FabSwingers.com forum: QaD: Can/ can't accommodate

By *oby.moby OP Man
over a year ago

waterford

What are your opinions across the board now.

What are your preferences, home or hotel.

Who do you expect to aconodate?

If hotel who do you think should pay or do you share?

If home do you expect to stay over?

Interesting g to hear different opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't expect anyone to accommodate. That would be just arrogant.

The rest all depends on the situation and who you're meeting.

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By *oby.moby OP Man
over a year ago

waterford

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times. "

If you both date the hotel who gets to sleep out in the room? Not everyone stays till the morning I would presume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times.

If you both date the hotel who gets to sleep out in the room? Not everyone stays till the morning I would presume? "

That all depends on what is arranged, most of my meets have stayed for brekkie

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By *oby.moby OP Man
over a year ago

waterford

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times.

If you both date the hotel who gets to sleep out in the room? Not everyone stays till the morning I would presume?

That all depends on what is arranged, most of my meets have stayed for brekkie

Brekkie in bed and fun before and after. Me like it

Maybe squeeze a quicky before checking out?

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By *leasureSeeker2017Man
over a year ago

half way between cork and limerick

accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

maybe I'm not reading between the lines but if you can't do one or the other how the hell are you meant to play? whats the point in being here, just curious, maybe someone who has this on their profile might be able to enlighten me,,, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

Perhaps a filter to prevent people 100+ miles away from messaging expecting them to meet.

They could meet in clubs, attends socials and parties. Hotels even.

They could not be meeting at all and just using the site to stay in touch in friends or be taking a break.

They could even just have access to public transport and don't wish to sound reliable with travelling because of the outside factors that could occur.

Plus there's always round the back of the shed, who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't expect anyone to accommodate. That would be just arrogant.

The rest all depends on the situation and who you're meeting. "

I wouldn't expect anyone to accom either. It rather irritates me when on the meets section someone posts to meet at your place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

I have both these on my profile. It just means hotel meets, not too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander? "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander?

Absolutely"

Would you not drop that age bracket and I'd gladly accommodate you

For a bottle of bud and twiglets of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

Perhaps a filter to prevent people 100+ miles away from messaging expecting them to meet.

They could meet in clubs, attends socials and parties. Hotels even.

They could not be meeting at all and just using the site to stay in touch in friends or be taking a break.

They could even just have access to public transport and don't wish to sound reliable with travelling because of the outside factors that could occur.

Plus there's always round the back of the shed, who knows

Back of the shed for a quickie Pete?

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

I have both these on my profile. It just means hotel meets, not too far away"

But you have travelled for socials, could mean in your case that you don't drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"accommodation is something to be worked out between the people involved , many factors to take into account,

anyone able to clarify the reason behind having on ones profile

CANT ACCOMMODATE

CANT TRAVEL

I have both these on my profile. It just means hotel meets, not too far away

But you have travelled for socials, could mean in your case that you don't drive."

Yep, I've no car

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By *oby.moby OP Man
over a year ago

waterford

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander? "

I mean we all here for the same so we all should think and plan the meet and accommodation. Is not that anyone is doing anyone else a favour by meeting, it's all mutual therefore both parties need to get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's often an assumption that if you can't accommodate that you're married...

Hotels are a great neutral place for meets...plus someone else does the breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's often an assumption that if you can't accommodate that you're married...

Hotels are a great neutral place for meets...plus someone else does the breakfast

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...and the laundry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's often an assumption that if you can't accommodate that you're married...

Hotels are a great neutral place for meets...plus someone else does the breakfast

...and the laundry

And the room service...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's often an assumption that if you can't accommodate that you're married...

Hotels are a great neutral place for meets...plus someone else does the breakfast

...and the laundry

And the room service..."

And it confines my removed clothes to one room, so easier to find

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By *leasureSeeker2017Man
over a year ago

half way between cork and limerick

"I have both these on my profile. It just means hotel meets, not too far away"

thats exactly my point, you know what you mean by it but unless someone makes a good guess then how is anyone else meant to know what you mean. unless it is stated on the profile which for many it is not. just trying to say there is not many mind readers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't expect anyone to accommodate. That would be just arrogant.

