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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In case ur intereted I did a quick breakdown of whose near me now ... just goes to show ... ur thoughts

37 guys

5 couples

3 girls

3 TV

Do it yourself and let us know ur results

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By *ritz860Man
over a year ago

Galway/Clare/Limerick

That's a fair sausage fest...

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Yep I'm the same out of the 30 people near me now 29 are men and just one couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

38 men

7 couples

3 TV's

1 female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some perfect ratios in your pic there op!

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By *alwaygirlpWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

25 men

5 couples

2 women

Now I know not everyone uses location settings but still, like my profile says, guys have to make an effort. A "nice pics" message can easily get disregarded. It's tough but most definitely a numbers game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 - Male

1 - Female

2 - TV

7 - Couple

seems fairly even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then "

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad... "

Sounds like my kinda night DH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad... "

Well all the posts above would indicate it's more like 20 to 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 men

2 women

9 cpls

2 tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time u ever tried this there were 49 men and one woman....

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By *waneyMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad...

Sounds like my kinda night DH "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are most of the guys are fakes, attached, perves, pic collectors and fantasists. But alas that's just the way it is. Funny thing is they mostly have free accounts so not sure why the site doesn't try and them out.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad...

Well all the posts above would indicate it's more like 20 to 1"

I counted all the men including males of couples and I counted all the women including female of couples, then I divided the amount of male by the amount of women and out came a ratio 5:1. Simple primary school maths.

Ok I neglected the TS/TV, that's a tricky one to count in.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Nah not that simple...

Many of the couples not looking for single males so automatically a number of them have to be excluded and then there are all those females that are "not meeting at the moment" or playing with only the one guy or the couples that only meet couples.

I think you will find the ratio is much higher than 5 / 1 but you would have to take into account what people are looking for.

And thats before you get into the Bi / Fab straight and the TV's / Ts..

But it's what makes the place interesting and stops it from ever being boring.

Either way the Women are always going to be more in demand. Thats why they are called Unicorns ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a fair sausage fest..."
all the more sausage for me.. Jen

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Nah not that simple...

Many of the couples not looking for single males so automatically a number of them have to be excluded and then there are all those females that are "not meeting at the moment" or playing with only the one guy or the couples that only meet couples.

I think you will find the ratio is much higher than 5 / 1 but you would have to take into account what people are looking for.

And thats before you get into the Bi / Fab straight and the TV's / Ts..

But it's what makes the place interesting and stops it from ever being boring.

Either way the Women are always going to be more in demand. Thats why they are called Unicorns ... "

You could also argue that there are single guys on here just perv-wanking pics and those that never meet because of cold feet and those with multiple troll profiles etcetera. Yes I agree it's not that easy but it gives you an idea.

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By *essie1Couple
over a year ago

kildare

42 males

7 cpls

1 woman

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

41 males

5 couples

2 ladies

1 TV

Does this search factor in those fabbers with hidden profiles , I'm sure there are loads more girls hidden than lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In case ur intereted I did a quick breakdown of whose near me now ... just goes to show ... ur thoughts

37 guys

5 couples

3 girls

3 TV

Do it yourself and let us know ur results"

Pretty much the same results with the same people

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By *unfanaghyladMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"In case ur intereted I did a quick breakdown of whose near me now ... just goes to show ... ur thoughts

37 guys

5 couples

3 girls

3 TV

Do it yourself and let us know ur results"

While the ratio seems bad for men to meet women the actual is different. Most them are gay judging by how many messages i get from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we are ratio is always fairly similar

9 couples

2 females

1 TV

18 men

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

need more women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

need more women "

Clubs are plenty of women, pubs are plenty of women.... POF or a tinder are plenty of women... Fab has couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42 men

7 couples

1 tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv"

What's On?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On? "

Corrie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On?

Corrie"

Meh

What about the other side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On?

Corrie

Meh

What about the other side?"
masterchef USA.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On?

Corrie

Meh

What about the other side? masterchef USA......."

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On?

Corrie

Meh

What about the other side? masterchef USA.......

Ffs

"

And now a BB eviction.

No women around for at least the next hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad...

Well all the posts above would indicate it's more like 20 to 1

I counted all the men including males of couples and I counted all the women including female of couples, then I divided the amount of male by the amount of women and out came a ratio 5:1. Simple primary school maths.

Ok I neglected the TS/TV, that's a tricky one to count in. "

That's a lot of effort to go to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 men

7 couples

1 tv

What's On?

Corrie

Meh

What about the other side? masterchef USA.......

Ffs

And now a BB eviction.

No women around for at least the next hour"

and now the one on it is trying to lick her own nipple, there will be no men ere either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 men

4 women

5 couples

4 TV/TS

M'well, could have been worse

That's a lot of dudes tho, oh wait....i am one dude too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is so frustrating, I thought all the BS in the paper might make more women curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 men

5 women

5 couples

1 tv

It's bananas

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

men 35

women 4

cpls 7

tvs 2

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By *unfanaghyladMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"35 men

5 women

5 couples

1 tv

It's bananas "

Tell the 5 women and 5 couples to contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just face it, women don't want casual sex as much as men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just face it, women don't want casual sex as much as men"

I think it's more about women having the guts to be there ? Not that all the women not being here are cowards, don't get me wrong please.

But with our society, women that assume their love for sex are often seen as sluts, so i think there you go we have the answer to the why.

In my humble opinion of course (imho ofc )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In case ur intereted I did a quick breakdown of whose near me now ... just goes to show ... ur thoughts

37 guys

5 couples

3 girls

3 TV

Do it yourself and let us know ur results"

It's a woman's pot of gold on here. The woman has her pick! The men are made look desperate haha.. aw well.. it's fun "trying" to get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just face it, women don't want casual sex as much as men

I think it's more about women having the guts to be there ? Not that all the women not being here are cowards, don't get me wrong please.

