FabSwingers.com forum: Alternative Fab site for men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get a lot of messages from men asking do I want to be sucked off. The answer is always "no" or sometimes I don't even answer at all.

I have a solution,

there's a fab site for gay men www.fabmen.com I think, or just download the Grindr app for gay men. Ask them do they want to be sucked off and you might get a response.

It says straight on my profile, anyone else get this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your say one thing your profile says sumthing else . Mixed signals i think your giving out simple !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your say one thing your profile says sumthing else . Mixed signals i think your giving out simple ! "

Sorry does my profile say gay anywhere? No

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

It don't matter if your bi gay straight whatever your not the only one that receives messages from lads asking to meet....

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

If you're straight OP why does it matter if a guy in an mmf isn't attractive? (as per your profile)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just giving alternative sites for gay men is all peeps. I don't like blowjobs from men, never got one & prob never will.

Sorry if there was a snobby undertone to my post. Just trying to dish out alternative solutions for gay men.

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's a pain in the bolloxs especially when you think your on a promise

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

Glad someone pointed that out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

Which basically means, I've tried it and didn't like it. I've also tried a ladyboy and liked it. Doesn't mean I want to get sucked off by a man with a black avatar man photo on his profile.

I'm not here to defend my sexuality, I comfortable with it actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

Which basically means, I've tried it and didn't like it. I've also tried a ladyboy and liked it. Doesn't mean I want to get sucked off by a man with a black avatar man photo on his profile.

I'm not here to defend my sexuality, I comfortable with it actually. "

Maybe use the block button and only you can then choose what makes you want to chat too

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

Which basically means, I've tried it and didn't like it. I've also tried a ladyboy and liked it. Doesn't mean I want to get sucked off by a man with a black avatar man photo on his profile.

I'm not here to defend my sexuality, I comfortable with it actually. "

so if the lad asking to suck you off wears a wig and identifies as a TG you'd be grand

stop digging dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

Which basically means, I've tried it and didn't like it. I've also tried a ladyboy and liked it. Doesn't mean I want to get sucked off by a man with a black avatar man photo on his profile.

I'm not here to defend my sexuality, I comfortable with it actually.

so if the lad asking to suck you off wears a wig and identifies as a TG you'd be grand

stop digging dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried applying filters to stop men mailing

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By *ork ClassCouple
over a year ago

Cork

The guy wasn't attractive ???

Fetish for TS??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them as well. I get offers of money and what not. Say no thanks or ignore

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think all men get those messages unless you block men completely and you probably get an extra portion because of that paragraph others are referring to. You can be pretty sure that those who message you are well aware of fabguys etcetera and have a profile there too. It's a fact that there are a good amount of fab straight men on here, so in other to find them they just text all straight guys.

So get on with it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Although u declare as straight and not interested in single guys at the start of ur profile the vibe given from the text of ur profile suggests that u kissed a guy and u liked it. So it's a bit hypocritical to now post a thread giving directions to those u already flickered ur eye lashes at to move along to fab guys or grinder

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I get them as well. I get offers of money and what not. Say no thanks or ignore

offers of money? fuck I must be an ugly bastard lol

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think most guys get asked that question . I just reply no thanks .

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Although u declare as straight and not interested in single guys at the start of ur profile the vibe given from the text of ur profile suggests that u kissed a guy and u liked it. So it's a bit hypocritical to now post a thread giving directions to those u already flickered ur eye lashes at to move along to fab guys or grinder "

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Too many mixed messages in your profile OP. just sayin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many mixed messages in your profile OP. just sayin!"

Advise taken on board but again, please read above. I'm not complaining about them messaging me. I'm just saying use the other fab site for gay men. That's all hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who knows my views knows I've absolutely no problem with biguys and love biMMF meets however, your profile is completely giving off the wrong signals...

Yes I get a guy considers himself straight but likes a TS but in the beginning of this thread to generalise biguys saying try grinder ect is really not fair...anyone could say to you try grinder then..

If you want men to stop messaging you use your filters and block single men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can now say 'men don't read profiles'.

Unfortunately its one way they are ruining it for many guys. Must admit if it says straight in the profile even if some read a mixed message in it they she'd respect that they could be misreading it wrongly. To send a message to suck is a bit desperate and crass at best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one can now say 'men don't read profiles'.

