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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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I meet a lovely lady saturday night ,after texting for weeks (meet on another site) there seemed to be a great conection and a meet was arranged,both of us enjoyed pub grub at the hotel bar then down the town for a few drinks to settle any nerves, atractive intelligent lady what could go wrong ? Back to the hotelroom things became intimate,i wanted to give this lady a good impression of me so in my head i though id put in some good quality time with forplay,while i was giving oral i could see she was really enjoy herself but befor i knew it she had cum,she wanted to spoon after that which i thought ok maybe this will get better in the morning ,woke up she ask for more of what she enjoyed the night befor which i did, fuck me she came again jumped out of the bed into the shower after that we said our good byes and went are own ways ,now this morning im getting texts saying how good saturday night was and when will we meet again,im just bewildered over the whole think where does she see this going if im getting nothing in return??i guess rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a question better put to the individual in question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her my way, I love Pillow Princesses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely a question better put to the individual in question?"

Nice to see a woman turning the tables on a guy for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of most ladies here who meet with the hope of getting some pleasure but mostly end up feeling used and unsatisfied . Suck it up buttercup ! Men expect women to take it on the chin so ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely a question better put to the individual in question?

Nice to see a woman turning the tables on a guy for once

I'm sure both are capable of being selfish, but we don't know what went on between them, perhaps the OP was one of those guys who went on for hours about how much he loved giving oral...

Anyway OP, perhaps a bit of feedback would be in order if you like the woman in question, meeting her again is entirely up to you, but without letting her know your feelings, how will she know you were anything but satisfied?

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Surely a question better put to the individual in question?

Nice to see a woman turning the tables on a guy for once

I'm sure both are capable of being selfish, but we don't know what went on between them, perhaps the OP was one of those guys who went on for hours about how much he loved giving oral...

I guess im hear only venting. no im not the boastful type that goes on for hours how i can please a lady and you are right i will have to put it to here befor we meet again maybe i do need to suck it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And again, if she's not for you - please do send her my way... ;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely a question better put to the individual in question?

Nice to see a woman turning the tables on a guy for once

I'm sure both are capable of being selfish, but we don't know what went on between them, perhaps the OP was one of those guys who went on for hours about how much he loved giving oral...

Nobody is a mindreader after all.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sorry OP... But I have to admit this has made me giggle, quite a role reversal!! If you're genuinely interested in meeting her again though I'd suggest talking to her about this issue, as otherwise you may end up with more of the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For everything else there's MasterCard....sorry but I think it's funny.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take.

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

"I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take. "

I except the challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take. "

Oh ginger i like your way of thinking

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

near you

"I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take. "

As you can see from the post i have no problem in the giving part

and i find it a huge turn on knowing that you have just made a lady climax either by oral or penetration it was the fact i was just left with cock in hand so to speak that shocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had this lots with guys..

they cum and it's game over.

Sorry to hear it's happened to you OP but it seems to be a common occurrence from my experience with lads.

I've been recently advised by a male friend to put a rule in.. That I get them to make me cum first..I'm going to stipulate that from now on.

It's only fair to give and take.

As you can see from the post i have no problem in the giving part

and i find it a huge turn on knowing that you have just made a lady climax either by oral or penetration it was the fact i was just left with cock in hand so to speak that shocked me "

Follow her to the shower

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

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"Surely a question better put to the individual in question?

Nice to see a woman turning the tables on a guy for once

I'm sure both are capable of being selfish, but we don't know what went on between them, perhaps the OP was one of those guys who went on for hours about how much he loved giving oral...

Nobody is a mindreader after all.

You don't really have to be a mind reader for that one. Nobody likes to go home unsatisfied. But in general I agree you have to make yourself heard if you don't want to be left out.

And yes it's funny in the sense that it is the reversal scenario. A good guess is that this has happened many woman on here at some stage including myself. I find this kind of selfishness mind boggling and when it's happening it's very very frustrating. But I've learned to claim my fair share...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would be stupid as to leave you unsatisfied DH? What a silly lad - no chance of a repeat then, and you'd be one who I'd want a repeat with, I'm sure!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

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"Who would be stupid as to leave you unsatisfied DH? What a silly lad - no chance of a repeat then, and you'd be one who I'd want a repeat with, I'm sure!

