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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chick on each side perhaps...

Yeah can hear the howls of protest already...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New name, old game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

"

What about side guys? I think for the ratio of men to women, the more appropriate question would be do women have side men? How many?

Happy to be considered as a side guy, someone who a girl can rely on for some fun, _o hassles, a good chat when needed to get her in the mood and a good reliable fun time, be it 15 minutes or hours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

What about side guys? I think for the ratio of men to women, the more appropriate question would be do women have side men? How many?

Happy to be considered as a side guy, someone who a girl can rely on for some fun, _o hassles, a good chat when needed to get her in the mood and a good reliable fun time, be it 15 minutes or hours!"

You're right, side guys. I do have different guys for different things. Hmmmm, must go think on this a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a side chick ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

What about side guys? I think for the ratio of men to women, the more appropriate question would be do women have side men? How many?

Happy to be considered as a side guy, someone who a girl can rely on for some fun, _o hassles, a good chat when needed to get her in the mood and a good reliable fun time, be it 15 minutes or hours!

You're right, side guys. I do have different guys for different things. Hmmmm, must go think on this a bit more. "

I find I like to have one side chick for D/s play and then another for just normal run of the mill hot sex

Plus I find people come and go for various reasons (maybe it is just me lol) so side people are a must because people go, come back, go, come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a side chick ? "
I think its a chicken you cooked yesterday but don't eat until next day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a side chick ? "

Not the wife.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"What's a side chick ? "

Had to look it up too

Wikipedia says

A mistress; a woman one dates in addition to one's girlfriend or wife, usually in secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh

I would imagine it's a hard position to fill if the main chicken is unaware.

I'm all for side cockerels once all parties involved are in the picture.

Chicken mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

What about side guys? I think for the ratio of men to women, the more appropriate question would be do women have side men? How many?

Happy to be considered as a side guy, someone who a girl can rely on for some fun, _o hassles, a good chat when needed to get her in the mood and a good reliable fun time, be it 15 minutes or hours!

You're right, side guys. I do have different guys for different things. Hmmmm, must go think on this a bit more.

I find I like to have one side chick for D/s play and then another for just normal run of the mill hot sex

Plus I find people come and go for various reasons (maybe it is just me lol) so side people are a must because people go, come back, go, come back

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Do you have one main girl though? A wife or serious girlfriend? A number 1?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thoughts on side chicks?

Thoughts from side chicks?

Thoughts if you have a side chick?

What about side guys? I think for the ratio of men to women, the more appropriate question would be do women have side men? How many?

Happy to be considered as a side guy, someone who a girl can rely on for some fun, _o hassles, a good chat when needed to get her in the mood and a good reliable fun time, be it 15 minutes or hours!

You're right, side guys. I do have different guys for different things. Hmmmm, must go think on this a bit more.

I find I like to have one side chick for D/s play and then another for just normal run of the mill hot sex

Plus I find people come and go for various reasons (maybe it is just me lol) so side people are a must because people go, come back, go, come back

Do you have one main girl though? A wife or serious girlfriend? A number 1?"

Yes I do have a main girl and happy to be judged by all and sundry (been there before and love the difference between how men and women are judged for it lol)

I am what I am and life is full of contradictions!

With busy lives I find side chicks the perfect way to go (and make sure they know that is what they are and vice Versa)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think your number one has side guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think your number one has side guys?"

I wish but she is quite religious and that would be considered a sin hehe but i pray in hope she would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think your number one has side guys?

I wish but she is quite religious and that would be considered a sin hehe but i pray in hope she would lol"

Religious? I doubt it if she's willing to help someone to commit adultery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe she is a la carte Catholic. I'm all for forgiveness these days.

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

Have had "side chicks" for years and currently have one 14 years older than me . Mutual understanding that works well when open and honest. Is actually a marriage saver if properly "used"

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Maybe it's just me but despite the sexual link I'd regard it as a vanilla thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me but despite the sexual link I'd regard it as a vanilla thing"

Very vanilla and been done since the beginning of time. It is what you do with the side person that can be far from vanilla

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun. "

I imagine some of them are.

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"Maybe it's just me but despite the sexual link I'd regard it as a vanilla thing"

If by above you mean park and ride in my experience it's def not.

Tends to be more adventurous and erotic due to lack of inhibitions

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun. "

Because they are side chicks and not swingers. They hope/wait to become number one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun.

Because they are side chicks and not swingers. They hope/wait to become number one. "

I used to think that too, that they were only waiting around to see if they would become number one. Now I'm not so sure, I think perhaps I've been too closed minded on this or I was confusing it with some sort of monogamy related issues. I'd love to hear from some side chicks and get their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun.

