FabSwingers.com forum: Public play being spoiled

By *evilinsideme OP Man
over a year ago

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Ok, so single guys getting to close and trying to join in without being asked in a club or party was getting on my nerves the other day.

I like to have fun in public rooms but expect anyone we or she hasn't invited to join in to keep 3-4 feet back and certainly not touching without being asked to join.

Have a wank if you like but not next to her face or mine. We will ask you if we want your help hehe.

What about everyone else. Do you find this a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had this problem at a club a few weeks ago. Lads putting their hands and other body parts in when not invited. Most experienced males don't act like this however, just a small few.

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

This should be brought to the attention of who's running the club nights at the time as rules are set and should be abided by everyone who attends and breaking these rules gets those removed form the premises

It's impossible to keep an eye on everything going on in playrooms so in future events pls go to the hosts they'll deal with it

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By *evilinsideme OP Man
over a year ago

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"This should be brought to the attention of who's running the club nights at the time as rules are set and should be abided by everyone who attends and breaking these rules gets those removed form the premises

It's impossible to keep an eye on everything going on in playrooms so in future events pls go to the hosts they'll deal with it

This isn't about your party petal. There always well run and great fun.

It's a general thing.

Happens everywhere and the organisers always oblige to help. It's just a generalisation about single males. I'm one. I don't do it and don't expect it done to me.

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

It's impossible to keep an eye on everything going on in playrooms so in future events pls go to the hosts they'll deal with it

This isn't about your party petal. There always well run and great fun.

It's a general thing.

Happens everywhere and the organisers always oblige to help. It's just a generalisation about single males. I'm one. I don't do it and don't expect it done to me. "

Oh I know you weren't sexy but it does happen everywhere and it's a shame

Respect is a huge think and guys should respect rules

Your a pure gentleman huni and always welcome to anything we host

xxxx

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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This happened at our very first gathering when we were playing on a full bed. The male of a couple and i use the term couple loosely entered the play room alone which the party rules forbid.

On making two of the girls feel rather uncomfortable one asked him to leave and of course and refused. Total buzz kill but I had to get dressed and shuffle him out of the room trying to avoid things getting out of hand or physical. His "partner" was mortified when I approached later to ask what he was playing at, he wasn't d*unk so I just don't get the mindset of a guy who would do that when asked to leave

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"This happened at our very first gathering when we were playing on a full bed. The male of a couple and i use the term couple loosely entered the play room alone which the party rules forbid.

It's pointless trying to rationalise the actions of a disrespectful moron sadly

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Please don't paint all guys with the same brush though the majority are fantastic lads and drink can have a lot to do with their behaviour

Being at a club a few years back ourselves it was over ran with single lads ones that had just joined the club and not on sites they seamed to think it is a free for all but a NO and told please leave usually works

All we can say is 99% of the lads that have came to our club nights are very well behaved and are told no playrooms unless invited

Try keep things positive as we all know how out of hand forums can get

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

New people not familiar with the rules

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

This is the sort of behaviour I would expect to happen in a sex cinema and the main reason I have no interest in them.

Would hope people in a club or party know how to respect the rules and if not get a ban.

Only way I would try to join in, is by invite and couldnt see myself in the room just watching and wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so single guys getting to close and trying to join in without being asked in a club or party was getting on my nerves the other day.

I like to have fun in public rooms but expect anyone we or she hasn't invited to join in to keep 3-4 feet back and certainly not touching without being asked to join.

Have a wank if you like but not next to her face or mine. We will ask you if we want your help hehe.

What about everyone else. Do you find this a problem? "

Had this sort of behaviour at the last party I attended several months ago. Was introduced to a new couple, and the man promptly grabbed my ass and stuck his tongue in my mouth. I moved away, didn't want to make a scene, but there was no getting away from him. He literally thought it was a free for all and tried to push his way into some group play that was going on, kissing the women and even trying to finger them. I had a word with the person who'd introduced us, and the party host told him he was out of order and I think he was asked to leave. He was a total newbie, but common sense should have told him he couldn't behave the way he did. Even if common sense didn't tell him, women pushing him away and avoiding him should have made it clear.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Single's should not be allowed in play areas unless accompanied by a couple or another single of the opposite sex.

Parties and clubs should be more couple orientated. This would mean single's would have to couple up to get an invite.

It would cut out a lot of messing and would give a fairer chance to genuine single guy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This happened at our very first gathering when we were playing on a full bed. The male of a couple and i use the term couple loosely entered the play room alone which the party rules forbid.

The worst part is you had to get dressed...

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Rules are clearly sent to everyone b4hand but I think when there's a few drinks involved some guys chance their arm more also I think because males pay more into parties they think they're guaranteed action & cross the line when it becomes apparent their not getting any/enough. (Mostly single newbies).

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I thought that single guys were not allowed into the play rooms unless invited . I for one would not carry on like those morons .

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