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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I was in semi regular contact with someone who had a few veri's and I had none, tried to arrange a social meet a few times with no joy, now ive been verified myself once the person who shall remain nameless totally ignores me altho I know shes got and read my messeges.... just wondering if this is a something others have experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh, she's not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens... Sometimes there's no spark/chemistry and rather than lead you on by continuing to chat with you she's decided not to respond. It's sometimes easier than saying "not interested" as unfortunately rejection can turn nasty here, especially if you had been chatting regularly

Don't take it personally , it will happen from time to time just move on with your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uh, she's not interested?"
thats exactly my point... she was right up to the point of me getting verified altho she has a few and that didnt bother me... not wanting to start a turf war or that but talk about double standards when women on here say guys spin lies and rant on ect. My experience has been the other way round. Talked to some awesome people too so not all bad. In the end I wont be losing sleep over it or that but just seeing if others have had the same experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she doesn't like the person that verified you so isn't interested any more.

It's happened before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens... Sometimes there's no spark/chemistry and rather than lead you on by continuing to chat with you she's decided not to respond. It's sometimes easier than saying "not interested" as unfortunately rejection can turn nasty here, especially if you had been chatting regularly

Don't take it personally , it will happen from time to time just move on with your search "
thats the plan , im happy to be offically verified too as people can see im legit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she doesn't like the person that verified you so isn't interested any more.

It's happened before"
that didnt dawn on me "duh", you make perfect sense actually so thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens... Sometimes there's no spark/chemistry and rather than lead you on by continuing to chat with you she's decided not to respond. It's sometimes easier than saying "not interested" as unfortunately rejection can turn nasty here, especially if you had been chatting regularly

Don't take it personally , it will happen from time to time just move on with your search thats the plan , im happy to be offically verified too as people can see im legit "

It's definitely exciting to get verified but doesn't mean that now you are, everyone will be willing to meet so just take your time chatting and never assume because you're chatting with someone it's a guaranteed meet...

Have fun OP , best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's Fab for you. Don't take it personally or try and read too much into it. Happens all the time. Remember, some Fabbers on here are not site supporters, so when they get a mail from you, they can't see the previous messages from you and what seems like a continue mail from you, can be a new mail to them as they can't see what was written previously. Guys are in the majority here and women get hundreds of mail every single day. If she couldn't be bothered to respond to you or politely tell you that it was a no, it tells you something about that person and why would you be bothered to even try and arrange a meet with them if they can't be arsed to say 'thanks but no thanks'. Yeah I appreciate that some men can't take rejection but it seems that the good guys get lumped in with the shitbags as well with some people.

Head up, move on & concentrate on someone that clicks with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens... Sometimes there's no spark/chemistry and rather than lead you on by continuing to chat with you she's decided not to respond. It's sometimes easier than saying "not interested" as unfortunately rejection can turn nasty here, especially if you had been chatting regularly

Don't take it personally , it will happen from time to time just move on with your search thats the plan , im happy to be offically verified too as people can see im legit

It's definitely exciting to get verified but doesn't mean that now you are, everyone will be willing to meet so just take your time chatting and never assume because you're chatting with someone it's a guaranteed meet...

Have fun OP , best of luck "
thank you for that and ive been here before so I know the score.... im select in who I would meet and a social coffee is always first when/if theres any meets arranged

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If she doesn't reply to your messages she's simply not interested (anymore). We women have the ability to change our mind and we can do so even when we're wet and horny. Sometimes it takes very little for a mind change and it might be hard to understand from the outside. The best for you is to move on and don't put too much thought into it.

Look at it from a positive angle you got a look at me I'm verified thread out if it and the ladies are responding to your post.

Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's Fab for you. Don't take it personally or try and read too much into it. Happens all the time. Remember, some Fabbers on here are not site supporters, so when they get a mail from you, they can't see the previous messages from you and what seems like a continue mail from you, can be a new mail to them as they can't see what was written previously. Guys are in the majority here and women get hundreds of mail every single day. If she couldn't be bothered to respond to you or politely tell you that it was a no, it tells you something about that person and why would you be bothered to even try and arrange a meet with them if they can't be arsed to say 'thanks but no thanks'. Yeah I appreciate that some men can't take rejection but it seems that the good guys get lumped in with the shitbags as well with some people.

Head up, move on & concentrate on someone that clicks with you. "
100% agree with you on that, the dirtbags and messers here way outweigh the nice guys and women who are here to enjoy life and meet new people. As I said im not gonna lose sleep over one judgemental person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she doesn't reply to your messages she's simply not interested (anymore). We women have the ability to change our mind and we can do so even when we're wet and horny. Sometimes it takes very little for a mind change and it might be hard to understand from the outside. The best for you is to move on and don't put too much thought into it.

Look at it from a positive angle you got a look at me I'm verified thread out if it and the ladies are responding to your post.

Happy fabbing! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she doesn't reply to your messages she's simply not interested (anymore). We women have the ability to change our mind and we can do so even when we're wet and horny. Sometimes it takes very little for a mind change and it might be hard to understand from the outside. The best for you is to move on and don't put too much thought into it.

Look at it from a positive angle you got a look at me I'm verified thread out if it and the ladies are responding to your post.

Happy fabbing! "
haha thans for the responce and I agree with you to an extent, I have no intenchion of showing off my "im verified" status. Way I see it is if someones intrested in getting to know me theres a "messege" button.This post was simply just to find out if I was alone in getting ignored just cuz I got verfied, be it due to lack of intrest, jelousy or other reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is life ,what a beautiful day ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such is life ,what a beautiful day ??"
for sure.... the weather in kildare is amazing with the added bonus of no work today haha

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Maybe she doesn't like the person that verified you so isn't interested any more.

It's happened before"

There are quite a few women on here that do that it's pretty childish but what can one do eh?

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

So you think because you got verified you're entitled to a meet now? You're entitled to nothing. She obviously doesn't want to meet you. Move on.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"So you think because you got verified you're entitled to a meet now? You're entitled to nothing. She obviously doesn't want to meet you. Move on."

How pleasant

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