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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert

I know and have met some people with latex allergies so this could be it.

Fortunately there are latex free condoms out there put normally have to go to a chemist and ask for them. They are more expensive too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue balls is a temporary condition and relieved quite easily..

The possible alternative may not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coil not going to protect either persons from dirty little nasties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skyn latex free condoms are not much more expensive and much better than latex. More feeling and no nasty smell from them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???"

Ok im allergic to latex and have the coil too but that certainly doesnt mean i play without condoms. I just make sure i have latex free its just common sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coil not going to protect either persons from dirty little nasties "

@ dirty little nasties

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

Ok im allergic to latex and have the coil too but that certainly doesnt mean i play without condoms. I just make sure i have latex free its just common sense "

Me too....plus I always lube over the condom which takes away the film of dryness too .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, the latex free is the safest alternative. I could be wrong here, but if I'm on a promise and rock up with an impulse buy from the petrol station on the way over, if the other half of the duo is allergic, surely they should have the alternative at hand... one may be good but he certainly isn't a mind reader and can't tell if someone has an allergy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, the latex free is the safest alternative. I could be wrong here, but if I'm on a promise and rock up with an impulse buy from the petrol station on the way over, if the other half of the duo is allergic, surely they should have the alternative at hand... one may be good but he certainly isn't a mind reader and can't tell if someone has an allergy!!!"

If someone is 'on a promise' - couldn't they ask beforehand or bring both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should pack, even the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???"

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should pack, even the woman. "

I carry them - not the latex free ones tho. I know I'm not allergic and figure if he is then he'll have them

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yeah, the latex free is the safest alternative. I could be wrong here, but if I'm on a promise and rock up with an impulse buy from the petrol station on the way over, if the other half of the duo is allergic, surely they should have the alternative at hand... one may be good but he certainly isn't a mind reader and can't tell if someone has an allergy!!!"

I always mention this to folk I may get intimate with and yep I have my own supply too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, the latex free is the safest alternative. I could be wrong here, but if I'm on a promise and rock up with an impulse buy from the petrol station on the way over, if the other half of the duo is allergic, surely they should have the alternative at hand... one may be good but he certainly isn't a mind reader and can't tell if someone has an allergy!!!

I always mention this to folk I may get intimate with and yep I have my own supply too "

I would have them too if I was allergc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would off doing a u-turn as well. It has to be safe sex and with the attitude 'I have a coil it's ok' how many times has that line been used and the lad said ok. Think if your safety and leg it is the only option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit. "

Guess how block lists your gonna be on

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Everyone should pack, even the woman.

I carry them - not the latex free ones tho. I know I'm not allergic and figure if he is then he'll have them"

Same here always have my own..

And would find it a bit disrespectful if the other person doesn't bring any either.. But it's something I would discuss with a meet prior to meeting anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should pack, even the woman.

I carry them - not the latex free ones tho. I know I'm not allergic and figure if he is then he'll have them

Same here always have my own..

And would find it a bit disrespectful if the other person doesn't bring any either.. But it's something I would discuss with a meet prior to meeting anyway.. "

I don't think I find it disrespectful if they turn up with none - I just think they are trying their luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

Guess how block lists your gonna be on "

Probably, but at least I'm honest about it rather than lying to appear all goodie two shoes in the hope that it earns me browny points for a shag; the amount of men who lie about their condom use out there is unreal - if you play, you should play safety (whatever that means to you and your partner/s) and STI screens should be a regular part of your routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

Guess how block lists your gonna be on

Probably, but at least I'm honest about it rather than lying to appear all goodie two shoes in the hope that it earns me browny points for a shag; the amount of men who lie about their condom use out there is unreal - if you play, you should play safety (whatever that means to you and your partner/s) and STI screens should be a regular part of your routine."

I agree plus it's surprising how many guys don't bring condoms to a meet...

Saying that the women are just as bad as the men.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

Guess how block lists your gonna be on

Probably, but at least I'm honest about it rather than lying to appear all goodie two shoes in the hope that it earns me browny points for a shag; the amount of men who lie about their condom use out there is unreal - if you play, you should play safety (whatever that means to you and your partner/s) and STI screens should be a regular part of your routine.

I agree plus it's surprising how many guys don't bring condoms to a meet...

Saying that the women are just as bad as the men.

"

That's hardly a fair statement as quite a few women on this thread have said that they bring their own protection to meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I don't see why anyone would go to a meet without carrying.

If the other person doesn't bring em then at least you're covered. If the other person does bring em then you have more to use up... it's a win win!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit. "

Yuk

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

No glove no love..

No excuse unless you exclusive with someone and both been tested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

Yuk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring my own supply too, i think il have to invest in these latex free ones ye speak about tho

We all in a ideal world would love skin on skin but i would like to be around for a good few more years yet,so its glove on here too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bringing condoms to meets not seen as presumptuous? Or are meets guaranteed sex to all involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is bringing condoms to meets not seen as presumptuous? Or are meets guaranteed sex to all involved?"

Bring them.just incase not like Ur gonna be waving them about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There always in my make up kit lol

Haven't used them on a coffee meet but there always in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is bringing condoms to meets not seen as presumptuous? Or are meets guaranteed sex to all involved?

Bring them.just incase not like Ur gonna be waving them about "

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is bringing condoms to meets not seen as presumptuous? Or are meets guaranteed sex to all involved?

Bring them.just incase not like Ur gonna be waving them about "

Oh so you wouldn't open with, 'hey look, I've got some rubbers'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... in this day and age, unless you're in a long term relationship, not covering your pecker is a pretty bad idea. Well, I thought I'd heard all the excuses until last night.

She says to me... I have allergies, condoms give me a rash and make me itch, I have the coil though so its ok!

Obviously, a u-turn was made and sadly I came home with blue balls!

Anyone else heard this before???

I don't think I would have had the will power to stop and head home to be honest; I would have been won over at "I have the coil" - which probably says more about me than I care to admit.

Guess how block lists your gonna be on

Probably, but at least I'm honest about it rather than lying to appear all goodie two shoes in the hope that it earns me browny points for a shag; the amount of men who lie about their condom use out there is unreal - if you play, you should play safety (whatever that means to you and your partner/s) and STI screens should be a regular part of your routine.

I agree plus it's surprising how many guys don't bring condoms to a meet...

Saying that the women are just as bad as the men.

That's hardly a fair statement as quite a few women on this thread have said that they bring their own protection to meets "

And I wasn't referring to any of those women!

But it's like the guy said lots of women think because they are on the coil/pill/ or whatever that it's okay to play away!

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