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QotD: Your first meet?

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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow

So what was it like?, did you have fun? Was it awkward? One on one or a group? Did you just talk and have coffee or......

Tell me about it.

Mine was great, just talked over dinner, stayed for hours and had a great laugh, was so much fun I almost missed my bus home

Last QotD was against the rules and got me a 48 hour ban from forums, just for the few of you who care or were wondering if I quit yet.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Local lady who I organised to meet for coffee. Sat and chatted in her car for 5 minutes before she asked "Wanna play then?"

Soon discovered she was kitted out for more than just a cheeky latte. Such a sexy carlsberg meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was great, to an extent! I was a little naive and didn't bother with a coffee meet prior to the fun meet, just went in for the kill so to speak. This really hot guy shows up he was Polish and his English was terrible, my Polish nada which made things awkward so I just got him naked and fucked the night away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was after chatting online to a lady for a bit..she was on a night shift and texted me before she started joking about how shed come over on her way home,so I called her bluff and asked her to come over. She stopped by at 4 am,so we got straight down to business on my living room floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was a guy we had chatted to on kik for ages (he was very patient!!), I met him first for coffee, then the two of us met him for coffee (we were nervous lol), we all got on so well that if I hadn't had to go pick up my kids it would have been straight upstairs to a room in the hotel!!

He kept dropping hints about being free for the afternoon. Met him for play a few weeks later and it was a fun-filled night, surpassed our expectations. You know who you are lol

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

It was with a hot French guy and he was so sensual and sexy.

A fabulous introduction to the swing scene.

Pity he went back to France..

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

As a single, it was by a lake under a star lit sky...

Quit romantic...lol

Became great friends with said girl,

Doesn't all have to be about the sex.

Ollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was actually in the U.K.

God a could eat for 2 days leading up to it lol

Was on some other site other than fab and mainly U.K. People

Turned out to be really decent people think god and had great fun

I still get he ebbie jebies leading up to a meet

But it's part of the thrill sure I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was as part of a different couple. Met a couple from Cork and had a blast. Was introduced to the wand that night. Never met them after though not sure if they still here

Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was an outdoor meet...impromptu hot passion under an old oak tree in a big field...we made love by the light of the moon and all the stars gazed....I grabbed her tightly as her legs flailed ...then all of a sudden she jumped and ran off...I followed and searched for her for ages but it was impossible to tell her from the rest of the 200 sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh our first was Amazing. Mr Fuddy had spoken to me about the idea of having another guy join us for a while so I told him, "don't tell m when , just suprise me"

One night we were having some fun in the bedroom and I heard the door close and a second pair of hands on my body, im sure you can imaging the rest.... It was amazing

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"It was an outdoor meet...impromptu hot passion under an old oak tree in a big field...we made love by the light of the moon and all the stars gazed....I grabbed her tightly as her legs flailed ...then all of a sudden she jumped and ran off...I followed and searched for her for ages but it was impossible to tell her from the rest of the 200 sheep "

Haha

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"It was an outdoor meet...impromptu hot passion under an old oak tree in a big field...we made love by the light of the moon and all the stars gazed....I grabbed her tightly as her legs flailed ...then all of a sudden she jumped and ran off...I followed and searched for her for ages but it was impossible to tell her from the rest of the 200 sheep "

And you've been going back every night since trying to find her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be unlucky so as my first one was a disaster. Had chatted to him for a while and he seemed nice but in reality he was rude and horrible and there was zero attraction, it was all quite awkward but I'm more choosy these days about who I meet after that experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be unlucky so as my first one was a disaster. Had chatted to him for a while and he seemed nice but in reality he was rude and horrible and there was zero attraction, it was all quite awkward but I'm more choosy these days about who I meet after that experience. "

I actually could have written that as my first meet also...turned out to be an ass..threatened to come to my house etc...but my second meet from here restored my faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet from here was in a hotel and we chatted for ages before hand so it all felt very natural - a little nerve wracking but still very hot and enjoyable