But with our society, women that assume their love for sex are often seen as sluts, so i think there you go we have the answer to the why.

In my humble opinion of course (imho ofc )"

Nah sorry man, still not buying that. There's no way that could explain the disparity in numbers.

In General, women want more than casual sex. In General, men just want casual sex. It's what separates the genders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nah sorry man, still not buying that. There's no way that could explain the disparity in numbers.

In General, women want more than casual sex. In General, men just want casual sex. It's what separates the genders"

So women wants less sex ? I don't buy that either ahah :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nah sorry man, still not buying that. There's no way that could explain the disparity in numbers.

In General, women want more than casual sex. In General, men just want casual sex. It's what separates the genders

So women wants less sex ? I don't buy that either ahah :P"

I didn't sat that. I said women want MORE than casual sex which is why there's not nearly as many of them on sites like this compared to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people here would argue with a brick wall if they were let

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I didn't sat that. I said women want MORE than casual sex which is why there's not nearly as many of them on sites like this compared to men"

Oh yes my bad i went dumb on this one. But i still don't buy it, to me women and men are only different in a physical manner, but hey i might be wrong.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

47 men

2 tv

1 couple

I'm out numbered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in the interest of lads to show their location, not in the interest of couples and single females as such, so it's only to be expected that you will see the ration that you do. I would be pleasantly surprised if it was the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ratio is gone ridiculous and off putting. Needs to be a limit put on unverified people.

Out of 10.

1 couple - unverified

1 ts/tv

8 men - 5 of which unverified

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I don't know what the problem is the ratio of men to women has always been high you just have to put some effort in and reap the rewards

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By *ardandmeanMan
over a year ago

carlow

22 sheep

10 cows

3 camels

I need to move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure what chance have i got then? so on an average its a ratio of about 10 guys to one female, its near impossible then

My maths tell me roughly 5 men per 1 woman, it's not too bad...

Sounds like my kinda night DH "

I like ur thinking goldie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 men

6 couples

1 female

And me

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm in Italy, with GPS turned on and it's telling me that the nearest is in Kildare!

Thankfully home in a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 men

1 female

1 couple

1 tv

And our good selfs

Shame the 22 males wont meet us all at once imagine that dam be hot

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"I'm in Italy, with GPS turned on and it's telling me that the nearest is in Kildare!

Thankfully home in a few days "

So no fabbers in between John...Feck I better cancel my holiday if there's no action in between xx

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I'm in Italy, with GPS turned on and it's telling me that the nearest is in Kildare!

Thankfully home in a few days

So no fabbers in between John...Feck I better cancel my holiday if there's no action in between xx "

So it appears Rowdy. Having said that, the instructions for changing/updating location on the Search Who's Near don't make sense to me, so it's possible it might be worth a European road trip if that was corrected

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that "

What does that have to do with the topic of this thread? And it's a very sweeping statement

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

What does that have to do with the topic of this thread? And it's a very sweeping statement "
reason why there is alot less women on site to men. why do you think there is such contrast in numbers? I maintain even alot of the women on site can't do simply casual and want something regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

What does that have to do with the topic of this thread? And it's a very sweeping statement reason why there is alot less women on site to men. why do you think there is such contrast in numbers? I maintain even alot of the women on site can't do simply casual and want something regular "

Another sweeping statement. Men can be as clingy

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

What does that have to do with the topic of this thread? And it's a very sweeping statement reason why there is alot less women on site to men. why do you think there is such contrast in numbers? I maintain even alot of the women on site can't do simply casual and want something regular

Another sweeping statement. Men can be as clingy"
I wouldn't know anything about men...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

there has to be some explanation for the difference in numbers on the site. I just gave my opinion on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there has to be some explanation for the difference in numbers on the site. I just gave my opinion on it."

Rakes of unfaithful men who are actually married/in a relationship. There's my opinion on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon if u go to supposedly dating sites the ratio is the same as here.will never be a explanation for it.maybe men extra horny and bored.dont think its that women cant do casual like men do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reckon if u go to supposedly dating sites the ratio is the same as here.will never be a explanation for it.maybe men extra horny and bored.dont think its that women cant do casual like men do "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reckon if u go to supposedly dating sites the ratio is the same as here.will never be a explanation for it.maybe men extra horny and bored.dont think its that women cant do casual like men do

Agree "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reckon if u go to supposedly dating sites the ratio is the same as here.will never be a explanation for it.maybe men extra horny and bored.dont think its that women cant do casual like men do "

If they could or if they wanted To, then there would be more of them here. Theres no mystery to this...the numbers don't lie

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Reckon if u go to supposedly dating sites the ratio is the same as here.will never be a explanation for it.maybe men extra horny and bored.dont think its that women cant do casual like men do

If they could or if they wanted To, then there would be more of them here. Theres no mystery to this...the numbers don't lie"
exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fact that there are other ways to get laid besides going on fab accounts for a huge chunk of the difference.

I don't think in 2017 Ireland women are shy about embracing their sexuality or the perception of that

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I think the fact that there are other ways to get laid besides going on fab accounts for a huge chunk of the difference.

I don't think in 2017 Ireland women are shy about embracing their sexuality or the perception of that "
its like one poster said on this thread already. it's what women are labelled etc for embracing casual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those days are mostly gone.

Anyway guys aren't singing from the rooftops that they are on fab so perception is a minor factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that "

I dare to doubt that very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

I dare to doubt that very much"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of women can't do the no strings casual thing, alot of men can. simple as that

I dare to doubt that very much"

Once again, the numbers indicate otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also stating the obvious that the people who are on this site are exceptions to a rule

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