High five for you mate

Exactly my sentiment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone who knows my views knows I've absolutely no problem with biguys and love biMMF meets however, your profile is completely giving off the wrong signals...

If you want men to stop messaging you use your filters and block single men..."

Filter is now being used to its full effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one can now say 'men don't read profiles'.

High five for you mate

Exactly my sentiment"

I actually do agree with you on looking to grinder or fabmen or other appropriate sites. Everyone is asking for respect on here and that's not much to ask for. I used to get loads of messages from biguys....All it said to me was they must be desperate if they're asking me and probably hundreds of other straight men the same thing... There has to be a better site to look unless they're not successful there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see an awful lot of male profiles asking for 'straight cock to suck', so it would appear that to those men anyway, there would be no point in looking on a gay site.

OP, you did the easiest thing in applying your filters, now you can do your own searching instead of having unwanted mail.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one can now say 'men don't read profiles'.

High five for you mate

Exactly my sentiment

Double high five for you mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty. "

So maybe some other guys didnt fully read your profile and just seen that you tried MMF and cuckold and partial to a tv and thought to message you, why would that be any different? Apart from the context of the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I'm not OP... but I block them as then they no longer appear in my searches. That's infuriated some on the forums where this is often discussed, stating they do that as a filter...apoarently its not that they actually not looking for single men even though they state that....so id say your question isn't quiet the same.

I still block them though as it's what it says....not looking so for me I'm no longer interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably a bit of a thrill in it for gay guys to give a blowjob to a "straight" guy. Hence the messages. Also bi-curious guys might not be on grindr or purely gay straight sites.

I am fairly sure gay guys already know about grindr and all the other gay sites already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

In my experience SOME seems to be hundreds... not a few as I'm guessing you're trying to imply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

You must like men messaging you asking to suck you off, otherwise you'd see my point. Either that, or you're just trolling and deliberately being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's probably a bit of a thrill in it for gay guys to give a blowjob to a "straight" guy. Hence the messages. Also bi-curious guys might not be on grindr or purely gay straight sites.

I am fairly sure gay guys already know about grindr and all the other gay sites already. "

I can see this point of view, but again, like I've said before, I'm making them aware through this thread, that there is another fab site for men interested in sucking cock. That's purely all I'm saying. I'd like to end this thread now. People haven't read what I've posted before in the thread.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

In my experience SOME seems to be hundreds... not a few as I'm guessing you're trying to imply."

Not trying to imply anything, guy all ready said he would text a woman or couple without taking the time to check they were looking for single men or not. I think its also fair to say someone might make the same error with him. If im wrong or if its not possible then tell me.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

You must like men messaging you asking to suck you off, otherwise you'd see my point. Either that, or you're just trolling and deliberately being a dick. "

Ohhh.... well done you. So when someone asks a question on a post, about a possible reason that you get the texts you get all uppidy.. trolling and being a dick. 3 weeks on the site and you're like this. Good look on the site with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's probably a bit of a thrill in it for gay guys to give a blowjob to a "straight" guy. Hence the messages. Also bi-curious guys might not be on grindr or purely gay straight sites.

I am fairly sure gay guys already know about grindr and all the other gay sites already.

Not a lot of point making them aware through the forums. Only a small percentage of the site uses them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

In my experience SOME seems to be hundreds... not a few as I'm guessing you're trying to imply.

You're right, I can be the same error, but again this thread is purely to make them aware that there is another Fab site for men who like sucking dick and getting their dick sucked by men. That's all I'm implying. Same can be said for straight guys, why aren't they using tonder etc. I get the point believe me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

You must like men messaging you asking to suck you off, otherwise you'd see my point. Either that, or you're just trolling and deliberately being a dick.

It's good luck, not good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

In my experience SOME seems to be hundreds... not a few as I'm guessing you're trying to imply.

They know there's others sites. They are chancing their luck - and sometimes it pays off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im straight but would have no probs playing with a guy in a mmf situation, the turn on would be the female watching. I get those mails all the time, dont get wound up over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im straight but would have no probs playing with a guy in a mmf situation, the turn on would be the female watching. I get those mails all the time, dont get wound up over them.

