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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the story over here? Why most of the people here are so up there arse.Are they looking for super models or something?!

At the end of the day we all are here for the same thing.

All this chasing around is bit of frustrating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open? "

Your hidden from me. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe your over confidence is putting people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the story over here? Why most of the people here are so up there arse.Are they looking for super models or something?!

At the end of the day we all are here for the same thing.

All this chasing around is bit of frustrating..."

That seem is YES jjjAre they looking for super models or something?!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Stick to the chase and you'll find all the supermodels your looking for here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very charming thread

Less of the up their own asses talk and be patient

All good things comes to those that wait

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean that people here are easy or obliged to have sex after nothing but a nice message. This goes for the fetish sites too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open? "

Don't be silly...

Closes legs

Ffs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an arrogant asshole, have a bitta manners and you might get a better response. Do you think the world owes you a favour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open?

Don't be silly...

Closes legs

Ffs... "

so much better, feeling all tight, warm and slippery...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beast came out

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By *leasure Inc.Man
over a year ago

Cork

He may be a bit blunt with his observation but i notice a big difference in the site since i joined some months ago. I know females get lots of messages but its now rare to get a polite, not interested. Most of the new females(or are they?)seem not to get photo verified or verified which makes one wonder. Have the Messers taken over....i think the site is gone south and not in a pleasing way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may be a bit blunt with his observation but i notice a big difference in the site since i joined some months ago. I know females get lots of messages but its now rare to get a polite, not interested. Most of the new females(or are they?)seem not to get photo verified or verified which makes one wonder. Have the Messers taken over....i think the site is gone south and not in a pleasing way"

I always try to reply with a simple thank you not interested but when you get barraged with abuse etc sometimes wonder why bother

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"He may be a bit blunt with his observation but i notice a big difference in the site since i joined some months ago. I know females get lots of messages but its now rare to get a polite, not interested. Most of the new females(or are they?)seem not to get photo verified or verified which makes one wonder. Have the Messers taken over....i think the site is gone south and not in a pleasing way

I always try to reply with a simple thank you not interested but when you get barraged with abuse etc sometimes wonder why bother"

This ^^^^^ theres a sheer sense of entitlement on this site which couldnt be further from the truth. The sooner these people cop on, the better the site will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I nearly allways reply with a no thank you but not interested but u still get the same persisting mails from the same person in which they turn round telling u that ur a time wastor

Can u blame women for not mailing back sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may be a bit blunt with his observation but i notice a big difference in the site since i joined some months ago. I know females get lots of messages but its now rare to get a polite, not interested. Most of the new females(or are they?)seem not to get photo verified or verified which makes one wonder. Have the Messers taken over....i think the site is gone south and not in a pleasing way

I always try to reply with a simple thank you not interested but when you get barraged with abuse etc sometimes wonder why bother

This ^^^^^ theres a sheer sense of entitlement on this site which couldnt be further from the truth. The sooner these people cop on, the better the site will be. "

I agree totally with u. I like when the ladies reply. Either yes or no. I think the first sign of a abusive message they should be block. I have never sent abusive message and I still get block. But at the end of the day it's people's choice.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"He may be a bit blunt with his observation but i notice a big difference in the site since i joined some months ago. I know females get lots of messages but its now rare to get a polite, not interested. Most of the new females(or are they?)seem not to get photo verified or verified which makes one wonder. Have the Messers taken over....i think the site is gone south and not in a pleasing way

I always try to reply with a simple thank you not interested but when you get barraged with abuse etc sometimes wonder why bother

This ^^^^^ theres a sheer sense of entitlement on this site which couldnt be further from the truth. The sooner these people cop on, the better the site will be.

I agree totally with u. I like when the ladies reply. Either yes or no. I think the first sign of a abusive message they should be block. I have never sent abusive message and I still get block. But at the end of the day it's people's choice. "

Nobody needs to explain to anyone why theyre not interested. Too old, too young ,too tall, too small, married, attached. Theres loads of possible reasons why women wont meet. Taking it personally is the problem. ( thats not aimed at you either, Im speaking generally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the story over here? Why most of the people here are so up there arse.Are they looking for super models or something?!

At the end of the day we all are here for the same thing.

All this chasing around is bit of frustrating..."

Were you expecting sex on tap? Dail a ride? Unfortunately your mistaken. If that's what your after use tinder or whatever (half the single guys on here use that too according to queens short time on it)

Its that kinda thinking that has made the site suck. Enjoy the rest of your stay. Id say happy fabbing but it looks like its been unhappy for you so far.

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I would suggest is a good piece of advice is for guys to delete any and all sent messages.

Whenever I see people say that their message was deleted without being read or that they didn't even get a 'no thanks', I think the only way you can know that is if you're stalking your own outbox; which isn't healthy.

There's a multitude of reasons that someone may not reply right away nevermind reply at all:

Couples may wait until both have read a message before deciding whether or not to reply.

