FabSwingers.com forum: Male Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabbers.

Quick question. Do single males not like getting/giving meet verification's? As in meeting a male at a social and chatting. It is something I have noticed and would like some opinions on.

F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi."

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable."

Absolutely.

In my mind a veri is just to say you turn up and look as you describe. Men can say that as easily as women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Absolutely.

In my mind a veri is just to say you turn up and look as you describe. Men can say that as easily as women"

Funny enough, women don't mind being veri'd by women - and men like seeing that

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

It can send out mixed signals for those that 'assume'. Some have the guilty until proven innocent type mentality. Not that being bi or gay is a crime but I think you get what I mean.

I've a few guy verifications, they're party hosts or guys I met at parties. I don't have a problem with them as such but I'm always aware of those incorrect 'assumers' out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Absolutely.

In my mind a veri is just to say you turn up and look as you describe. Men can say that as easily as women"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Absolutely.

In my mind a veri is just to say you turn up and look as you describe. Men can say that as easily as women

Funny enough, women don't mind being veri'd by women - and men like seeing that

As _ilder pointed out above, some could assume more than was intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It can send out mixed signals for those that 'assume'. Some have the guilty until proven innocent type mentality. Not that being bi or gay is a crime but I think you get what I mean.

I've a few guy verifications, they're party hosts or guys I met at parties. I don't have a problem with them as such but I'm always aware of those incorrect 'assumers' out there."

Fup the begrudges.....and the assumers

Thanks Wilder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can send out mixed signals for those that 'assume'. Some have the guilty until proven innocent type mentality. Not that being bi or gay is a crime but I think you get what I mean.

I've a few guy verifications, they're party hosts or guys I met at parties. I don't have a problem with them as such but I'm always aware of those incorrect 'assumers' out there."

I get what you're saying.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I have a few from meet and greets but i find i get more mail from males when i get a new one.

I wouldnt veri loads of people that i had met socially unless i knew them reasonably well or had met them a few times

Would be afraid they might turn out to be an asshole and there was me giving them a veri.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

"Hi fabbers.

Quick question. Do single males not like getting/giving meet verification's? As in meeting a male at a social and chatting. It is something I have noticed and would like some opinions on.

F x"

I met a woman here a few days ago and we had a great time together and even though we're both verified we still exchanged veris after it..It's just to show that the people met each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers.

Quick question. Do single males not like getting/giving meet verification's? As in meeting a male at a social and chatting. It is something I have noticed and would like some opinions on.

F x

I met a woman here a few days ago and we had a great time together and even though we're both verified we still exchanged veris after it..It's just to show that the people met each other xx"

Thats your viewing numbers just shot up. Everyone off to see who you met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable."

Just out of curiousity, sorry for putting you on the spot. Would you accept a veri from me if we met at a social had a laugh over a beer, I promise I wont wear a dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Just out of curiousity, sorry for putting you on the spot. Would you accept a veri from me if we met at a social had a laugh over a beer, I promise I wont wear a dress

Yes, I would accept verifications from ALL people I would have spoken during a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Just out of curiousity, sorry for putting you on the spot. Would you accept a veri from me if we met at a social had a laugh over a beer, I promise I wont wear a dress

Yes I would.

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By *lassicpMan
over a year ago

Kerry

"It can send out mixed signals for those that 'assume'. Some have the guilty until proven innocent type mentality. Not that being bi or gay is a crime but I think you get what I mean.

I've a few guy verifications, they're party hosts or guys I met at parties. I don't have a problem with them as such but I'm always aware of those incorrect 'assumers' out there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Just out of curiousity, sorry for putting you on the spot. Would you accept a veri from me if we met at a social had a laugh over a beer, I promise I wont wear a dress

Yes, I would accept verifications from ALL people I would have spoken during a social. "

I believe you would, fair play for coming in on this post, I can also appreciate some peoples reluctance or refusal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought the opposite, they like them.

Tho maybe they don't want/give to other men in case the are thought of as gay/bi.

Yes I was thinking that also but if that is the case they need to grow up. Being able to go to a social and chat to everyone there is important. And a verification to show that should be valuable.

Just out of curiousity, sorry for putting you on the spot. Would you accept a veri from me if we met at a social had a laugh over a beer, I promise I wont wear a dress

Yes, I would accept verifications from ALL people I would have spoken during a social.

I believe you would, fair play for coming in on this post, I can also appreciate some peoples reluctance or refusal..

We are all humans and I don't understand why people would discriminate against others and wouldn't accept verification from a social meet based on sexual preference or whatever other reason. It sounds very much retarded. We have XXI century for almost 2 decades now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers.

Quick question. Do single males not like getting/giving meet verification's? As in meeting a male at a social and chatting. It is something I have noticed and would like some opinions on.

F x"

You could start the veri like " now I'm not gay or into men but" or "I'd just like to verify the STRAIGHEST man I've ever met"

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers.

Quick question. Do single males not like getting/giving meet verification's? As in meeting a male at a social and chatting. It is something I have noticed and would like some opinions on.

F x"

,, iv no problems with veries ether way

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By *lassicpMan
over a year ago

Kerry

"It can send out mixed signals for those that 'assume'. Some have the guilty until proven innocent type mentality. Not that being bi or gay is a crime but I think you get what I mean.

I've a few guy verifications, they're party hosts or guys I met at parties. I don't have a problem with them as such but I'm always aware of those incorrect 'assumers' out there."

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By *elticfire555Man
over a year ago

Westmeath

"Yes I would."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard to get to meet or talk to people if your not verified how do you get over this

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

There are many couples/females who accuse men with verification from other men or tv/ts as dishonest closeted gay/bi.

That plus the scare-mongering (eg : we are not meeting guys with verification from or friends with other men/tv/ts).

Search the forum in the lounge and swingers room and you'll see why many men dont want to verify or get verified by other guys.

Pity.

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