You'd be surprised how many men are just in it for themselves or simply don't care and apply their standard routine of one fits all. But I've learned to read the tell tell signs to avoid them, I've learned to speak up for myself, I've learned to communicate what I want and in process became a bit more selfish myself.

Op, I recommend to put it behind you, learn from it but don't go back.

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Who would be stupid as to leave you unsatisfied DH? What a silly lad - no chance of a repeat then, and you'd be one who I'd want a repeat with, I'm sure!

Op, I recommend to put it behind you, learn from it but don't go back. "

Fairplay and thanks for the advice your the first person that has came out and said not to repeat meet

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Same thing has happened me.

She spent 4 hrs having orgasms to the point she couldnt walk.

I never even got me kit off. To this day she never saw me naked.

She was mad to play again but i talked to her about how frustrated i was about it and that it didnt work for me. But its not always going to work and thats life.

The trick is finding someone you are compatible with. I'm very happy to heap the attention on the lady but even a little back would be ideal.

Always make sure the lady cums before you. Ideally several times if she can get there, but most girls i find are happy to give and receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people have a story like this i think .. its easy to play the men vs women and vice versa game here. Personally i think its nothing got to do with that .. its just an individual thing. Sometimes it happens .. man or woman.

Have a chat with her .. bring it up lightly maybe .. crack a joke or something.. youll be the best judge of that. honesty and a direct approach is always a winner .. and it doesnt have to be awkward. Its easy to see these moments as head scratcher stuff but we don't know what position people are coming from. Maybe she had a crazy week .. maybe its the first time in a long time shes had pleasure like that, maybe that's the way it is every time .. who knows only her. Don't project and ask her .. usually more to these type of situations than we think.

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Same thing has happened me.

She spent 4 hrs having orgasms to the point she couldnt walk.

I never even got me kit off. To this day she never saw me naked.

She was mad to play again but i talked to her about how frustrated i was about it and that it didnt work for me. But its not always going to work and thats life.

The trick is finding someone you are compatible with. I'm very happy to heap the attention on the lady but even a little back would be ideal.

Always make sure the lady cums before you. Ideally several times if she can get there, but most girls i find are happy to give and receive. "

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Most people have a story like this i think .. its easy to play the men vs women and vice versa game here. Personally i think its nothing got to do with that .. its just an individual thing. Sometimes it happens .. man or woman.

Thats a fair point and i never though to look at it from her point of veiw (crazy week / first time in longtime)

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I would feel really bad to walk out on a play partner I truly enjoyed and don't give any pleasure back. Sure is that not what it's all about? Getting pleasure by giving and receiving pleasure. Call me harsh but I can't imagine an acceptable excuse for not doing so, it's simply selfish behaviour.

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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Im telling you i was gutted alright after putting in all that work not just on the night but the weeks befor hand sure we live we learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where your coming from.. personally the giving part is my favourite. I would be a bit mortified if i thought i did it so im with you on that. Could it be construde as selfish? Yes maybe.. could there be legitimate reasons im not aware of ? .. absolutely. Spade a spade here.. i dont get to demand that no matter how many orgasms occur .. she might change her mind half way through because shes embarresed at how much shes let herself go (hypothetical here

) .. again .. who knows. I just find people are more complex than the basic conclusions I can draw at times thats all.

On a side note .. having a hard on for a whole night and not being able to sleep because of it .. true nightmare right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

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"It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP."

Fair point

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By *erryishereMan
over a year ago

all over

My kind of lady !!

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over a year ago

"It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP."

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over a year ago

"It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same thing has happened me.

She spent 4 hrs having orgasms to the point she couldnt walk.

I never even got me kit off. To this day she never saw me naked.

She was mad to play again but i talked to her about how frustrated i was about it and that it didnt work for me. But its not always going to work and thats life.

The trick is finding someone you are compatible with. I'm very happy to heap the attention on the lady but even a little back would be ideal.

Always make sure the lady cums before you. Ideally several times if she can get there, but most girls i find are happy to give and receive. "

Some cracking advise there handsome

All about finding that compatibility with someone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said the connection was great so maybe meet again, but hold back a bit and let her initiate anything..she might just be unsure of herself or what would turn you on, so text her some sexy scenarios to give her an idea of what you would like to happen next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the world of most ladies here who meet with the hope of getting some pleasure but mostly end up feeling used and unsatisfied . Suck it up buttercup ! Men expect women to take it on the chin so .... "

Bet u wish u hadnt asked haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every meet is different and you should never go with a script or an expectation.....if the chemistry is right the right things will happen....sometimes one person "technically" has more pleasure...if you're counting orgasms.....but it can sometimes be just as pleasurable to give as it is to receive.....