They may have opened it at an inopportune time to be able to reply properly; work, in public etc. That may be why they remain unread/read for a time even if they're online.

The bottom line is if someone wants to reply, they will. Waiting for them to do so gets you nowhere you're the one that has messaged them after all, nobody is obliged to message back.

As for the OP, generalising that 'we're all on here for the same thing' isn't going to help your cause. All this site is is a platform, how a person decides to use it is up to them; a means to chat to likeminded adults, stay in touch with friends, parties, meets the list is endless.

It's not mandatory to meet nor are you guaranteed to have one simply by being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I would suggest is a good piece of advice is for guys to delete any and all sent messages.

Whenever I see people say that their message was deleted without being read or that they didn't even get a 'no thanks', I think the only way you can know that is if you're stalking your own outbox; which isn't healthy.

There's a multitude of reasons that someone may not reply right away nevermind reply at all:

Couples may wait until both have read a message before deciding whether or not to reply.

They may have opened it at an inopportune time to be able to reply properly; work, in public etc. That may be why they remain unread/read for a time even if they're online.

The bottom line is if someone wants to reply, they will. Waiting for them to do so gets you nowhere you're the one that has messaged them after all, nobody is obliged to message back.

As for the OP, generalising that 'we're all on here for the same thing' isn't going to help your cause. All this site is is a platform, how a person decides to use it is up to them; a means to chat to likeminded adults, stay in touch with friends, parties, meets the list is endless.

It's not mandatory to meet nor are you guaranteed to have one simply by being here."

Voice of sense as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site will never change! It's the way it is, people who are uneducated about Swinging and can't speak to people with some common decency will always join and make things harder for normal nice people! That said no matter how nice you are and how hard you try at times to communicate some people can just be ignorant! saying that there's lots of lovely people here and I'm enjoying getting to know them! Small bit of patience needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how the ladies put up with such crap from some men on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how the ladies put up with such crap from some men on this site."

Must remember it's only male and female profiles on this site. There's no couples or ts/tv that use fabswingers at all at all.

King

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love to know wat all these guys are doing on site if all the ladies are so arrogant. prehaps some should work on there approach

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"id love to know wat all these guys are doing on site if all the ladies are so arrogant. prehaps some should work on there approach"

Theyre trying to get the riode Miz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking"

Don't put all the ladies in the same bucket please ... there are the rare few who don't have " queen " attitude...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id love to know wat all these guys are doing on site if all the ladies are so arrogant. prehaps some should work on there approach

Theyre trying to get the riode Miz "

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

You're right. I have met some nice women here too. To those I apologise. But for many the amount of attention they get here has led to misjudging their own importance and overestimating their qualities ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking"

If we're all so hideous and full of ourselves it's a wonder you're still here

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"You're right. I have met some nice women here too. To those I apologise. But for many the amount of attention they get here has led to misjudging their own importance and overestimating their qualities ..."

Ah i think youre shooting yourself in the foot saying that. Do you not think that you might not be everybodys cup of tea but will be somebodys hot chocolate? Works both ways ye know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking

Don't put all the ladies in the same bucket please ... there are the rare few who don't have " queen " attitude... "

Some deserve to be queens....some deserve to be peasants. Choose your own destiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and one day, you're gonna come across a QUEEN. Her stance will be different, her presence will be felt. She will captivate you

Queen Alex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking

Don't put all the ladies in the same bucket please ... there are the rare few who don't have " queen " attitude...

Some deserve to be queens....some deserve to be peasants. Choose your own destiny "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The choice is simple...if your dissatisfied here no one forces you to stay...

But to be offensive to or about anyone on fab is an exercise in both futility and an appalling lack of respect for others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and one day, you're gonna come across a QUEEN. Her stance will be different, her presence will be felt. She will captivate you

Queen Alex "

Your Majesty

(Bows)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read the OP's post... scanned down to see how long it would be for the first knight in shining armour to be appalled at such an attitude... didn't have to go to far... would rather the OP being honest with his opinion or grievance, whatever it is, than guys playing the game defending the ladies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and one day, you're gonna come across a QUEEN. Her stance will be different, her presence will be felt. She will captivate you

Queen Alex

Your Majesty

(Bows)

"

Welcome to my kingdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha this is hilarious now all the mail and attention the ladies get is gone to all the womens heads

All because they not dropping everything running and spreading their legs every time they get a mail

This site is no different than any other site even though its a swinger site

All men women and couples have a right to meet who they want when they want and how they want without critisim from others

Theres something here for everyone and someone to suit everyone

For the people with the bad attitude change it or just go to another site if yee not happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another who feels 'entitled'!

Maybe this thread should be renamed Fabwhingers for the few who feel let down by the ladies/couples who won't 'spread' at their "wanna fuck" mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the story over here? Why most of the people here are so up there arse.Are they looking for super models or something?!

