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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed that quite a few women have their age preferences set to no one older than 40. Each to their own and all but I'm just curious to see what some of you think about men in their 40s. Are they seen as past it? Likely to lack stamina? High chance of having a beer belly? What is it about being 40-plus that turns you off?

I do like women around my own age but sometimes I see a really nice profile for a woman who's a few years younger and then I see she won't go above 40 and I just think ahhhh! I'm not particularly bothered by it as I'm a confident enough fella, I'm just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 now, but I have never been attracted to men a lot older than me, irrespective of my own age at the time.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience...."

Stamina comes with practice u don't get up to three seconds with just a few rides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back

gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience...."

I am just past your age range. Just my luck

Xx

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience....

Stamina comes with practice u don't get up to three seconds with just a few rides "

You're a dream meet cj, no wasting time, quick and dirty and guaranteed no carpet burns. It's those little things that make all the difference.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience....

Stamina comes with practice u don't get up to three seconds with just a few rides

You're a dream meet cj, no wasting time, quick and dirty and guaranteed no carpet burns. It's those little things that make all the difference. "

See it's not just my charming personality that gets me bye on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm over forty and sure the lady's love me especially the ones with white stick's

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

Age is but a number.....

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm over forty and sure the lady's love me especially the ones with white stick's "

I'm as blind as a bat me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm over forty and sure the lady's love me especially the ones with white stick's

I'm as blind as a bat me "
lol so am i at this stage

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By *ozyjayMan
over a year ago

Sandyford


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience...."

I like to think us 40-somethings aren't passed it. Sex is a craft and takes time to master

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a preference, I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus it's a good way of cutting down the influx of messages.

However my research has shown that they don't lack stamina at all, au contraire, they're tougher than many younger lads plus are normally quite laid back gentlemen. They're not in a rush or don't seem to have the urge to prove anything. But that's just my experience....

I like to think us 40-somethings aren't passed it. Sex is a craft and takes time to master "

There are quite a few over 40s who are far from past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all down to chemistry and horniess at end of the day regardless of age or not

Its either there or its not

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By *imerickboyMan
over a year ago

city

Jesusim heading towards 50 and seem to be getting younger.... I got a brace to have the perfect smile and a sleeve tattoo..... and get more than ever before.... but I have gone from younger ladies to over 30's as they seem young to me lololol.....

I also only weigh 10 stone and have no beer belly

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

When did this happen?

Ollie

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

Theres life in this old dog yet let me tell ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo not me! I love an older man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys over 40 are my preference. Just find them more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel passed it... in fact I celebrated my 21 birthday recently

(For the 29th time )

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Can't wait to be older...

get me a similar aged woman and concuct wicked ways

to share my zimmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more secure, with an older guy, especially love fit guys, keep themselves well, articulate, and charming, more experience of life, and interesting too talk too.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Can't wait to be older...

get me a similar aged woman and concuct wicked ways

to share my zimmer "

You know they're called 'walking aids' these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Can't wait to be older...

get me a similar aged woman and concuct wicked ways

to share my zimmer

You know they're called 'walking aids' these days "

Actually called "walkers" but I intend to change all that...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it... "

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage... "

I'm open to offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step out of the man cave

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers "

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why majority display their fab age and not real age!

But wrinkles and mindset give it away guys.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"This is why majority display their fab age and not real age!

But wrinkles and mindset give it away guys."

Nothing wrong with wrinkles, I have a few myself and who cares if it's a fab age as long as the mindset is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy? "

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step out of the man cave "

But isn't that dangerous...i might get hunted down

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming... "

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them "

I grow my own

Strawberries with ice cream...chilled with ice....but why just eat them

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Step out of the man cave

But isn't that dangerous...i might get hunted down "

Just mind the three headed dragons in the ditch and you're fine.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them

I grow my own

Strawberries with ice cream...chilled with ice....but why just eat them "

Now this is getting very tempting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them

I grow my own

Strawberries with ice cream...chilled with ice....but why just eat them

Now this is getting very tempting! "

But I thought you didn't like new meat

Still if your vegetarian I'm sure we can find something to satisfy your hunger

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them

I grow my own

Strawberries with ice cream...chilled with ice....but why just eat them

Now this is getting very tempting!

But I thought you didn't like new meat

Still if your vegetarian I'm sure we can find something to satisfy your hunger "

I keep on observing while resting in my tower. The hunter never sleeps with both eyes closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them

I grow my own

Strawberries with ice cream...chilled with ice....but why just eat them

Now this is getting very tempting!

But I thought you didn't like new meat

Still if your vegetarian I'm sure we can find something to satisfy your hunger

I keep on observing while resting in my tower. The hunter never sleeps with both eyes closed.

"

Towers can always be toppled

And man in caves are most inventive....so just watching? ...a passive huntress?...one eye closed leaves such a big blind spot...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies folks, couldn't get back online yesterday but read through them all. One thing I'll say is that I find the older you get the more relaxed you are about things in general. Certainly the most enjoyable chats and meets I've had are people around my own age although not always.

Plus I definitely look after myself more these days. I don't overdo it on the drink (just not worth it anymore!), I eat well and keep as fit as I can. I think us 40-somethings also see sex more as something that's very rewarding to us in terms of our overall well being.

And I'm less impulsive and more patient, which is just as well when you're on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why majority display their fab age and not real age!

But wrinkles and mindset give it away guys.

Nothing wrong with wrinkles, I have a few myself and who cares if it's a fab age as long as the mindset is right. "

OP is talking about cut off age being 40.... people under 40 don't usually have significant wrinkles hence my saying the wrinkles give age away... I didn't say there was anything wrong with having wrinkles.

If people have said they don't want to meet those over 40, their choices should be respected. Surely its not too much to ask for an element of trust and wishes to be respect!

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Over 40 guy...sat quietly in the man cave...thought I might mention it...

Do you ever do anything else than hanging out in your man cave? Sure it must get boring at some stage...

I'm open to offers

Are women allowed in that cave and is it clean and tidy?

Am I being hunted

Clean tidy and warm ... i recently invented fire, hunt, and even cook and its very welcoming...

Berries, do you gather berries? I love them, especially strawberries. Mmmm sucking them down to the little sun shaped leave.....or licking some whipped cream of them "

They have to be Wexford Strawberries, only the best for Miss DH

X x x X

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