of anything being perfectly discreet is ludicrous." | |||
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"Same thread in the UK forum.You 100% sure its not about picture collecting? Genuine question for all to think about. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/667986 I'm perfectly sure. I put the same post in both groups because I've as many UK members as Irish members in the group already. Why are you still in this thread? Nobody else to bother, no? Touchy now eh? You said to ask questions. So that is what i am doing,as a member of this site. And genuine legit questions too. Maybe you shouldnt have posted these threads if you are going to react in this manner to peoples valid questions and the "safety"of Farce Book. I've answered every question you've posed. Even with your snide shitty tongue in cheek attitude attached. But you are really annoying. I'm as entitled to my opinion of you as you are entitled to your narrow minded view of my facebook group Perhaps some of the "25+" members from Fab would like to jump on here and support you? Their silence is deafening ..." We joined this group a month or so ago and really enjoy it. In fact thru the group we chatted and had a meet with a couple from here, which was great fun, you can share pictured and banter and also show and see videos, and you can see real people not the fakes and time wasters which seem to flood fab | |||
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"Do you only allow couples and single females into the group? " There are single guys in the group. At the moment I'm only looking for couples and fems because the group was beginning to feel like a bit of a sausage fest. I had even removed a number of single guys from the group recently who weren't getting involved because they had no place being there | |||
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"Do you only allow couples and single females into the group? There are single guys in the group. At the moment I'm only looking for couples and fems because the group was beginning to feel like a bit of a sausage fest. I had even removed a number of single guys from the group recently who weren't getting involved because they had no place being there " Fair enough best of luck with it mate | |||
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"I'm a facebook junkie. First thing I do when I wake up is put my lappy on - and on goes fb. Last thing to get turned off of a night is fb. I understand completely about their settings. And no way would I join even a secret group from here on there. On a laptop on the right hand side of the page are notifications. ... Jane Doe (me) has just joined such and such a group. Every family member, friend, person I don't know but I have gathered when playing fb games, can see this. No way!" Notifications like that can be seen when you join open groups and sometimes can be seen when you join closed groups. But there are no notifications like that at all with anything related to secret groups. | |||
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"I'm a facebook junkie. First thing I do when I wake up is put my lappy on - and on goes fb. Last thing to get turned off of a night is fb. I understand completely about their settings. And no way would I join even a secret group from here on there. On a laptop on the right hand side of the page are notifications. ... Jane Doe (me) has just joined such and such a group. Every family member, friend, person I don't know but I have gathered when playing fb games, can see this. No way! Notifications like that can be seen when you join open groups and sometimes can be seen when you join closed groups. But there are no notifications like that at all with anything related to secret groups. " I wouldn't take the chance | |||
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"I'm a facebook junkie. First thing I do when I wake up is put my lappy on - and on goes fb. Last thing to get turned off of a night is fb. I understand completely about their settings. And no way would I join even a secret group from here on there. On a laptop on the right hand side of the page are notifications. ... Jane Doe (me) has just joined such and such a group. Every family member, friend, person I don't know but I have gathered when playing fb games, can see this. No way! Notifications like that can be seen when you join open groups and sometimes can be seen when you join closed groups. But there are no notifications like that at all with anything related to secret groups. I wouldn't take the chance" That's entirely your prerogative. | |||
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"I'm a facebook junkie. First thing I do when I wake up is put my lappy on - and on goes fb. Last thing to get turned off of a night is fb. I understand completely about their settings. And no way would I join even a secret group from here on there. On a laptop on the right hand side of the page are notifications. ... Jane Doe (me) has just joined such and such a group. Every family member, friend, person I don't know but I have gathered when playing fb games, can see this. No way! Notifications like that can be seen when you join open groups and sometimes can be seen when you join closed groups. But there are no notifications like that at all with anything related to secret groups. I wouldn't take the chance That's entirely your prerogative. " This is true | |||
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"Will ye ssssssusssshhhh...its a feckin secret ffs " Your posts always making me laugh xxx | |||
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"I know the information that fb harvest and how they link profiles to other accounts emails and texts ,mobile numbers, and as a result i dont even have a fb account anymore. And its not rumours i have seen it from the inside. I think anyone that mixes the two are only asking for trouble. Keep fab and fb seperate and you will have a lot less hassle. " 100%. Think about how FB make their money and you realise not to mix it with anything else you are doing. Won't have their app on my phone and only occasionally look at it but always through AdBlock browser on phone. | |||
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"I know the information that fb harvest and how they link profiles to other accounts emails and texts ,mobile numbers, and as a result i dont even have a fb account anymore. And its not rumours i have seen it from the inside. I think anyone that mixes the two are only asking for trouble. Keep fab and fb seperate and you will have a lot less hassle. 100%. Think about how FB make their money and you realise not to mix it with anything else you are doing. Won't have their app on my phone and only occasionally look at it but always through AdBlock browser on phone." I only use a very basic phone - no internet or any of that stuff. I don't have my phone number on fb. My name here is a bit different here to on fb and yet still someone from here found me there. I thought he was joking til he told me my surname. Luckily he's sane. | |||
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