FabSwingers.com forum: Getting the first verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social

Thats what most people do

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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago

City

Be able to accomodate, and ask all the girls in a row till one says yeah.

Take photos with that girl and upload them to your profile and more girls will want you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met men with no verifications! Just get chatting, charm them, prove you are real, let them make up their own mind. It could take weeks of daily chat to meet someone (sometimes it does with me) but you have to put the graft in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard work patience and lots of chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met men with no verifications! Just get chatting, charm them, prove you are real, let them make up their own mind. It could take weeks of daily chat to meet someone (sometimes it does with me) but you have to put the graft in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in the same boat. We hoping to get verified soon. We were verified before and it makes a huge difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An easy way would be to know a member if the female sex, introduce them to Fab and they meet someone and get verified, then verify you.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications"

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening"

Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening

Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits

9pm Thursday night in Athy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening

Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits

9pm Thursday night in Athy"

I hope you pick up on this offer op and see it through!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications

Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening

Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits

9pm Thursday night in Athy"

Boom!!! There you go OP

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

No no no just sit and wait for them to come flocking

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone verify me pm me if you can guys Celtic couple ??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It does not happen over nite . Some times people hold little coffee meets for people like you . A good lot will say I'm going but out of 45 about 15 turn up if their lucky .

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Can anyone verify me pm me if you can guys Celtic couple ??"

We will only verify people who we have met, but if you wish to travel for a social drink we would be more than happy to verify you to say you are who you say and that you do turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Celtics you are so good to organise these intros I hope they turn up!!

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Celtics you are so good to organise these intros I hope they turn up!!"

Ah Samalan these have been known to be terminal for grannies, pets, jobs.... Even had one guy not only lose his car keys but also his car...

Hence we now no longer travel to meet someone re a veri as we have went out of our way for a no show.

But we were all new once and everyone deserves a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cool of ye celtic couple. By the way ye are prob the series that couple on here. Just stunning.

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo

"Celtics you are so good to organise these intros I hope they turn up!!

Ah Samalan these have been known to be terminal for grannies, pets, jobs.... Even had one guy not only lose his car keys but also his car...

Hence we now no longer travel to meet someone re a veri as we have went out of our way for a no show.

But we were all new once and everyone deserves a chance. "

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tryed to chat to you and got blocked so there you go very harsh not easy trying to talk to plp and get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Deja Vu?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tryed to chat to you and got blocked so there you go very harsh not easy trying to talk to plp and get blocked "

You talking about me????

One of your messages had 3 words and the next one had about 5 words... it just wasnt going the right way Paul. No hard feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No worries I'll just move on and try to chat yo the next woman and get blocked again not easy for us guys lol and guys that's serious about meeting up not like all the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No worries I'll just move on and try to chat yo the next woman and get blocked again not easy for us guys lol and guys that's serious about meeting up not like all the fakes "

Being honest I don't know where lisnaskea is but figured its nowhere near good old Clondalkin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

if I'm honest I don't understand what that means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

if I'm honest I don't understand what that means

I'll message you myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

if I'm honest I don't understand what that means

I'll message you myself

Oh cool, thanks! Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

if I'm honest I don't understand what that means

I'll message you myself

Oh cool, thanks! Every day is a school day

You might learn something

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By *enusalMan
over a year ago

tipperary Limerick London,Germany

Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice, if she says no or doesn't reply then leave it otherwise suggest meeting in a public place for a coffee and chat and see how things go then it all happens from there if the connection is otherwise its just going to be a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science."

What if they're a rocket scientist?

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By *enusalMan
over a year ago

tipperary Limerick London,Germany

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science."

Yes I agree totally with you.

Sometimes it works and can get a good reaction or compliment for the effort and thought gone into it.

However alot of times it's irrvelant.

Verification appears to carry more weight in the end of the day.

Although tbf....you did comment kindly on mine

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By *enusalMan
over a year ago

tipperary Limerick London,Germany

"Be nice, if she says no or doesn't reply then leave it otherwise suggest meeting in a public place for a coffee and chat and see how things go then it all happens from there if the connection is otherwise its just going to be a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.

What if they're a rocket scientist?

Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.

What if they're a rocket scientist?

Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue!

$-"

I normally bring my degree with me at all times

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Deja Vu?"

Well we will give him a chance he is new lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jammy bastard, start a thread about how to get verified and gets verified (hopefully), who knew, well in ????

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Mini social in athy anyone?

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Mini social in athy anyone?

We tried organising a few here , very little interest

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Mini social in athy anyone?

We tried organising a few here , very little interest"

Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Mini social in athy anyone?

We tried organising a few here , very little interest

Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite"

Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Mini social in athy anyone?

We tried organising a few here , very little interest

Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite

Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up "

Disappointing ain't it? I hope Op helps restore you faith

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Mini social in athy anyone?

