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By *ewguyhere77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Anybody else prefer to chat and make a connection rather than just jump into bed with someone. One night stands are always cold if theres no conection. Sex is always better if you can make a mental conection

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By *rs Pink PantherWoman
over a year ago

The Darkest Side

Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

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By *ewguyhere77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over "

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away

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By *ewguyhere77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away"

we shouldnt all be treated the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away"

Thats an odd answer to what she wrote

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By *rs Pink PantherWoman
over a year ago

The Darkest Side

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By *rs Pink PantherWoman
over a year ago

The Darkest Side


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away

Thats an odd answer to what she wrote"

Was too scared to say it was odd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else prefer to chat and make a connection rather than just jump into bed with someone. One night stands are always cold if theres no conection. Sex is always better if you can make a mental conection"

Totally agree the sex gets better and hotter too

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By *ewguyhere77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away

Ya sorry that was more a continuation of what i wrote first. Most people think that when they tell a guy they will meet that the guy thinks sex is garunteed. Just because you agree to have coffee is not agreeing to have sex. Of coarse if you both fancy the pants off each other and both agree then dive right in.

Sorry for the confusion

Thats an odd answer to what she wrote"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time is good each time after that u get that wee bit closer and the sex gets better

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By *ewguyhere77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork


"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over

Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away

Dont be scared lol. Im one of the few who respects women

Thats an odd answer to what she wrote

Was too scared to say it was odd lol "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

it's like I say can you have sex on physical attraction alone? I can and probably will again.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. "
I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen "

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. "

absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see "

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. "

I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course "

You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course

You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. "

nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course

You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day."

I'd say I could too but there wouldn't be much steam and heat, just mechanical sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen

Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see

Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course

You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day.

I'd say I could too but there wouldn't be much steam and heat, just mechanical sex. "

Mechanical sex is my worst nightmare.... I need the connection, passion, desire and sparks to fully enjoy an encounter.

Alex

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I said this before but I never get to "into" a person with just sex. what I mean is, I have let it happen before, explained it was just sex but feelings on her part became involved and then things just got dirty and not in a good way. I prefer, with sex to keep things completly as casual as possible!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Na if I want connections I will connect with people in the real world if I want sex I use sites like this.

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