You're clearly not straight by your own admission here. Maybe put bi curious as you do play with men ( but then that's not curious either)

This I think is what causes so many to try and chance their luck as someone just said above. If only more people would be honest with their sexuality their might be less confusion and maybe less trying to find new identities in mixed descriptions about what straight means what bi means and what gay means. It's a minefield trying to understand some at times .

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Just a question to the OP, wonder if you will give an honest answer to whether you e er text a female or couple that has a profile saying "not looking for single guys" .. well have you ever??

I can honestly say, if I took the time to read the profile and it said straight guys stay away, I wouldn't message. However, if I didn't read the profile first and I messaged, then I'm guilty.

You must like men messaging you asking to suck you off, otherwise you'd see my point. Either that, or you're just trolling and deliberately being a dick.

It's good luck, not good look. "

Whats "tonder" apart from being a town in Denmark.

You're just gettin anal now in all fairness. Seems like you have an issue with gay men using the site. Whats your view on lesbians using the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving this as trolls are coming out.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Im straight but would have no probs playing with a guy in a mmf situation, the turn on would be the female watching. I get those mails all the time, dont get wound up over them.

You're clearly not straight by your own admission here. Maybe put bi curious as you do play with men ( but then that's not curious either)

Seems nor is the OP by his own admission also,likes TV's, ladyboys and only reason he didnt like the cuckold was he didnt find the other dude attractive. Then when that was pointed out he removed it from his profile bio. So does he like them or does he not? As you say there is absolutley nothing wrong with it as everyones sexuality i feel should be accepted in here. Just be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your not interested in guys block them simple as filter ales or admit you like the offers

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"if your not interested in guys block them simple as filter ales or admit you like the offers"

If he blocks single guys, how's he gonna get messages to whinge about ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im straight but would have no probs playing with a guy in a mmf situation, the turn on would be the female watching. I get those mails all the time, dont get wound up over them.

You're clearly not straight by your own admission here. Maybe put bi curious as you do play with men ( but then that's not curious either)

I'm being honest, I've tried and don't like it as I've said. I've deleted it now of my profile because some people don't know the difference between a TV and a TS/ladyboy.

I said I've tried a ladyboy in Thailand and liked it, doesn't make me a roaring homosexual or anything does it? Like the others have said, just leave the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if your not interested in guys block them simple as filter ales or admit you like the offers

If he blocks single guys, how's he gonna get messages to whinge about ??"

God help us.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"if your not interested in guys block them simple as filter ales or admit you like the offers

If he blocks single guys, how's he gonna get messages to whinge about ??

God help us. "

Indeed - god preserve us from "look at me!!!" threads.... ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if your not interested in guys block them simple as filter ales or admit you like the offers

If he blocks single guys, how's he gonna get messages to whinge about ??

God help us.

Indeed - god preserve us from "look at me!!!" threads.... ...."
Why do you say its a look at me thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask op a cpl of questions :-

Did you fuck the ladyboy and did he fuck you ?

Did yous have oral sex with each other.

Just trying to assess how bi/gay you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy Biphobia Batman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A roaring homosexual . Jesus Christ who says that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP, want to get sucked off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like blowjobs from men, never got one & prob never will"

Lol this statement doesn't ring true if you are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folks as a gay man I had written a big long rant to post but I deleted. Instead can I just say let's just be more understanding and kind to each. its a tough world already let's not make it harder for each other.

And OP I am on those other sites and they are every bit as bad and as good as this. It's not the site, it's people just reacting to the society we are in. A kind 'no thanks' could actually save a life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Folks as a gay man I had written a big long rant to post but I deleted. Instead can I just say let's just be more understanding and kind to each. its a tough world already let's not make it harder for each other.

Even though nobody is entitled to a reply on here, it is nice to kindly decline the offer that is not within our interest. I like your voice of empathy and reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I've tried MMF as a cuckold before but I didn't like it much because the guy wasn't attractive. I wouldn't call myself bi but I do have a fetish for TS rather than TV."

You don't sound too straight tbh pal. I'd say you've Grindr yourself.

hilarious

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