The rest all depends on the situation and who you're meeting.

I wouldn't expect anyone to accom either. It rather irritates me when on the meets section someone posts to meet at your place "

whoa, there's a meet section???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander?

Absolutely"

Don't agree at all.

So just because a person can't/wont accommodate it means that they shouldn't be looking for those who can.... why is that double standards? That's just looking to see who can help them where they cant do it themselves. Surely is an option.

I have a cock and so looking for someone without one is having double standards according to that thinking...really?

If someone can't accommodate there's nothing wrong with asking only those who can to get in touch. It seems those who can't want some of their pie but because they also can't accommodate feel a bit left out.

Why do the Irish seem to always have such closed and narrow way of seeing that we all have choices and filters....and if those don't fit into our own then it's got to be wrong.

There's plenty of options out there for everyone, no one's entitled to anyone else nor should one expect to be. Just find someone who fits your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So its ok if someone cant accomodate but ok only to meet those who can.is that not a cheap way out of paying halfs for a hotel room??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So its ok if someone cant accomodate but ok only to meet those who can.is that not a cheap way out of paying halfs for a hotel room??

Can be seen like that I guess...or maybe they're struggling financially for whatever reason and hotel costs aren't cheap. I rarely meet in a hotel, (only do it now if I'm away from home and know the other person well enough), it's for a couple of reasons. I've been stung with a few no shows and had to cough up hotel costs.

Maybe they're uncomfortable with hotel meets as for some feel it's a been seedy (call girl style)

Anyone that I've met and stayed over night with usually has a free dinner and few drinks. Some have had cooked breakfast in bed... Some have even had their shower/ washing machine fixed, curtain rails put up or sinks unblocked. I'll be fixing up old properties soon...

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By *otre PlaisirCouple
over a year ago

Enniscrone

When i was single i accomodated for any of my meets but its a lot of work and was left feeling like it ended up being a very cheap

Weekend for the guy . As i cooked provided drinks etc and the same person came to my home a couple of times . Was never invited for a night away as a return so i stopped . Also left me very vunerable as my privacy and life opened . So while im not a fan of hotel meets unless favour can be returned not accomodating at my home anymore

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

What does QaD mean, sorry , saw it a few times now and need to know

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I mostly pay myself unless i want the person to stay over then i'll come to an arrangement. Im too independent to expect the bloke to pay if they dont stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets may be seedy to some but they are safer in other ways and more neutral.

And yes ur leaving urself open to trouble to who u let in to ur home unless u know him or her very well.

I have had fellas mail me asking can i accomodate and when replied no am asked can i ever accomodate.never heard from them again simply because i cant accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can never accom as we live with family.. hotels we pay half the bill in gangbangs an groups the bill is split thats first thing before any fun is to be had.. but 9 times out of 10 where outdoors so its all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have both these on my profile. It just means hotel meets, not too far away

Simple, they ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander?

Absolutely

Don't agree at all.

I have a cock and so looking for someone without one is having double standards according to that thinking...really?

Why do the Irish seem to always have such closed and narrow way of seeing that we all have choices and filters....and if those don't fit into our own then it's got to be wrong.

There's plenty of options out there for everyone, no one's entitled to anyone else nor should one expect to be. Just find someone who fits your needs.

I'm not Irish so I guess its not only them

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times. "

I would never expect a women to pay if I started the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times.

I would never expect a women to pay if I started the conversation "

If both stay all night i always want to share the cost, it's only fair

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Hotels, never at home, both share the cost although I have been stung to pay it myself a few times.

I would never expect a women to pay if I started the conversation

If both stay all night i always want to share the cost, it's only fair"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rather split the bill.

from our experience "can't accomadate" means the person is attached and try to hide the fact.

We have kids so "can accommodate" means going halves with the hotel room.

We have men looking to buy gifts for my wife what's with that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is women that have can't accommodate, but also have in there profile if you can't accommodate don't bother messaging, surely what's good for the goose is good for the gander? "

Not always the woman... Seem to recall reading a male profile some time ago saying that he doesn't accommodate, won't pay for hotel and if female can't accommodate there's no point in meeting.

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