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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

I'm at a loss.

Been chatting away to a nice couple for the last 9 months. Very intimate details, and future meets on the cards.

Sent a nice message yesterday which was deleted and now I find I have been blocked.

No explanation or a reason why.

Anyone shed some light?

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Different day & different moods. Don't read too much into it as it could be any number of reasons, maybe it was something about u or could be that their circumstances & wants have changed. Learn from it by never putting too much time into any 1particular profile & plus if uv been chatting with no action for couple of months (& in ur case 9months) then it probably was never gonna happen anyways.

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By *rancis0741Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Cant shed light but folks can be strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt as strange as folk.....

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

That's good advice.

Maybe they have changed their mind.

Completely agree with you about the length of time and nothing happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe dont share such intimate details unless u are meeting for sure within a few wks

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Just bothers me that there was no goodbye or thanks for the chats.

It's rude.

No reason for being blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens here the whole time

Count urself lucky u hadnt met them and move on

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

True.

Hadn't thought of it that way.

You are really helping guys. Thanks to the forum.

And to the lovely people who have replied

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By *omtom14Man
over a year ago

Dublin / Meath

Hi All

I got chatting to a lovely Lady here on Tuesday Evening - I woke on Wednesday Morning and saw that there was another msg from her - I messaged her again and apologised as I hadn't seen her msg till then - she replied no probs "it was very late when I sent it anyway" ... So we agreed to chat later that day - So ....I messaged her that afternoon to find out she blocked me ?....

The mind boggles lol

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

That's hardly the same thing though.

We chatted since before Christmas and I got on well with both of them.

They called me good friends and trusted me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting 9months we would have moved on long ago ...dust yourself off and move on

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If nothing happens after a few weeks just forget them and move on . Normally people meet after a few weeks . Most definitely would not give intimate details chatting for months . You don't need to if you are going to meet some one .

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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes it can be strange and bewildering why people block u, especially if u thought u were quite friendly with them...

My strangest experience was a well known couple on here messaged me one night, never spoken before and when I went to reply found I was blocked! No idea what that was about...

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

I need to be more proactive.

I'm looking a regular partner and it's very hard to find one

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Dealing with the same nonsense last week. After a couple being onto me for months, chatted on phone, all eager and wanting to meet up then unfriended and blocked me. Guess there's two angles to every story but it's sad for them as the Irish swinging scene is small and your name as a douche or a decent person gets around fast...

Seriously man, instead of your couple saying "not interested because..." they blocked and ran with their tails between their legs. Do you really want to share a bed with people like that anyway?

Let them off!

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Fair point.

Maybe I did get off lightly.

Moving on hoping for better

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I have people here I chatted to for yonks Yes some over a year before meeting distance being a big factor ,and it took me that long to wear em down and convince them they needed to fuck me (joke)

Maybe their circumstances has changed they might have had a row u just never know the dynamics between a cpl I'd not let it bother me and if they were to have a change of heart and contact me again then I'd ask what happened

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By *omtom14Man
over a year ago

Dublin / Meath

Hey - just think Its their loss and we got away lightly lol

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

So many good replies on here.

I thought it was my fault but it seems I'm not the only one this happens to

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lads of muppets on here who just play txt tennis, waste people's time and never turn up to meets.

Fab full of time wasters and liers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's way too much time to be dedicating. If after a week they are not planning to meet soon, i definitely wouldn't be texting anymore. I don't even last nine months on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at a loss.

Been chatting away to a nice couple for the last 9 months. Very intimate details, and future meets on the cards.

Sent a nice message yesterday which was deleted and now I find I have been blocked.

No explanation or a reason why.

Anyone shed some light?"

Maybe 9 months is the clue here !! People have babies in 9 months !!

Get a move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your message has been referred to the complaints department...

We are now closed and will reopen at some indeterminate dste in the future

If you would like to speak to one of our operatives please ferl ferl to use our live chat service on the web site...

If the internet isn't broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk and no action?

Maybe the couple were all talk,or maybe they were sick and tired of it from your side being drawn out over 9 months.

Youd have a baby in less time than that.

Best to lick your wounds,get your chin back up in the air and move on to another couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it man I'm blocked by so many now I've lost count lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I had met socially but never met for more due to work committments vontacted me out of the blue the other week. Flirted away like a good un..told me he was meeting a hot chick the next day. Told him great...would he not be best flirting and building the buzz for the meet and he agreed

Messaged him to see that all was good..he ignored my message and his meet blocked me! Wtf?

The mysterious world of fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 11/08/17 14:56:20]

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By *avid147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

That is strange sunshine lady.

It takes all sorts on here and you need to have a thick skin.

Honesty and decency is rare on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know someone has blocked you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It made me laugh tbh.

Manners cost nothing yet are getting rarer on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you click on a verif it tells you. Probably other ways but dont know them

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"It made me laugh tbh.

Manners cost nothing yet are getting rarer on fab.

"

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I don't know if manners on fab were generally ever abided by in the first place...

...but yes, manners and class go hand-in-hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this is a little off topic but can somebody help me with reporting a suspicious account? Does anyone know of an administrator I could speak to?

Thank you

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know this is a little off topic but can somebody help me with reporting a suspicious account? Does anyone know of an administrator I could speak to?

Thank you"

Go to their profile... click onto menu and "report user" is listed at the bottom. Hope that helps you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different day & different moods. Don't read too much into it as it could be any number of reasons, maybe it was something about u or could be that their circumstances & wants have changed. Learn from it by never putting too much time into any 1particular profile & plus if uv been chatting with no action for couple of months (& in ur case 9months) then it probably was never gonna happen anyways. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It made me laugh tbh.

Manners cost nothing yet are getting rarer on fab.

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I don't know if manners on fab were generally ever abided by in the first place...

...but yes, manners and class go hand-in-hand "

Manners should be normal to everyone and they make a man extra sexy

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