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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi male here from the couple 6 no shows in 3 weeks what is happening here meant to be separate meets for me to be clear we play separate easier in summer cause of kids

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Hi male here from the couple 6 no shows in 3 weeks what is happening here meant to be separate meets for me to be clear we play separate easier in summer cause of kids "

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Couple or singles.. A no show is bad form. Do they not realize that the community is small and your reputation as a no show merchant gets around irrespective of how many new profiles you create...

I think a system for showing up should be on Fab. Not that hard to introduce either...

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

There's no show like a Joe show xx

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sorry to hear that. That's certainly not nice but you might have to look at your selection process. Were they verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A text even within an hour of meeting would be nothing more than good manners..had a few no shows myself along with some pig awful excuses to go with them.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"A text even within an hour of meeting would be nothing more than good manners..had a few no shows myself along with some pig awful excuses to go with them. "

Yeah, some of the excuses are fooking classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A text even within an hour of meeting would be nothing more than good manners..had a few no shows myself along with some pig awful excuses to go with them.

Yeah, some of the excuses are fooking classic "

Awk now, to be fair, when my goldfish's grandfather's dead dog had gout it was a very traumatic time for me

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Glad that didn't happen when we were due to meet Pete.

I've had a few "alien abductions " myself. If I don't hear from them the morning of a meet then I know it's not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had too many lately, I'm really getting fed up of it, I don't know who too believe anymore, I put my plans off with friends, just too go out of my way too make an effort, and then they go & cancel, such time wasters. And I actually talk too them on the phone weeks beforehand, and yet they do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you guys report no shows on the site? I think you can do that and if that happens a lot theses profiles are dealt with by admins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 lads in Ashbourne tonight

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"I've had too many lately, I'm really getting fed up of it, I don't know who too believe anymore, I put my plans off with friends, just too go out of my way too make an effort, and then they go & cancel, such time wasters. And I actually talk too them on the phone weeks beforehand, and yet they do it. "
Sorry to hear Angelic but there's always fellas who'll show up as well though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they show up...sometimes they don't...

Such is life...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

No shows bloody aufull well I had a few but most show up . If they don't show up for you then they won't show for others . Why o why do they come on here if their not going to meet people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No shows bloody aufull well I had a few but most show up . If they don't show up for you then they won't show for others . Why o why do they come on here if their not going to meet people . "
too true, some just get a kick out of doing it, well I don't give them a 2nd chance, I just block them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was supposed to collect longitude tickets today but the lad was a no show either, I know no the same kind of let down but he was still a no show

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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow

I think we need a new type of verification system. No shows and fakes are rife.

We are all getting annoyed with time wasters and the like.

Something needs to be done about it. Anyone have any suggestions?

A verification method that cannot be abused, that shows no shows and time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nice and there guys like myself can't even get a meet which I would turn up for but doesn't get a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the season for it. Ive had a few "arranged meets" and like that were either no shows or just never messeged me back. Bad form as it only takes one messege to say if someone changed their minds

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Cheshire / Manchester border


"I think we need a new type of verification system. No shows and fakes are rife.

We are all getting annoyed with time wasters and the like.

Something needs to be done about it. Anyone have any suggestions?

A verification method that cannot be abused, that shows no shows and time wasters. "

There already is exactly that. Go into the menu - "Report User" - and one of the options is "arranged a meet but didn't turn up".

Note - there is a (BIG) difference between a user who cancels with a late excuse and someone who simply doesn't show up at a meet as arranged without any communication.

I've had plenty of both over the years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is terrible but it is always going to happen and half the time I just don't believe someone will show and the thing is too good to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think almost everyone have had no show up.

Worst is if you travel and book hotel what was planned share the cost of it...

Might go to Dublin next weekend.. Im actually scared make plans while knowing how many cancels last minute or just not show up.. and even ones who says oh trust me I wouldn't do it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Note - there is a (BIG) difference between a user who cancels with a late excuse and someone who simply doesn't show up at a meet as arranged without any communication.

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True, I had to cancel a coffee meet due to migraine last weekend, these things do genuinely happen.

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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow


"I think we need a new type of verification system. No shows and fakes are rife.

We are all getting annoyed with time wasters and the like.

Something needs to be done about it. Anyone have any suggestions?

A verification method that cannot be abused, that shows no shows and time wasters.

There already is exactly that. Go into the menu - "Report User" - and one of the options is "arranged a meet but didn't turn up".

Note - there is a (BIG) difference between a user who cancels with a late excuse and someone who simply doesn't show up at a meet as arranged without any communication.

I've had plenty of both over the years... "

Thanks I don't realise that!

I know there is a big difference and there lies the the problem, where misuse can come in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got a message right up to a few hours before we were meant to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it deter you.

The right ones haven't come along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No show is better than one of the many sickos pretending to be a woman and when it comes to calling their bluff.. Silence lol sad gits aplenty in here

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By *aider190Man
over a year ago

swords

Will never understand people who don't show up... Just bad manners

I would never stand anyone up... It's just the height of disrespect

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I would love to know who puts in all the effort in getting to the stage of a meet and then not turn up and not reap the rewards of the effort . Seems crazy to me

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Think almost everyone have had no show up.

Worst is if you travel and book hotel what was planned share the cost of it...

Might go to Dublin next weekend.. Im actually scared make plans while knowing how many cancels last minute or just not show up.. and even ones who says oh trust me I wouldn't do it.. "

If you are up, would love to meet....

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