Because they are side chicks and not swingers. They hope/wait to become number one. "

I've had/been/have side ones of these (whats the word for male chicks?) but never wanted to be number one.

The washing of socks and cooking of meals can be done by someone else

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Depends on the people in question I think. Some side chicks do lay in wait to be called up to number one. Some are happy with the arrangement of being a bit on the side. Some have their own number one and just like the extra attention.

Different strokes for different folks. Like everything else in life.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun.

Because they are side chicks and not swingers. They hope/wait to become number one.

I used to think that too, that they were only waiting around to see if they would become number one. Now I'm not so sure, I think perhaps I've been too closed minded on this or I was confusing it with some sort of monogamy related issues. I'd love to hear from some side chicks and get their opinion."

Of course it's a generalisation but I doubt that you find many on here. For me an affair is a form of relationship and involves emotions.

Maybe you're thinking more of a fb/fwb arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

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That's exactly right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

"

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun.

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right"

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun."

Nobody gets upset till partner who is being cheated finds out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun.

Nobody gets upset till partner who is being cheated finds out "

Maybe you can't get mad at a 'side chick' because it's a cute little name Helle?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun.

Nobody gets upset till partner who is being cheated finds out

Maybe you can't get mad at a 'side chick' because it's a cute little name Helle?"

I'm sure number one would call side chick(s) different names when found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my side "cock" but it's a public affair

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun.

Nobody gets upset till partner who is being cheated finds out

Maybe you can't get mad at a 'side chick' because it's a cute little name Helle?

I'm sure number one would call side chick(s) different names when found out. "

That's if you are indiscreet and not careful with side chicks identity! I think the names and blame should be kept squarely on me :P

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

Yeah but it's a funky new name so nobody gets upset, it's all good fun.

Nobody gets upset till partner who is being cheated finds out

Maybe you can't get mad at a 'side chick' because it's a cute little name Helle?

I'm sure number one would call side chick(s) different names when found out.

That's if you are indiscreet and not careful with side chicks identity! I think the names and blame should be kept squarely on me :P

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I agree but that's theory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also a reflection on society that men are celebrated for having many women and women cop flack over it! Such double standards

Though it is nice attached women on here are celebrated and sought after small victories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being someone's side chick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion "

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since we're always hearing how incredibly difficult it is to get a meet here you wonder why all these 'single' guys and their 'side chicks' aren't coupled up on here and having fun.

Because they are side chicks and not swingers. They hope/wait to become number one. "
But if they became no 1 would they bot be worried they would be kicked aside when another hot chick comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King"

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"I don't mind being someone's side chick. "

How far from Armagh to Carlow ..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind being someone's side chick.

How far from Armagh to Carlow ..??"

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone here is here for their own reasons and want's. What difference does a title make if those involved go into it with their eyes open. Yes, I am aware that someone in the mix is unaware and that isn't very open but people's reasons and situations vary so each to their own. In an ideal world all would be aware but we don't live in an ideal world. If person that is looking for extra in their life is upfront about reason then that's their situation to deal with. I imagine it can get messy if feelings develope but it can also enhance in other ways. This is not my situation before anyone jumps on it. I just think if it's not for you move on with out judging it. If it is for you good luck with making it work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple."

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"I don't mind being someone's side chick.

How far from Armagh to Carlow ..??

Very "

Lol...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King "

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here "

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough King but I would gauranteee you've had cheaters at your parties unknowingly no matter how much you try to them out. Be they male or female or a couple

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"Fair enough King but I would gauranteee you've had cheaters at your parties unknowingly no matter how much you try to them out. Be they male or female or a couple"

I was here for years part of a couple and both married to others... we had multiple meets and never disclosed we were not married to each other. I know of a few here in same situation and they also keep that to themselves.

A popular saying here is "it's not Facebook " ... it's a swing site but also could be classed a sex site so the "cheating" will always be here

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King"

One doesn't exclude the other as far as I'm concerned. It's fair enough when you say you wouldn't meet anyone who plays behind their partner's back and anyone who does should respect your preference and stay away. However eventually it's not of your business what they're doing and certainly not down to you to say who should be on this site or not or who's a 'real' swinger and who's a 'cheater'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King

One doesn't exclude the other as far as I'm concerned. It's fair enough when you say you wouldn't meet anyone who plays behind their partner's back and anyone who does should respect your preference and stay away. However eventually it's not of your business what they're doing and certainly not down to you to say who should be on this site or not or who's a 'real' swinger and who's a 'cheater'. "

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By *onniebumWoman
over a year ago

