FabSwingers.com forum: Kik Group Behaviour

By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Is it disrespectful to send Direct Kik messages to ladies that you only know because they are in a Kik Group with you and many other fabbers. You have never met them, never flirted with them in the chat and they never asked in the Chat group could you send them a message directly. You took it upon yourself to fire off a message completely unsolicited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I wouldn't be impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's a no no you ask in chat before pm them! Just plain manners!

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork

"Yep it's a no no you ask in chat before pm them! Just plain manners!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I won't do kik

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

I wouldn't know....im not in any of the kik groups from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a group but left too much bitchyness!would love to join a small flirtatious group!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think to be fair they don't see any wrong in it I've been in a few kik groups and have had pm sent directly. You can either ignore or or what group your in ask for people to stop doing pm

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

Manners thats the problem people dont have them anymore shows no respect for the female they contacted or her man you see it in every day life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are alot of chancers and will do what they like regardless of how disrespectful it is to you or your partner... It's the same when they message a couple profile and completely blank the other half of the couple... I don't entertain that kind of crap, Chris laughs at me because I get annoyed by it but I think respect goes a long way!

I wouldn't like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use kik but not kik groups anymore, it's so annoying this behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latte you should setup a small select group!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Latte you should setup a small select group!

I already have a select group of people I kik

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Is it disrespectful to send Direct Kik messages to ladies that you only know because they are in a Kik Group with you and many other fabbers. You have never met them, never flirted with them in the chat and they never asked in the Chat group could you send them a message directly. You took it upon yourself to fire off a message completely unsolicited?

Thanks"

Yes they see it as a way to get around filters etc

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

For parties beforehand it's nice I say hello or comment pvt, but only send pics if asked or a bit of flirting first.

Just sending one cold is weird, they probably hope for one in return. But it's just rude.

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Latte you should setup a small select group!

I already have a select group of people I kik

Lol....u can kik me anytime!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you get through the audition process latte? Xxx

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I have individuals here that I kik with but I'm not in any group and I find it easier that way..

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I wouldn't do it myself but then nobody has ever done it to me.... Hint..... Hint....

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've uninvited people from parties because of sending unsolicited cock picks to all the women in the pre party Kik group

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I've uninvited people from parties because of sending unsolicited cock picks to all the women in the pre party Kik group "
the great unsolicited dick pic incident still laugh about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol gemna

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Oh and it was 2 messages, around an hour apart, first one was ignored obviously went back for the kill. As anyone knows me, i have no problem with anyone kik chatting to herself once we have met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol sorry peter thought it was Gemma i apologize for my presumption

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Lol sorry peter thought it was Gemma i apologize for my presumption"
ha no problem

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

"I think there are alot of chancers and will do what they like regardless of how disrespectful it is to you or your partner... It's the same when they message a couple profile and completely blank the other half of the couple... I don't entertain that kind of crap, Chris laughs at me because I get annoyed by it but I think respect goes a long way!

I wouldn't like it! "

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Always thought it was disrespectful. On the couple of kik groups and one of the ones with a good mix of people that keep chatting through the day is always dealing with this.

You'll see someone join and within minutes, they'll have PMed every woman in the group, either with a cock pic or asking for nudes.

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I wouldn't do it myself but then nobody has ever done it to me.... Hint..... Hint....

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ahh i will het her to send you one dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol peter can we put in requests? Lol

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By *bitofcraicMan
over a year ago

Mullingar/Athlone/Tullamore/Dublin

Have been in Kik groups before. No longer a believer.

Kik is good for 1-1 communication only.

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

Kik groups ????

I wasn't aware they existed , would explain an lot !!!!

How does one get the golden ticket ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't often get involved in kik groups but when I have they had rules such as live pics when you join and no pms without permission

So depends on the group rules I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awh, poor _ilder, whats your kik and i'll send you a dick pic.

that is what you mean isnt it?

we arent in any groups, (feel left out sniffle sniffle)

but common sense would dictate you at least say hello and ask is it okay before a pm. especially if youve never so much as interacted with the person befre.

same in the chatrooms here sure. we'd not reply to an out of the blue pm if we find ourselves bored and browsing the room.

now in saying that if a female was to send a direct message to Mrs S i dont think either of us would mind so much.

