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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do meet yes

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Well I've had a good few very enjoyable meets from here but nothing too recently. That's not really to do with fab though.

I've just become very lazy and content with posting nonsense in the forums. Can't forget about the time spent perving on pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting ? What's that :0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also had some very good meets

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to."

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting ? What's that :0"

And I thought this was a place where everyone just slated each other!

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?"

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe shake things up a bit on your profile and delete your verification.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

If you were a Fab woman getting 100+ messages a day here, you'd be looking for a message that stands out with something fun or sexy to say...

Between the extremes of being a polite "nice guy" and being a cock pic sending troglodyte is the place to be... where you're articulate to hold a convo yet a little cheeky and naughty too

"Be the flame, not the moth" my friend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades? "

It's so easy to slide into the friendzone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chill and relax it will happen eventually and then you be wondering why you even posted this..

Be respectful to the ladies ittt costs nothing and they appreciate it more than a wanna fuck kinda message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And I thought this was a place where everyone just slated each other!

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Ahaha yeah all we're supposed to do here isn't just Wink, fab pictures and post dick/pussy pics ?

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades?

It's so easy to slide into the friendzone "

Or simply just slide

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades? "

You remember those days eh??

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades?

You remember those days eh?? "

Well not necessarily. Only real experience I have with them is getting strapped into a set when I was 5, then having an "accident" because I couldn't manage to take them off to go to the loo.

Still, the times back then do look better through our rose tinted glasses.

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades?

It's so easy to slide into the friendzone "

Very true but I'll have to motivate myself to push it from friend zone to fwbzone.

Main problem there is that you risk making it laughably awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?

I actually have the opposite problem. Any time I start up a conversation here, we start talking about something completely trivial and unrelated to sex. Then it's a struggle to change that chat into something more adult. You also feel rude for changing topic.

Want to talk about the glory days of roller blades?

It's so easy to slide into the friendzone

Very true but I'll have to motivate myself to push it from friend zone to fwbzone.

Main problem there is that you risk making it laughably awkward."

Nothing ventured....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to warm for coffee anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the odd time

Maybe look at your opening message to the ladies op

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I meet fabbers at my local church xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to."

Are you saying your meet verification is fake?

If it's genuine,then you know people meet.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Yes ppl do met

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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..yep is think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to."

It's the joop best to ditch it. Horrible stuff. Not joking either.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

OP, I don't know what kind of expectation brought on you onti this site but ....

Even tho most here look for casual encounters, sex is still a matter of intimacy and intimacy requires trust . Even most liberal women, who enjoy their sexual liberty want to be sure that they are safe and that meeting anyone is safe and no one wants to expose their life or health at risk . Secondly women have a different approach, they enjoy the variety more then the pursuit, which makes it more complex to unleash their desire. Men approach sexuality mainly with their smaller head , since women have only the one on the neck, attraction and desire need to be triggered by the brain. This is why men watch porn and women read it

And I can assure you if you play your cards well and your first contact pay the appropriate respect as well as the content tickles women's imagination ... you will score a meeting or many thereof

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

We meet a lot, most weeks in fact with her meeting on her own about 75% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how much effort you put in here ... just saying

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Yep effort and reward like most things in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

Are you saying your meet verification is fake?

If it's genuine,then you know people meet."

I think the verification is so bad that I would delete it. Perhaps it's just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! I spoke too soon, it's gone, smart move.

As for the profile, it needs some work. There's very little about it that is attractive. Fair enough OP, you've pointed out you're a good looking guy, but you've failed to excite the imagination. What type of lover are you? What's your idea of a great meet? What do you love about sex? What turns you on when you meet people? Where is you personality in all of this?

If all else fails, look at the profile of successful men on here and figure out the formula. Mimicry, and all that!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm hoping to meet a sexy lil tgurl next Monday night

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton


"Oh! I spoke too soon, it's gone, smart move.

As for the profile, it needs some work. There's very little about it that is attractive. Fair enough OP, you've pointed out you're a good looking guy, but you've failed to excite the imagination. What type of lover are you? What's your idea of a great meet? What do you love about sex? What turns you on when you meet people? Where is you personality in all of this?

