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ok is this no me being polite or am i going insane ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

look il cut to the chase here it says your from Kildare and I'm in Dublin and il be honest I don't drive and I don't see a future where I do ha your a stunning woman and seem pretty cool but if your not in dub it probably wouldn't work sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to expand on the reason - less is more. Keep it brief, but not personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

look il cut to the chase here it says your from Kildare and I'm in Dublin and il be honest I don't drive and I don't see a future where I do ha your a stunning woman and seem pretty cool but if your not in dub it probably wouldn't work sorry

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Perhaps it's best to communicate this to the person concerned?

Also, where there's a will, there's a way, some people are worth the effort.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Sounds polite enough.

Was there a problem?

I always try remember there is a person on the other side of the messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to expand on the reason - less is more. Keep it brief, but not personal."

Agreed, and if the person starts probing as to why, you know you were right to turn them down politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with what you said OP, perhaps throw something into your profile text about those not from Dublin it may save you time if you feel the need to explain yourself to someone again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice "

Lucky escape then, someone who nuts out at your polite refusal isn't psychologically healthy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice

Lucky escape then, someone who nuts out at your polite refusal isn't psychologically healthy."

that's what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best to avoid excuses, just be upfront that you're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing at all wrong with your reply, however i wouldn't do excuse just be up front as lets face it dub is only up the road from kildare so she knew straight away you pied her

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes you're polite but it's a cheep excuse even after taking into account that we have the worst public transport system in West-Europe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kildare people generally have a chip on their shoulder....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you were right, last thing you wannna be doing is wandering around the curragh at 3 in the morning surrounded by sheep, family pack of condoms in your pocket and a horn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kildare people generally have a chip on their shoulder.... "

Oooh, I sense a juicy story involved here... would you care to spill?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes you're polite but it's a cheep excuse even after taking into account that we have the worst public transport system in West-Europe. "

i know its cheap because I'm broke and cant afford to be going back n forth but its not an excuse its just honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hold on people this was not an excuse I thought she was good looking and a nice girl I just didn't want to travel its an honest reason. the only reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kildare people generally have a chip on their shoulder.... "

is this experience talking ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see anything wrong with what you said OP, perhaps throw something into your profile text about those not from Dublin it may save you time if you feel the need to explain yourself to someone again."
good idea thanks

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