Tell ya later

It is full of cheaters here...im not judging, Im cheating myself...but Im honest here about the fact i have a husband. I've caught out 2 men who claim to be separated for a few years, when they are nothing of the sort! Why not just say there is a mrs at home?? What difference would it make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is full of cheaters here...im not judging, Im cheating myself...but Im honest here about the fact i have a husband. I've caught out 2 men who claim to be separated for a few years, when they are nothing of the sort! Why not just say there is a mrs at home?? What difference would it make? "
They might be scared of all the kings men. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King

One doesn't exclude the other as far as I'm concerned. It's fair enough when you say you wouldn't meet anyone who plays behind their partner's back and anyone who does should respect your preference and stay away. However eventually it's not of your business what they're doing and certainly not down to you to say who should be on this site or not or who's a 'real' swinger and who's a 'cheater'. "

Fair point but as I've said its my opinion just as what you said is yours. Yes I'm against married people using the site to unknowingly cheat behind their partners backs and yes I could be called a number of things for this opinion but that's just it. Its an opinion I'm allowed said opinion just as any other person is allowed one and as long as I respect other peoples opinions and not try batter them over the head with mine (which I don't think I have) I'm allowed to express said opinion.

King

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King

One doesn't exclude the other as far as I'm concerned. It's fair enough when you say you wouldn't meet anyone who plays behind their partner's back and anyone who does should respect your preference and stay away. However eventually it's not of your business what they're doing and certainly not down to you to say who should be on this site or not or who's a 'real' swinger and who's a 'cheater'.

Fair point but as I've said its my opinion just as what you said is yours. Yes I'm against married people using the site to unknowingly cheat behind their partners backs and yes I could be called a number of things for this opinion but that's just it. Its an opinion I'm allowed said opinion just as any other person is allowed one and as long as I respect other peoples opinions and not try batter them over the head with mine (which I don't think I have) I'm allowed to express said opinion.

King"

You're certainly entitled to your opinion and nothing wrong with expressing it. As I said your preference should be respected. What got me going is your exclusion of people from the world of swinging.

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over a year ago


"So basically side person is person with who you cheat your partner with who you are in relationship?!?

That's exactly right

A side person is alot better way to describe it as you would be surprised with the amount of ladies here with side cocks and more power to them in my opinion

Come back to me when your a side cock and get your life ruined by a married woman. Married women or men shouldn't be on here without their other halves knowledge. Sound judgemental of me but I don't care.

King

King

That's your opinion and respect that

But I've spoken to many a couple whose other half played without their permission.

I think people on here should just be upfront about situations and then people make their choice.

I wonder how many of the couple population in here are two attached people posing as a couple.

I apologise as it will appear im nitpicking but could you please explain what that had to do with what I said?

King

Don't apologise opinions are great.

You said you didn't think anyone attached without their partners knowledge should be on here. I was just pointing out a different opinion and worry you'd lose half of all couples on here if you did that given the amount of people married to others are couples on here

To be fair my partner or myself would never play with people playing away as it were. I have in the past hence my feelings on the subject. Definitely wouldn't allow them to our parties either. The site is called fabswingers not fabcheaters after all

King

One doesn't exclude the other as far as I'm concerned. It's fair enough when you say you wouldn't meet anyone who plays behind their partner's back and anyone who does should respect your preference and stay away. However eventually it's not of your business what they're doing and certainly not down to you to say who should be on this site or not or who's a 'real' swinger and who's a 'cheater'.

Fair point but as I've said its my opinion just as what you said is yours. Yes I'm against married people using the site to unknowingly cheat behind their partners backs and yes I could be called a number of things for this opinion but that's just it. Its an opinion I'm allowed said opinion just as any other person is allowed one and as long as I respect other peoples opinions and not try batter them over the head with mine (which I don't think I have) I'm allowed to express said opinion.

King

You're certainly entitled to your opinion and nothing wrong with expressing it. As I said your preference should be respected. What got me going is your exclusion of people from the world of swinging. "

Which I shall not take back due to personal experience. I wont argue over it with other as I believe people are entitled to do and think as they please. Maybe its a touchy subject for me but its the way I feel about people cheating on their partners with their knowledge.

I will say swinging and cheating are two different things and not alike at all but that's debateable on many levels which I have neither the time or thread space to debate

King

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By *hipchippersonMan
over a year ago

dublin

Everyone needs a side piece

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By *bout usCouple
over a year ago

dungannon


"It is full of cheaters here...im not judging, Im cheating myself...but Im honest here about the fact i have a husband. I've caught out 2 men who claim to be separated for a few years, when they are nothing of the sort! Why not just say there is a mrs at home?? What difference would it make? "

Well spoke that lady

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