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if your dating women/man would you tell them you have been on swinging site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just general chat if you got with someone outside the swinging world would you tell them about your swinging past or just keep it hush

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

My other half knows nothing and never will.. best way for me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see I wouldn't personally cheat on someone if got with them . Just I know quite few women that if I was dating them and they knew I had been meeting up with women of swinging site they wouldn't be impressed lol

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

Chadwell St mary

yea id tell her.lol she might like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah true you never know unless ya tell them I suppose lol

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"yea id tell her.lol she might like it "

I usually mention it in a tactful manner in the hope she may be interested. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah true don't want to scare them off lol

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

Chadwell St mary


"yea id tell her.lol she might like it

I usually mention it in a tactful manner in the hope she may be interested. Lol"
lol take your chances sure why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I've been with escorts tho so prob wouldn't tell them that think I'm sex maniac escorts and swinging sites lol

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

I was on a site ages ago.

Then met a guy & left.

I let Mr know after initial get to know...... things happened..... I set up profile for us & we have met some amazing people, been to some amazing parties & had fun experiences.

Depends what you were here for will change if you tell. If you love latex or bdsm.... & you don't tell then you don't get to experience that again & that could end relationship as you are not being fulfilled or you end up cheating to get your fix.

Imagine if you still keep in contact with people from here - all the lies to cover it up or partner not being able to join conversation as jig saw pieces missing.

I'd still tell him tomorrow if I hadn't done it already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true that but if you were mad about the person and they weren't into swinging then I would give it up personally then if doesn't work out can always go back to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a site ages ago.

Then met a guy & left.

I let Mr know after initial get to know...... things happened..... I set up profile for us & we have met some amazing people, been to some amazing parties & had fun experiences.

Depends what you were here for will change if you tell. If you love latex or bdsm.... & you don't tell then you don't get to experience that again & that could end relationship as you are not being fulfilled or you end up cheating to get your fix.

Imagine if you still keep in contact with people from here - all the lies to cover it up or partner not being able to join conversation as jig saw pieces missing.

I'd still tell him tomorrow if I hadn't done it already."

^^

this is the best advice.. no secrets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True they do say honesty is the best policy lol

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

I met G offsite as I was taking a break from fab. As soon as I met her I knew she was the "fab type" and told her about it one night. Turns out she had already known about it as other guys on other dating sites had tried to get her to join with them as a couple (before they'd even met!)

We decided that we would join at some point, once we had a solid relationship, and also because she wanted to explore her sexuality as she was bi curious.

I told her all my experiences and she was really interested, so it all worked out well and now here we are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would wait awhile but i would tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was serious yes without a doubt no secrets no lies xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half knows nothing and never will.. best way for me x"

Naughty naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well i havent dated in 17yrs so i dont need to worry about telling him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was real swinging I'd tell them, but this site isn't all swinging, and you wouldn't want to be associated with the creepy guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single no-I'd want my cake and want to eat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean past?

Meeting a girl doesn't mean that I would give away big part of my personality. All my dates find out early about my interests, so they can make best decision for themselves about their commitment.

But I guess, If I was meeting only single girls through FAB, I wouldn't mention this to any of my dates, as I wouldn't tell them if I was also on Tinder, Badoo or POF.

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By *ussyLicker1971Man
over a year ago

DDD12


"My other half knows nothing and never will.. best way for me x"

And you can accommodate,

Very very Naughty....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that more women the better for me if possible prob same for you regarding men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's really down to how big a part Fab would play in you're life.. it's not like we tell most people we're with about every single relationship, dalliance, kiss or shag we've ever had... but if it's a huge part of you're life (same as an ex or a relationship might of been) then you'll have to tell them.. whether they understand now, that's a different game of soldiers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told the lady girl I was seeing she had actually already been here and we had a couples profile for a while here

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I was dating a lady on a dating site and it was her who introduced me to swinging. I though I was going to live my dream with her but unfortunately she went back to her ex .

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

sure most people dont even tell their wives/husbands why should they tell their girl/boy friends

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