We tried organising a few here , very little interest

Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite

Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up

Disappointing ain't it? I hope Op helps restore you faith"

Ah we see it all the time , people whinging they cant get verified, we have tried organising socials , mostly mid week where there is no huge cost involved on people , done them in different parts of the country and its the same each time, starting your thinking of booking the RDS for a finish you could have it in phone box lol

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Ah we see it all the time , people whinging they cant get verified, we have tried organising socials , mostly mid week where there is no huge cost involved on people , done them in different parts of the country and its the same each time, starting your thinking of booking the RDS for a finish you could have it in phone box lol"

I know, when I showed up to my first social everyone was surprised.

"you actually showed" they said

"ah why wouldn't I" I asked

"cause you're a young, single, unverified guy" they said

Apparently we don't have a good track record

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

I know, when I showed up to my first social everyone was surprised.

"you actually showed" they said

"ah why wouldn't I" I asked

"cause you're a young, single, unverified guy" they said

Apparently we don't have a good track record

We once had a singles party, invited 7 men , 7 ladies, 6 ladies turned up , 1 male showed.

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By *r Connie LingusMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Can I come to your next party

I like those odds

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"We once had a singles party, invited 7 men , 7 ladies, 6 ladies turned up , 1 male showed. "

Wow...lucky guy

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Ah that was a one off , was never repeated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be there in a heartbeat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Be yourself,join in on the forums update your profile as you develop on here and try not to fall foul of the fab elitists you don't want that blackball happening too early

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"Be yourself,join in on the forums update your profile as you develop on here and try not to fall foul of the fab elitists you don't want that blackball happening too early

You forgot "Go to a social"

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up "

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never

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By *aseman_291Man
over a year ago

kildare

Yes can be hard, but I still have great chats on fab and K,, some day I'll be verified lol

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Yes can be hard, but I still have great chats on fab and K,, some day I'll be verified lol"

Well your in Kildare as well we will meet you for a social

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never"

I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never

I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff"

We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never

I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff

We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it

After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never

I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff"

Yes very hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up

Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never

I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff

We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it

After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night"

It's not to late sure!

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

It's not to late sure!

I might just make the post then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

It's not to late sure!

I might just make the post then"

Do yeah! I'll help out

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

It's not to late sure!

I might just make the post then

Best of luck lads

Do yeah! I'll help out "

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

It's not to late sure!

I might just make the post then

Do yeah! I'll help out

Best of luck lads"

If it works out I might move on to bigger socials, if I do youll definitely have an invite

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night

It's not to late sure!

I might just make the post then

Do yeah! I'll help out

Best of luck lads

If it works out I might move on to bigger socials, if I do youll definitely have an invite"

Thank you and if we are free we will try make it

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Yes can be hard, but I still have great chats on fab and K,, some day I'll be verified lol

Well your in Kildare as well we will meet you for a social "

Only wants friends invite dont waste your time here, confirmed everything on a year met no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how the poster feels it's nearly impossible to get verified on here although it's a great site...I'm definitely seeing patience is the key

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol

No Way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Celtic cpl so ate u organising a meet a greet if love to meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You either have game and are true to your word ... or you don't just be honest make it happen and then it will .. I'm sure there's lots of people out there who like you and other people for that matter .... wish you luck my friend

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Be yourself,join in on the forums update your profile as you develop on here and try not to fall foul of the fab elitists you don't want that blackball happening too early

You forgot "Go to a social"

Socials are my idea of a nightmare scenario. There are many nice people on here but God there are so many pains in the arses that the "socials" scene turns my blood cold.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol

No Way !

Yip , whinges he cant get a meet , was to meet last Thursday but said work had come up which is fair enough so re-arranged for this Thursday and a no show

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol

Did he leave you guys hanging? Awh, give me a minute I'll be there, I've got tomorrow off so I can deal with the hangover

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.

On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.

Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings

Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol

No Way !

Yip , whinges he cant get a meet , was to meet last Thursday but said work had come up which is fair enough so re-arranged for this Thursday and a no show"

There's no show like a......

No show!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And pop like him ruin it for guys like me that want to get a meet and can't anyone help a guy out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some pics would prob help you Paul bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lad I had pics up and still havnt helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you see someone who catches your eye .. make your message different and send pic ... more chance they will notice you and reply

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Its not you, its me.

I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.

Oh that old chestnut

Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse

Ahhhhh, yes, I am familiar with this situation all too well. I try to think of it as women on their periods being like terrorists. The only key difference is you can negotiate with a terrorist.

When a woman is on her period one should approach her very slowly and cautiously. If she starts snarl, retreat to a safe distance and throw chocolates.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.

I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!

I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.

What if they're a rocket scientist?

Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue!

$-"

I have a rocket (between my legs). Does that count? Lol

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By *onniebumWoman
over a year ago

Tell ya later

Try to be as honest as you can too. Ive had messages from 'single' men, only for them to have to disappear from chatting as there 'child' came down for a drink or they lost signal etc etc. A little digging later, turns out the 'estranged wife' still lives in the house....yeah, and in his bed too...

Please don't be one of those guys!!!

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