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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did " Personally I always read profiles to try and find something relative to put into my message(which can be difficult with the standard "woman looking for men" profile),but seeing 99% don't reply ,I can see why men do stop making the effort ![]() | |||
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"I always read the profile..yours is an average length of text. Mine is a lot below average but typical of a man. But I get lost reading the essay type profile.attractive or appealing as they might be I get bored reading uptightness. To those with the essays, I say 'loosen up'" If a man or woman or couple,get bored reading the "essay" type profiles,then don't message them. I think that's what the op is saying. If one can't be arsed reading a profile,wether long or short,then why should the profiler be arsed to reply? | |||
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"I got called a bitch because i asked a guy to read my profile " How did you know he hasn't...and then just gonr for it anyway ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did " 2017 I always read them ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did Personally I always read profiles to try and find something relative to put into my message(which can be difficult with the standard "woman looking for men" profile),but seeing 99% don't reply ,I can see why men do stop making the effort ![]() This can be the case a lot of tree time. A lot of the guys that read profiles, myself included, have given up messaging women because of lack of either reading the message or a reply. ![]() | |||
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"Well, I admit my profile as well as our couple profile are rather in the category "essays", which we did on purpose. If it bores any reader or turns the reader off , then mostlikely we wouldn't click anyways, so time saved for either side . For those short kept mails coming in from trades men in transit of any kind...well there is the delete button feature" What about a delivery driver in a Transit? Or a Tradesman in a Trafic? | |||
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"I got called a bitch because i asked a guy to read my profile " He may have struggled with the big words....speaking for myself...I greatly prefer a long and detailed profile - Jesus; look at mine - you get a much better idea of the person as a result. Needless to say that I get messaged not very much - such is life - but I've no time for the picture less, word less profile....if they are lazy about that....they will be lazy about every fecking thing | |||
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"How is that working out for you ??" Oh now that's what I call a question....you're good at the pithy retort. | |||
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"I'd rather look at tits and ass than read a profile. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'd rather look at tits and ass than read a profile. ![]() ![]() Looking might be a better experience. ![]() | |||
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"I'd rather look at tits and ass than read a profile. ![]() ![]() ![]() Lookings free, touchings gonna cost ya ![]() | |||
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"I got called a bitch because i asked a guy to read my profile " So it is one guy that causes you to generalise about all men? :P Trust me, single ladies or couples not always read profiles too... And they use text speech, or only bother to say 'Hi'. I guess if it is just one guy that was an bad person to you, it's not that bad tbh | |||
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"I'd rather look at tits and ass than read a profile. " You're right, I do the same with your profile ![]() | |||
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"No unfortunately he hasn't been the only 1 " Look upon it as a filter. Who doesn't read doesn't get anywhere. They normally get a nice polite no thanks from me and that's it. No point in pointing out to them that they haven't read the profile, you'll only get a snotty answer. | |||
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"No unfortunately he hasn't been the only 1 " Honestly, nobody gives a shit The guy up above gave you the honest answer; we couldn't be arsed to read it. Rather just look at pics | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a chance to get a reply if they did " As previously mentioned, many couples and females are the same. They will write a very long message with no relevance to the profile or assume their single line of greeting will suffice. ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did " . There too long lot women have huge essays as there profiles and I cant be arsed reading them lol | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did . There too long lot women have huge essays as there profiles and I cant be arsed reading them lol " So if you can't extend them the common courtesy of reading their profile why should they extend you the common courtesy of a reply. If you can't give them a few minutes of your time to read their profile then why should they give you any of their time to meet with you? Just saying. ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did . There too long lot women have huge essays as there profiles and I cant be arsed reading them lol So if you can't extend them the common courtesy of reading their profile why should they extend you the common courtesy of a reply. If you can't give them a few minutes of your time to read their profile then why should they give you any of their time to meet with you? Just saying. ![]() oh I've giving up mailing women on this for time being anyway just chat on forum and I'm going Amsterdam next week so its all gravy baby lol ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did . There too long lot women have huge essays as there profiles and I cant be arsed reading them lol So if you can't extend them the common courtesy of reading their profile why should they extend you the common courtesy of a reply. If you can't give them a few minutes of your time to read their profile then why should they give you any of their time to meet with you? Just saying. ![]() also some the women on this seem want us jump through hoops for shag fuck that lol | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol " But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. | |||
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"Mines short....i dont have a list of demands but if they read it alot of a certain age would know their message will get deleted and not read.....saving them time and less moaning ![]() ![]() You've dodged a bullet if they were to moan about it anyway. | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. " This I had a couple mail me when it clearly says on my profile I'm not looking to meet couples , I changed my filters to block mails from couples , so they messaged from a single guys profile and got abusive | |||
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"I got called a bitch because i asked a guy to read my profile " Just block him and be done with it....he should always read the profile ... | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. " relax mate I don't mail anyone with long ass essay profiles anyway lol . ![]() | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. This I had a couple mail me when it clearly says on my profile I'm not looking to meet couples , I changed my filters to block mails from couples , so they messaged from a single guys profile and got abusive " Imagine wasting your life in this way ![]() | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. relax mate I don't mail anyone with long ass essay profiles anyway lol . ![]() Much quicker to read a profile than to moan about it on a forum. That's all I'm saying. | |||
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"Sure ya get to know them through messages does put me off if see female with a novel as there profile lol But if someone says in their profile, I like tall muscle bodybuilder boys, which you aren't, and you mail them anyway, why expect a reply? Its a waste of everyone's time. Takes less than a minute to read a profile. After reading, say I do or dont like them, or else they wouldn't like me, and don't mail. Simple stuff really. relax mate I don't mail anyone with long ass essay profiles anyway lol . ![]() wasn't moaning just answer OP question from my perspective is all ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did " Cause the pics are before the text .. All the blood drains from my head cause it's needed elsewhere, rational thinking goes out the window and I instantly start messaging ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did " --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() your bang on there lot lick arses say they read every profile in detail prob take notes and all pmsl | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() Once you've been around the block a few times and banged some airheads, visual stopped been enough. Like a bit of craic and a laugh, not just a cold meet. That's depressing. | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ---------------- "Banged a few airheads" Shakespeare couldn't have put it any better! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It was a Spanish fuck buddy that changed my stance ![]() | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. " Two cock pics? | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics?" As a minimum | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() --------------- Hey, you're not Sharon Curley out of THE SNAPPER by any chance?? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum" They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() | |||
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"Why do men not bother to read profiles ?? Would have more of a change to get a reply if they did --------------- In general, men see lots of boobies and go into instant troglodyte mode and just grunt or type out whatever is in our heads like "Wanna f...?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm more of a Georgie Burgess snip snip ![]() | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() And a face palm one | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() First get yourself a smart phone then worry about emojis ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() ![]() ![]() I can just about cope with my very un smart phone lol | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah we'll all help you get to grips with the new tech. Fab is lovely like that ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. " Some of them sense it as a challenge. Lol | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Some of them sense it as a challenge. Lol" They may. When I tell them to read my profile tho - I get apologies lol | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll give it a miss thanks lol | |||
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"I have less than 20 words on my profile, including NO COCK PICS THANKS. So even the laziest person should be able to manage to read it. Guess what I get sent. Two cock pics? As a minimum They need to get a sigh emoji on this site ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well I'll keep the faith in you taking the big leap ![]() | |||
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