Key to success is getting to know the person first, what their likes and dislikes are and not just jumping in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got very lucky My first meet was amazing. Continued to meet over the years. I recently caught up with him and he's still a pleasure to be around all these years later

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My first fab meet was mind blowing and mind altering, an absolute delightful experience with a lovely gentleman who has outstanding skills. The only drawback was we ran out of time after a 3 hours non stop joy but we made it up in further and longer meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet was exciting and even met again

Unfortally he got bold and rude so is now blocked for ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was from a now defunct swingers site. She was playing with her hubbies knowledge. Came over to my apartment had a drink and proceeded to play till all hours. Also had my first anal experience with her. Found her on fab after and we played for a few months until she moved to the states for work purposes.

King

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Mine was a first meet for both of us. we had chatted quite extensively over the weekend and went for a coffee on Monday morning. Clicked very well and even went for a walk and bit of a smooch in a nearby park.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Mine was great, to an extent! I was a little naive and didn't bother with a coffee meet prior to the fun meet, just went in for the kill so to speak. This really hot guy shows up he was Polish and his English was terrible, my Polish nada which made things awkward so I just got him naked and fucked the night away "
and there's the cliche of a tea/coffee first meet out the window lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was from a different site, we knew nothing about coffee meets then lol so went straight for it and our love for mmf was born

Probably the best meet ever for a number of reasons and we still meet up now... When he's in the area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was when i was on before this time talked for a few days meet at hers for tea skipped tea and had the most amazing afternoon was so good we kept doing it for a while and got better each time amazing lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was from another website with two females. We planned to meet at a lounge and had some beers together. Things get spiced up from there with some fondling and groping. We then bought some more beers and straight moved to her flat. They were really a great cum lover. We did it for 5 times and it was my first threesome encounter.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

My 1st meet was a Master aged 61, I was very young and the situation how I came about to be a crossdresser was what prompted me to be submissive. I used to stay at my Uncle's place in Morecambe during the Summer holidays. I would peruse the personals in the porn magazines in his shop and came across a local dom guy. I rang him and we arranged to meet after tslking for quite a while. I arrived, he had bought me an outfit with heels etc and he made me sniff poppers for what seemed like 15 minutes after I got dressed. It was a fantastic time which lead me to be where I am today x still loving wearing stockings

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

My first i walked out on.

Was meeting a woman in a hotel room. When i arrived everything was going ok . In bed then her phone rings. Its her other half. Now i knew she had one so im ok with it. But she starts fighting on phone with him for ages. After a while she hangs up but he rings back 2 min later..same story about 15min of me listening to shit. Then she wispers to me while shes on phone go down on me..now i love giving oral but i was like im hear 30 min and naked beside you and all you have done is fight on phone. Went down on her for id say only 5min still no sign of then phone been hung up so i stopped got up dressed and went..she still never hung up..she sent me message later saying im sorry il be in town later next month but never met her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't quite remember if it was my first swing meet but it is my first memorable meet. Back in 08/09 I got chatting with this girl who was chatting to me through a couples profile.

I remember it was hard to get meets at the time as I was a bit younger but nonetheless I persevered.

After maybe 10 mins chatting.. she asked if I was horny now.. of course I was.. She was a stunning girl fabulous body.. sensational curves and my weakness was she was black. I honestly could not believe my luck and how easy this chat was going.

I had a few hours free in the afternoon the same day and she asked me if I wanted to call for sex.

At this point I said to myself.. shouldn't I be asking her this.. This is going way too easy and if it seems too good to be true it usually is especially in the swing world as I have found out on numerous occassions later.

I had nothing to lose by taking the chance by calling to her so off I went. As I left the house. I got a mail here to say bring me a pressie.

