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Any bi fem want to be sub

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By *r tayt2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Trim

Lookin for a bi fem sub if any out there maybe get in touch nothing under 30 cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someone being sub has to be earned.. you wouldnt just trust any tom dick or harry to tie you up etc. Takes alot of trust

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By *waneyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

They need to be very much respected before they can be disrespected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submission is earned not just given

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By *onochromeMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Fet might be a better site for what you are looking for... As a matter of interest, why would she need to be bi ? Not quite sure I get what that would add to the dom/sub relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submission is earned not just given "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter.

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By *exual SinnerCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter."

I think you have made a lot of assumptions there, simply asking for sub personalities does not indicate anything other than a type, anything more would naturally be built upon by mutual trust, connection and communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter."

Could not agree more. Op learn what d/s is actually about before seeking a sub and if your anyway serious about looking and want something more than a girl who'll let you shag her anyway you want then you'll be rewarded when you meet the right one otherwise your just another dim dom thinking with his cock

Queen

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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago

City

Girls sub for random guys all the time. On here and the fetish sites you always see it.

I seen girls beaten black and blue on their first meeting with a guy. Seen girls cut on their first meeting. Some girls don't really give a shit about the guy, they just want someone to take control.

If its not for you then ok, if you think its dangerous and silly, well it probably is, but it happens enough that his question shouldn't annoy anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter.

I think you have made a lot of assumptions there, simply asking for sub personalities does not indicate anything other than a type, anything more would naturally be built upon by mutual trust, connection and communication."

No assumptions just facts. I've seen this on numerous occasions a person attends a gangbang and assumes that's the way a submissive woman SHOULD act for them. I simply advised the OP To do some research not be led by what he's seen briefly. Sorry if this has hit a nerve.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

I have to agree with all the above. You must treat your lady like a princess before you can even begin to treat her like a sub. The sub should always have control in an ironic way. He or she decides on the relationship once there is mutual respect (and usually is the one who searches for the right dom), allows the limits to be set, agrees when to stop and when to continue. The true dom must always respect the sub and their wishes. If a sub enters into a relationship with a dom because of wanting to please the dom or under the doms pressure then you can only but fear for the sub imho. Fran

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By *exual SinnerCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls sub for random guys all the time. On here and the fetish sites you always see it.

I seen girls beaten black and blue on their first meeting with a guy. Seen girls cut on their first meeting. Some girls don't really give a shit about the guy, they just want someone to take control.

If its not for you then ok, if you think its dangerous and silly, well it probably is, but it happens enough that his question shouldn't annoy anyone."

I'm really liking your posts

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By *exual SinnerCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have to agree with all the above. You must treat your lady like a princess before you can even begin to treat her like a sub. The sub should always have control in an ironic way. He or she decides on the relationship once there is mutual respect (and usually is the one who searches for the right dom), allows the limits to be set, agrees when to stop and when to continue. The true dom must always respect the sub and their wishes. If a sub enters into a relationship with a dom because of wanting to please the dom or under the doms pressure then you can only but fear for the sub imho. Fran"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submission is earned not just given "

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By *r tayt2 OP   Man
over a year ago

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I never said I was expecting anything less I just asked a simple question

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Awe feck....theres rules to this too...

I thought it was supposed to be fun....

It's getting to be as much fun as golf....

Ollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone. "

The op asked specifically for a bi fem SUB not a bi female. Yes I've spoken to the op. And with 30 years experience in the BDSM world and living as a 24/7 submissive I know what I'm talking about the op does not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never said I was expecting anything less I just asked a simple question "

And you've just proved my point. Asking for a SUB Is more than a simple question it's very complex. Maybe a different angle would help you in your quest.

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over a year ago

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By *r tayt2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Trim

Well hi there you made asumptions about profile that had nothing to do with me sorry if it offends u I said nothing offensive I asked a question and there is enough pain in life without beating people up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well hi there you made asumptions about profile that had nothing to do with me sorry if it offends u I said nothing offensive I asked a question and there is enough pain in life without beating people up "

It's not offensive what you said at all its the fact that people look for subs thinking the can just use them. I'm not beating anyone up. I apologise if that's the way you view it. Although that statement is quiet ironic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think being dominant is all about YOUR pleasure.

I assure you

You are doing it wrong.

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By *exual SinnerCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Reading through this I feel there is something I am missing. There are many females that describe themselves as submissive bi females. What is wrong in looking to make contact with them. If they meet and there is no connection then nothing comes of it. And if they do well then happy days.

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