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"I don't often get involved in kik groups but when I have they had rules such as live pics when you join and no pms without permission

So depends on the group rules I guess "

Well the decent ones have rules like that or are private. Without those rules and good moderating. Kik groups just descend into pure silence, broken by the odd bot spam.

It's sad to see proof that anarchy doesn't work.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Always polite to ask first.....would tend to ignore if they havent asked but there are exceptions

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

99% of all pics i recive on kik are of girls pics off the web as soon as i get one of these pics i picture an old man in his underpance knocking one off and they get deleted unless i have just blocked a load of girls sitting at home on the knickers

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

I enjoy kik groups , especially the ones set up just before parties so we can all get know eachother , yes we do get pm's , well mostly me as we both have kik, it can be annoying , but just ingore and dont let it take the fun out of the group just because of a few pm"s , i dont , now is there any cpls groups going

or even an all ladies one lol, im such a chancer

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx"

and i love being in

, it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual

never plan too but it just happens i guess lol

Mrs crazy

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx

and i love being in

, it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual

never plan too but it just happens i guess lol

Mrs crazy

Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.

I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just disrespectful plain and simple happened to me a few times recently.... as laid said it's to get past filters but it's still absolutely ignorant not to ask first in the group if it's ok

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx

and i love being in

, it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual

never plan too but it just happens i guess lol

Mrs crazy

Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.

I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter.

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you have to point out the obvious on this one Peter & Gemma......but don't let it ruin your fun

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx

and i love being in

, it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual

never plan too but it just happens i guess lol

Mrs crazy

Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.

I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter.

Mrs crazy

Sorry for making you so bashful.

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By *he Vanilla ClubCouple
over a year ago

DUBLIN

There is always an admin on kik groups so report them becausrle if they have done it to u, u can be sure they have done it to others and then should get banned from group. Only problem is that they now have ur kik so unless u block them they will still be able to message u. The funny thing is that most that do that are the ones that dont turn up at parties!!!! Maybe thats a good thing haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that you all mention Kik can I join a group haha my Kik is dead boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can choose to ignore or chat so I wouldn't make a song and dance about it. It's easy to block too.

I think women are getting away with worse behaviour of sending unsolicited p.m's on Kik and screen grabbing private mails from fab and sharing them. Respect works both ways so can't say it's just men that's culpable.

It's a great tool in fairness pardon the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol tiny I like your pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can choose to ignore or chat so I wouldn't make a song and dance about it. It's easy to block too.

It's a great tool in fairness pardon the pun

women always get away with more then men.

the pussy pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to add my kik its on my profile lol

I am admin for a kik group and only verified people who read the rules get in the group and everyone is happy.

I recommend have one group for verifying people and a private group that you move the person to when they are verified

Keeps the fakes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the reasons I won't do kik

Reason I deleted mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not sending creepy cocks pics to random strangers what's the bloody point???

but In all seriousness no it's not on, but if they message u to say hello?? Singles guys should follow different rules show some respect and engage when allowed etc.

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"If your not sending creepy cocks pics to random strangers what's the bloody point???

but In all seriousness no it's not on, but if they message u to say hello?? Singles guys should follow different rules show some respect and engage when allowed etc."
you crack me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When's our next dance off ?

Im gonna kik message all the people I don't know just to spite this forum

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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"When's our next dance off ?

Im gonna kik message all the people I don't know just to spite this forum

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soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude ass mofos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i got one the other ngt had only joined the group and sends me private kik asking could we chat get to know each other before the social. Just told him im.sure ill see him on the ngt . That was that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes. "

Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.

Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming

Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.

Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming

Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ...

Chivalry is not dead you know! It's just took a bad beating over time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.

Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming

Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ...

Chivalry is not dead you know! It's just took a bad beating over time

Oh I know it's not dead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why someone can't message you on kik if they can on Fabs.

Don't have a kik name same as your profile if you have a category or certain profiles blocked. That's asking for trouble straight away.

I don't get kik groups before a big party/m&g. You're inviting everyone to message you then.

Use Fabs to keep the comms going, its a great site believe it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes. "

ah i agree, it was just injecting some light heartedness into the topic. there is some truth to it though.

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