At the end of the day we all are here for the same thing.

All this chasing around is bit of frustrating..."

Well! Let me tell you what happened....

This guy decided it would be a great idea to get this bird back who turned him down by textually harassing her, she was horrified and kept quiet but of course yer man, now with a spring in his step because he owned that bitch, had to tell his fellow cavemen how good it made him feel inside being a total douche because she didn't know him so there was no comeback.

Not surprisingly the other cavemen wanted this power so like an epidemic they started tapping, soon they were feeding off each others stories, ramping up the rhetoric & ugliness until one day...

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By *leasure Inc.Man
over a year ago

Cork

It's simply nice to be nice,if people have that attitude life is so much easier.....If you wouldn't like it done to yourself,certainly don't do it to others....Happy fabbing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open? "

That would be great Geordie

It would be handy if you could arrange a 2nd lass to be in doggy position somewhere close by so I have somewhere to park the bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing, if someone isnt interested thats their perogative. If they reply with a no thanks,take it as a no thanks and move on. If they dont reply act like a man and take it on the chin,what gives anyone the right to judge others?

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By *ational AdvantageMan
over a year ago

.CK

Totally agree, too many idiots on here, never meet, fake profiles, some want the scumbag look, full of tattoos, then you have them meet-greets run by yolks that can't function without them, all attention seekers.

The few are here for the same things, most are clowns to put it mildly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very charming thread

Less of the up their own asses talk and be patient

All good things comes to those that wait "

This...

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Totally agree, too many idiots on here, never meet, fake profiles, some want the scumbag look, full of tattoos, then you have them meet-greets run by yolks that can't function without them, all attention seekers.

The few are here for the same things, most are clowns to put it mildly. "

Glad to see your in a good mood xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a fantasy land ... with queens and kings .... that's alright ... it's not real...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !"

Swinging is a life style (real) where fantasies can become reality...

We should treat people here with the same respect we treat others outside of fab.

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

Swinging is a life style (real) where fantasies can become reality...

We should treat people here with the same respect we treat others outside of fab. "

And don't forget how respect is earned. It's not automatically given. I've seen too many angry statuses from guys wondering why women aren't fawning at their feet after one message and 10 unflattering cock pics.

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

I have to say, I have only ever had one lady be nasty or disrespectful on here. I understand the no reply due to not liking my profile or sometimes even having so many messages they miss yours.

At parties never had a lady be disrespectful in anyway.

Now guys, I have seen first hand more than I would like to, disgusting behaviour from newbies and experienced guys alike.

Yes you will get messers and fake profiles, mainly made by sad wankers. You will get ignored, or she might like to play with someone else.

Just because she or they once sent you a message doesn't mean your getting your rocks off automatically.

Be nice, be respectful, make an effort and you'll be rewarded with some great memories and experiences.

AND STOP BLOODY MOANING ABOUT IT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chasing around?

Did you think we were all going to be lying here with our legs open? "

I expected them to be like you are in the profile pics geordie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

Swinging is a life style (real) where fantasies can become reality...

We should treat people here with the same respect we treat others outside of fab. "

Some people have no respect for other people's lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple really... 20 men to one woman ratio allows women here to develop beauty queen attitude, often even a very arrogant one. My advice - just go out and meet a lady the old fashion way. Trust me - chances there are much better . And ladies most likely better looking

If we're all so hideous and full of ourselves it's a wonder you're still here "

Brillant

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By *bitofcraicMan
over a year ago

Mullingar/Athlone/Tullamore/Dublin


"I have to say, I have only ever had one lady be nasty or disrespectful on here. I understand the no reply due to not liking my profile or sometimes even having so many messages they miss yours.

At parties never had a lady be disrespectful in anyway.

Now guys, I have seen first hand more than I would like to, disgusting behaviour from newbies and experienced guys alike.

Yes you will get messers and fake profiles, mainly made by sad wankers. You will get ignored, or she might like to play with someone else.

Just because she or they once sent you a message doesn't mean your getting your rocks off automatically.

Be nice, be respectful, make an effort and you'll be rewarded with some great memories and experiences.

AND STOP BLOODY MOANING ABOUT IT! "

Couldn't agree with you more man

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

Swinging is a life style (real) where fantasies can become reality...

We should treat people here with the same respect we treat others outside of fab. "

It's all too easy to see who views it as a lifestyle and who views it as an easy ride.

So easy I wonder how so many people have bad / disappointing experiences....

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim


"I think some expectations of this site fall into porno fantasy land,a hi how's u then the sex starts its just like real life it requires effort !

Swinging is a life style (real) where fantasies can become reality...

We should treat people here with the same respect we treat others outside of fab.

It's all too easy to see who views it as a lifestyle and who views it as an easy ride.

So easy I wonder how so many people have bad / disappointing experiences...."

Bad have been outweighed by the good now, but it looked dodgy there for a while.

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