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By *osrace OP   Man
over a year ago

ireland

What is the story with this site need directions cant give ir away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off, any site like this has more male members than female, so unless you're handsome or charming (preferably both), the competition is going to very strong.

Secondly, if you're here just for the sex, then you're not going to get the social interaction that swinging is all about (you may as well just engage a sex worker) - just because a woman is on this site, doesn't mean they want to be treated as meat.

Thirdly, it's not about "giving it away" - no-one owes you sex and as a straight man, you need the women on here much more than they need you. If you expect nothing, then anything that does happen, is a bonus (just enjoy reading the forums, looking at the photos, reading the profiles, Fabbing and Winking, chatting etc).

Fourthly, it's a waiting game, but if you put effort into your profile and photos, it helps you get noticed.

Fifthly, be yourself - don't try to write a profile that's all things to all people (you'll never win and people will see straight though it).

Sixth, there are some rude people on here (who oddly think they are anything but rude) - rise above it and move on (never engage in an online spat - you'll do more damage to your reputation regardless of whether you're right or wrong) - use the ignore button, report the profile and be on your way.

Seventh, the best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First off, any site like this has more male members than female, so unless you're handsome or charming (preferably both), the competition is going to very strong.

Secondly, if you're here just for the sex, then you're not going to get the social interaction that swinging is all about (you may as well just engage a sex worker) - just because a woman is on this site, doesn't mean they want to be treated as meat.

Thirdly, it's not about "giving it away" - no-one owes you sex and as a straight man, you need the women on here much more than they need you. If you expect nothing, then anything that does happen, is a bonus (just enjoy reading the forums, looking at the photos, reading the profiles, Fabbing and Winking, chatting etc).

Fourthly, it's a waiting game, but if you put effort into your profile and photos, it helps you get noticed.

Fifthly, be yourself - don't try to write a profile that's all things to all people (you'll never win and people will see straight though it).

Sixth, there are some rude people on here (who oddly think they are anything but rude) - rise above it and move on (never engage in an online spat - you'll do more damage to your reputation regardless of whether you're right or wrong) - use the ignore button, report the profile and be on your way.

Seventh, the best of luck."
couldnt have said it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great advice lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself. Charm, wit, sense of humour and manners go a long way. With the right ladies.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself. Charm, wit, sense of humour and manners go a long way. With the right ladies.

Good luck. "

*Tips hat, *holds door... Ma'am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself. Charm, wit, sense of humour and manners go a long way. With the right ladies.

Good luck.

*Tips hat, *holds door... Ma'am "

Why thank you kind Sir ( giggles )

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Good advice so far maybe change your pix though, to something a bit less painful looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe lose the drugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe lose the drugs "

drugs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 2 meets in 9 weeks. Plenty would be happy with that.

Do whatever you did to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe lose the drugs

drugs?"

420 friendly on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe lose the drugs

drugs?

420 friendly on his profile "

ah now thats hardly drugs lol

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe lose the drugs

drugs?

420 friendly on his profile

ah now thats hardly drugs lol"

It's hardly asprin either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had 2 meets in 9 weeks. Plenty would be happy with that.

Do whatever you did to meet them"

I don't remember those verifications being there this morning...

Sounds like you're doing just fine OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe lose the drugs

drugs?

420 friendly on his profile

ah now thats hardly drugs lol

It's hardly asprin either "

every one knows its good to have your greens

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