FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone actually answer messages?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious, maybe it's the title I'm putting in like "hey" or "hi" that doesn't exactly grab the users attention.

Maybe put the username of the person in and may work perhaps? Any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and reply to messages but going by your profile i wouldnt reply. Cannot accomodate cannot travel and your comments would turn me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always try and reply to messages but going by your profile i wouldnt reply. Cannot accomodate cannot travel and your comments would turn me off too. "

Thanks for the advise but I must change it so because I can actually travel and accom mid week evenings and nights.

It's an old profile that hasn't been updated in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy's profile but only a girl in the avatar? I'd pass it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the ladies re the pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?"

Well that's my fuck friend and thought it would spark interest in the profile of there were a woman in some of my pics. I do have face pics on demand in private. I'd prefer snobs to just ask for face pics instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with the ladies re the pic."

Ok consider it changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always try and reply to messages but going by your profile i wouldnt reply. Cannot accomodate cannot travel and your comments would turn me off too.

Thanks for the advise but I must change it so because I can actually travel and accom mid week evenings and nights.

It's an old profile that hasn't been updated in a while. "

2 weeks on here isn't old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice looking girl but your a guy and I know my profile isn't perfect but just say something about what you like and what you can offer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?

snobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the ladies about the profile pic, and the little bit you wrote is ( just my own humble opinion ) to crude and cold, yes i aware its a swing site but were all human's too..best of luck

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

women dont want to see other women on single male profiles..

if we want to look at women we will look at the ladies profiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"women dont want to see other women on single male profiles..

if we want to look at women we will look at the ladies profiles..

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?

It's also against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao at snob's! That's those d2 lot for you! Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he meant not updated in a week or two

...nice pics but two are the same...in fairness he does say what hes into and perhaps thats just not what the people he mailed are into...so youll get a reply when you mail the right people im sure....a lot of people nearly always mail back...sure they might mail back and then block you but a reply is a reply...send ten mails expect one back on average.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he meant not updated in a week or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?

It's also against site rules."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single male profile,and your avatar is clearly a woman with no sign of yourself?

Would you reply to you ?

It's also against site rules.

Ehm, yes she consented while we both had a joint account here before as a couple. As long as her face pic wasn't posted, she doesn't mind. We set up the old profile together with the same pics.

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And then the deal with couples, just posting pics of their wives is cool? I don't get some fabbers at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And then the deal with couples, just posting pics of their wives is cool? I don't get some fabbers at all. "

Yours isn't a couples profile.

Self explanatory really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And then the deal with couples, just posting pics of their wives is cool? I don't get some fabbers at all.

Yours isn't a couples profile.

Self explanatory really"

It was before 2 weeks ago but now it's a single profile if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy"

Oh.. They don't like that either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And then the deal with couples, just posting pics of their wives is cool? I don't get some fabbers at all.

Yours isn't a couples profile.

Self explanatory really

It was before 2 weeks ago but now it's a single profile if that makes sense "

I get what you're saying, but you now have a single guys profile, therefore YOU must be in your photos whether it's with someone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't at all for the simple reason the length of time on site doesn't change when u go from a couple to a single on same profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy"

Haha

And don't forget the sky remote!

(That's allowed)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy"
all anyone is trying to do is help you and give you some advice!if you want to good on here take some underwear shots front and back standing showing your body! Just trying to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to answer but just not possible.ive loads of filters on but still can't keep up.feck knows why but i get loads of messages from UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol rose i can't message you because I'm too old!xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try to answer but just not possible.ive loads of filters on but still can't keep up.feck knows why but i get loads of messages from UK. "

Well I wonder if its because of your name!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't at all for the simple reason the length of time on site doesn't change when u go from a couple to a single on same profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy

Oh.. They don't like that either!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some positive changes made to the pics but can expect criticism either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some positive changes made to the pics but can expect criticism either way. "

For the love of god, just change that avatar pic...nobody wants to see that. Literally anything would be better in place of it. FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol rose i can't message you because I'm too old!xxxx"

Haha and she's 3 yrs older than you!! Sweet Jesus Christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm changing the pics to just my cock pics so to keep the majority of the fabbers happy

Oh.. They don't like that either!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some positive changes made to the pics but can expect criticism either way.

For the love of god, just change that avatar pic...nobody wants to see that. Literally anything would be better in place of it. FFS"

And pics of you ramming some poor unfortunate soul and shoving your cock into her face people want to see? lol, I just can't win. ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some positive changes made to the pics but can expect criticism either way.

For the love of god, just change that avatar pic...nobody wants to see that. Literally anything would be better in place of it. FFS

And pics of you ramming some poor unfortunate soul and shoving your cock into her face people want to see? lol, I just can't win. ????????"

So your brain can only see 2 options; your cock or you fucking someone? Here's an idea out of left field, how about just a non cock pic of yourself? Revolutionary i know...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some positive changes made to the pics but can expect criticism either way.

For the love of god, just change that avatar pic...nobody wants to see that. Literally anything would be better in place of it. FFS

And pics of you ramming some poor unfortunate soul and shoving your cock into her face people want to see? lol, I just can't win. ????????

So your brain can only see 2 options; your cock or you fucking someone? Here's an idea out of left field, how about just a non cock pic of yourself? Revolutionary i know..."

Beat you to the punch already. Just paranoid people would know me with a face or body pic, extingtive tattoos on body. I'll stick with a face pic for now

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

If you look at the profiles of the lads that are doing ok in here you will probably find they have little or no cock shots on their profiles.

Having 3 and all cock shots might say stuff about you to others. We know you are very attached to it but maybe try to be a little more creative on the profile and on the messages that you send and you might have some more luck.

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