When the right connections are made....you get lost in the passion!!

......and who needs to count then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet a lovely lady saturday night ,after texting for weeks (meet on another site) there seemed to be a great conection and a meet was arranged,both of us enjoyed pub grub at the hotel bar then down the town for a few drinks to settle any nerves, atractive intelligent lady what could go wrong ? Back to the hotelroom things became intimate,i wanted to give this lady a good impression of me so in my head i though id put in some good quality time with forplay,while i was giving oral i could see she was really enjoy herself but befor i knew it she had cum,she wanted to spoon after that which i thought ok maybe this will get better in the morning ,woke up she ask for more of what she enjoyed the night befor which i did, fuck me she came again jumped out of the bed into the shower after that we said our good byes and went are own ways ,now this morning im getting texts saying how good saturday night was and when will we meet again,im just bewildered over the whole think where does she see this going if im getting nothing in return??i guess rant over

How many men over the ages have treated women in a similar manner.shoes on the other foot

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Am I missing something here? Part of the fun in having great sex with someone is to tease them to the point that they are begging you to fuck them. OP you definitely need to go back a third time but on your terms.

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP.

It was never my intention to slag off anyone and thats not why i started this forum i have respected all comments made here and i apologise if it has come across in your opinion to be (slagging her off )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this scenario happens all the time to women , simply because men NEVER factor in not getting to cum on a meet , whereas women will automatically assume that a meet will most likely result in nil orgasm for them , and most of the time the man neither cares nor enquires as long as he gets what HE wants . Fellas , if your wondering why women who apparently enjoyed you are not interested in a repeat meet ...now you know why

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I meet a lady friend who cums that way . I licky her clit and she explodes . After that she just wants to cuddle. I enjoy her company and that all there is to it . But she will give me BJS etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very easy to slag off a third party who's not here to give their side, the only person who can give you the answers is the woman is question OP.

I wasn't aiming it at anyone in particular, it was simply an observation, and I certainly don't require any apology since it's not about me. My last comment still stands. Only you can decide whether you want to meet her again,and in the event that you do, it would be foolish to expect a different outcome if you haven't communicated your dissatisfaction in a tactful manner.

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"You said the connection was great so maybe meet again, but hold back a bit and let her initiate anything..she might just be unsure of herself or what would turn you on, so text her some sexy scenarios to give her an idea of what you would like to happen next time. "

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By (user no longer on site)
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"this scenario happens all the time to women , simply because men NEVER factor in not getting to cum on a meet , whereas women will automatically assume that a meet will most likely result in nil orgasm for them , and most of the time the man neither cares nor enquires as long as he gets what HE wants . Fellas , if your wondering why women who apparently enjoyed you are not interested in a repeat meet ...now you know why

But making a woman cum is the most sexiest thing ever! Especially knowing she came because of you, because she is with you and you could turn her on enough to do so

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

So true

Obviously not all men here are the same though and some are very interested in their partners pleasure. Just like some women are equally as selfish. Communication is key in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not have asked to join her in the shower?

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Would you not have asked to join her in the shower?

With the speed she left for the shower i new there was'nt an invitation to join her plus i didnt feel like i should be running around at this point chasing her for my pleasure i had put the time and effort into pleasing her it was mutual respect i was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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i agree!! Xx eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of question!!!

Why no veri from her to you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not have asked to join her in the shower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not have asked to join her in the shower?

Do you think it's possible she just didn't want to fuck you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's possible she had no intention of letting the guy fuck her . After all there's plenty of men who meet women get a blow job and assume it's ok to leave cos they have already cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I bet the majority of fellas never consider the mutual respect bit either !

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Bit of question!!!

Why no veri from her to you!!!

As i said i didnt meet her on this site and if she was on this site there is no way in hell i would of posted this in forums could you imagine how she would feel reading all this i do have respect for peoples feelings

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By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

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"Would you not have asked to join her in the shower?

Do you think it's possible she just didn't want to fuck you ? "

Ya i do, but it didnt stop her sending naughty texts again on the monday morning

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