If all else fails, look at the profile of successful men on here and figure out the formula. Mimicry, and all that!

"

Chuffin Nora woman, since when do you put all your wares on yoir profile? What happened to the excitement of finding stuff out? Love isn't a case of flicking through hangers on a rail, that's so cold. If you wanna know about someone, interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good review _appypanda.. whatever way u takes dirty,nicely.. these does not work.. just here with many girls. Be yourself. Ask for fun,ask for meet with fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's to warm for coffee anyway "

Good review.. jajajaj yeah. The most girl here ask for coffee meet, they can have coffee in the hotel room a ton of them! Ffs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I don't know what kind of expectation brought on you onti this site but ....

Even tho most here look for casual encounters, sex is still a matter of intimacy and intimacy requires trust . Even most liberal women, who enjoy their sexual liberty want to be sure that they are safe and that meeting anyone is safe and no one wants to expose their life or health at risk . Secondly women have a different approach, they enjoy the variety more then the pursuit, which makes it more complex to unleash their desire. Men approach sexuality mainly with their smaller head , since women have only the one on the neck, attraction and desire need to be triggered by the brain. This is why men watch porn and women read it

And I can assure you if you play your cards well and your first contact pay the appropriate respect as well as the content tickles women's imagination ... you will score a meeting or many thereof"

What a great response...... You really have a good understanding of how the female brain works sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I don't know what kind of expectation brought on you onti this site but ....

Even tho most here look for casual encounters, sex is still a matter of intimacy and intimacy requires trust . Even most liberal women, who enjoy their sexual liberty want to be sure that they are safe and that meeting anyone is safe and no one wants to expose their life or health at risk . Secondly women have a different approach, they enjoy the variety more then the pursuit, which makes it more complex to unleash their desire. Men approach sexuality mainly with their smaller head , since women have only the one on the neck, attraction and desire need to be triggered by the brain. This is why men watch porn and women read it

And I can assure you if you play your cards well and your first contact pay the appropriate respect as well as the content tickles women's imagination ... you will score a meeting or many thereof

What a great response...... You really have a good understanding of how the female brain works sir "

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to meet a sexy lil tgurl next Monday night "

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the social side is more important, the getting to know you bit (to a greater or lesser extent). I'm not wired to just to f**k someone, I, at least, need to know their name and talk to them for five minutes - I use to think something was wrong with me when my mates were telling me how they got up on anything in seconds (I saw a great quote on here on a Galway fella's profile, it went something like "I need a woman to get inside my head, before we go to bed"). The meets I've had with couples have been very organic, something that just happened naturally e.g. with a mate/drinking buddy and his girlfriend/wife etc which sort of became a regular thing. I've never hooked up online to date and I don't expect too much from sites like this; if it happens, it happens.

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By *leasure Inc.Man
over a year ago

Cork

There are some lovely lads on here. Will it get him meets,hell no.

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By *bitofcraicMan
over a year ago

Mullingar/Athlone/Tullamore/Dublin


"OP, I don't know what kind of expectation brought on you onti this site but ....

Even tho most here look for casual encounters, sex is still a matter of intimacy and intimacy requires trust . Even most liberal women, who enjoy their sexual liberty want to be sure that they are safe and that meeting anyone is safe and no one wants to expose their life or health at risk . Secondly women have a different approach, they enjoy the variety more then the pursuit, which makes it more complex to unleash their desire. Men approach sexuality mainly with their smaller head , since women have only the one on the neck, attraction and desire need to be triggered by the brain. This is why men watch porn and women read it

And I can assure you if you play your cards well and your first contact pay the appropriate respect as well as the content tickles women's imagination ... you will score a meeting or many thereof

What a great response...... You really have a good understanding of how the female brain works sir "

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Starting to lose faith on here So so hard to get a meet. Get nasty message for ladies for saying good morning then thay block me. Or just delete me and block me .there looking for same as me.i.am not a bad looking male easy to get on with.can travel to.

I noticed when you mailed me that you directly asked for fun...maybe a less direct approach would be better?"

Yes OP in future ask for sadness as fun is OBVIOUSLY a no-no on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in this site a while and thinking that no one actually meets up myself

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