FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys and girls

Wondering can anyone give me some info...

Got a very nasty abusive message sent to me today by some sick twisted asshole who immediately deleted his profile.

Unfortunately I wasn't online at the time so when I logged on and saw the message they had already left the site!!

Can I report this to fab admineven though they have already left the site??... and if so how?

Thanks man advance

Laura xxx

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hey guys and girls

Wondering can anyone give me some info...

Got a very nasty abusive message sent to me today by some sick twisted asshole who immediately deleted his profile.

Unfortunately I wasn't online at the time so when I logged on and saw the message they had already left the site!!

Can I report this to fab admineven though they have already left the site??... and if so how?

Thanks man advance

Laura xxx"

Hey Laura it can be very unnerving when you receive nasty messages and if I was you even though the lowlife has left the site I'll still report it..

Laura x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the normal Keyboard warriors, I wouldn't concern myself with them. Every aspect of social media has them gutter rats.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Can you still report through the message. Hugs and kisses I've had a few of those myself x

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Why do these sickos come on here. We're all here to enjoy our self's . It must be horrible to get messages like that . Sorry to hear that . I had a few run in like that but I think you have to get a little bit thick skinned other wise you won't last to long . Forget about them move on you better than them .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Can you still report through the message. Hugs and kisses I've had a few of those myself x"

When u open the mail under the pink line which has delete message there's a report button on the left this will lead u to the report pg although the user is unlos

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think you will get them in all walks of life Im afraid. Just turn your cheek and forget about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys and girls

Wondering can anyone give me some info...

Got a very nasty abusive message sent to me today by some sick twisted asshole who immediately deleted his profile.

Unfortunately I wasn't online at the time so when I logged on and saw the message they had already left the site!!

Can I report this to fab admineven though they have already left the site??... and if so how?

Thanks man advance

Laura xxx"

There's still an option to report a message even if the sender is gone. It should be easy to see on the message itself. Keep a screenshot of it for your own records, in case it's the first of many. Also block new and maybe even unverified users from contacting you. It might be an idea too to ensure that your friends list, and your friends' friends lists are not visible, as well as verifications either of you or by you. I know that might sound extreme, but I was harassed and stalked here relentlessly for well over a year by someone who sent messages for me through people whose lists I was on, when I closed off the ability to contact me directly. Hopefully for you, this will just be a once off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say report them,stop them joining under the same email address if the administration take it seriously,I know they can use a different email,but if they keep getting reported,they'll soon get fed up of having to create a new address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking new and unverified will help out the weirdos - don't let it bother you !

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By *waneyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't listen to it. Dirty little rodent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking new and unverified will help out the weirdos - don't let it bother you ! "

This!

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

it is not good dont like Egypts like that it puts me and the nice lads down

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By *ustful desiresCouple
over a year ago

Just block its the easiest thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments good to know there are nice genuine people on here!!

I managed to send the message to admin as any vile excuse of a man that threatens to attack a woman definitely needs addressed!!

Laura xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys and girls

Wondering can anyone give me some info...

Got a very nasty abusive message sent to me today by some sick twisted asshole who immediately deleted his profile.

Unfortunately I wasn't online at the time so when I logged on and saw the message they had already left the site!!

Can I report this to fab admineven though they have already left the site??... and if so how?

Thanks man advance

Laura xxx"

Aww sorry to hear this. The reason why I have filters. Hope that will be the end of it for you

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

It does happen , but thankfully rarely. In the main most people are lovely. It's unsettling for a while , but you'll be ok . Don't let the haters get you down X

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

"Thanks for your comments good to know there are nice genuine people on here!!

I managed to send the message to admin as any vile excuse of a man that threatens to attack a woman definitely needs addressed!!

Laura xx"

Going by some of the statuses updates I'm seeing on my feed, this person has done it to a few people today. You did the right thing in reporting it....ridiculous what some of the idiots do on here. And as others have said, maybe adjust the filters so that unverified or new users can't message you?

Hopefully that's the end of it!

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Plenty of dickheads on this site that have no respect for ladies and cpls ive seen sum messages that few lady friends have gotten and they are very abusive and no need for it what so ever !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is not good dont like Egypts like that it puts me and the nice lads down

How exactly would that happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is not good dont like Egypts like that it puts me and the nice lads down

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why dont you like the Egyptians .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is not good dont like Egypts like that it puts me and the nice lads down

How exactly would that happen?"

It wouldn't. It's one of the most bandied about notions on here and it's absolutely ridiculous.

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