Hmmmmm a pressie is jt I thought. This is a fucking wind up now. I know it is but on the off chance it wasnt I picked up a bottle of wine and chocs. I cant recall if I asked why she wanted a pressie or if she volunteered the info but she wanted the pressie to show her husband what she had got when he got home.

I didnt know at the time I was essentially her bull in a cuck situation. I was a little green to that side of the scene at the time.

This made me believe her more and less at the same time somehow or possibly more accurately my head and heart were now in a tug of war if this was a legit meet or not.

The sensible person in me said it's bullshit .. this "girl" is a scammer. The gambler in me said she is worth the risk.

Down to the house I arrive within I am guessing an hr of starting to talk.

Shitting a brick as I walk up to the address given half expecting either nobody or some old lady to answer the door after me being pranked.

Doorbell goes once... doorbell goes twice. My heart was pounding absolutely pounding at this stage. No answer.

Fucking bitch.. I've been conned !!! Fuming.. then as I think about ringing a 3rd time a female calls out "2 minutes love nearly ready".

I was nervous she was a con artist. Now I was nervous that she wasn't as I had built myself up to be disappointed. Adrenalin kicking in also at this stage .

Duly waited the minute or two... next the frosted glass front door had its curtain behind adjisted for her to see me.

She opened the door to me and yes... yes .. yes... fucking yes !!!! The woman that answered the door was the girl in the pics. She had an amazing body. She amswered in bra .. panties and fuck me boots.

Seriously.. I am thinking to myself this is like the movies at this stage. She says "what are you waiting for come in , you're "x" right"? Yes , I most certainly am I reply. I walked in the hallway saying to myself "this is actually happening to you, this is the fucking shit".

She brought me into her front room where there was a mattress on the floor and condoms. She was thrilled with her wine and chocs. I asked whats the need for those honestly ?

She said I like to humiliate my hubby when he comes home from work by showing him what the guus who I fuck bring me.

Speechless and effortlessly turned on all at once I was.

We fucked and chatted for a couple of hours . She wouldnt fuck me in her and her partners bed.. just im the living room. I remembet still her pussy glistening after cumming. Her gorgeous curly black hair.. her flawless black skin. She had long nails she dug into me as we fucked. She was an English girl and had a cockney accent. She was an animal in the sheets and an absolute lady to chat to.

I would have submitted as her life long slave that day if she asked. From then I was hooked on swinging. She left for the uk a month or two later so we never hooked up again butI cannot thank her enough for the 7* intro she gave me to the swing scene.

Miss London or whatever your name was I salute you and your precious gift of your time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 3 months ago. I tried to play it cool didn't want to come across as a total noob, but then shit went sideways real quick. Met couple at the hotel room . Offered drugs I have never used in my life (peer pressure is real lol) then the husband started feeling like he needed to make some kind of stupid power play. His wife wanted to fuck, I wanted to fuck he was like no she doesn't fuck on the first date. I said fine. She paid more attention to me than him, he was clearly getting irritated. By now all this tension in the room and being so uncomfortable around such a copious amount of drugs had me go limp asf. I made up a reason to go to the bathroom. I looked at myself in the mirror wondering is this really happening lol. While I was in the bathroom a knock on the main door. 2 new couples walk in one of them is blind d*unk. We sit and chat for a while. Then they all start to partake in the sniffles. 2 of the wives start to fondle me. I could not get hard. It was too much. Sensory overload! I duck out soon after. Since then meets have been trending upwards in terms of quality and experience, but I will never forget that night.

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By *penminded28500Man
over a year ago

derry

Mine was with a friend on here. After a lot of talking i finaly built up the curidge and aranged to pick him up in my car. Talked while we drove up to a mountain was dark and mid winter. Pulled over at the side of the road and i had him lick and tease giving me oral. I tried sucking wanking and sucking/licking on his balls. Was the first time i had touched a guys body in anyways for about 10years really enjoyed and have been meeting him a number of times and would him a good friend.

He reads it he will know who he is lol

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